r/men • • Dec 02 '25

“I know what NOT to do, what should I actually DO?” — a short primer for being publicly charming as a dude

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r/men • • 10h ago

I wasn't going to post anything about this here but this is just terrible!!! 😅 You can't make it up

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r/men • • 1h ago

Activism (F25) Male Virgins Only

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I have to admit something, I am a true and firm believer in the fact that everyone should experience sex at least once in their life.

I’ve sadly found out this isn’t a reality, so I’ve decided to do something.

For the next 5 hours anyone who messages me and says they’re a virgin, I will send them my nudes.

I know it doesn’t fully make up for it, but I would still like to help in some way that I can.

With that in mind I expect manners like please and thank you, as well as patience, I predict there will sadly be a quite a few people asking for them, it will include a picture of my boobs and my ass.

For the record, no I’m not a OF model, no I’m not a prostitute and no I’m not not transgender. I’m just someone trying to help out.

Anyone is welcome as long as your above 18 which you have to be to view my page.


r/men • • 13h ago

How can be mentally strong while fulfilling his responsibilities as the man of the house?

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r/men • • 1d ago

Masculinity peak life

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a kg of lasagna and a peak game


r/men • • 1d ago

The Forced Circumcision of Boys: Mutilation or Benign Tradition?

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Circumcision is usually framed as a joke or topic beyond criticism. But what if we take it seriously? Then it becomes clear that this is genital mutilation of babies and boys who could not have possibly consented to it. Full free article here.


r/men • • 1d ago

Question Why do I feel horny like 24/7

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M19. It’s started about a month ago, whenever I walk around town or even at home I tend to get hard a lot and I feel very dirty about it and I have a lot of dirty thoughts. I used to have an addiction to adult material but now it doesn’t faze me anymore but whenever it comes to talking to a girl in the bar my mind just goes blank.


r/men • • 1d ago

MENtal health Happy sad

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Guys, I think I feel the happy sad now.

I short I have parents who don't necessarily abuse me but they make fun of me and force me to overwork myself for better grades. They also made me develop Stockholm syndrome at some point which only fixed itself after I got my first girlfriend, since I understood that wanting the best for someone isn't the only love you can get.

I got a girl best friend 2 years ago, let's call her Ella. Ella is an abused girl who had a rough childhood and became a sort of tomboy so to speak, but she was nerdy enough to go to the same fantasy convention as me on one specific day, and we started talking. We then started meeting up... She became my best friend almost like a sister.

She also became my therapist, she was there for me at my highest and lowest and we are still inseparable.

Starting the story i had a bad argument with my parents because my grades started dropping due to having a new school. I'm not much of a guy to fight back so I always lost which frustrated me. I cried my eyes out to my best friend over text for 2 days, (in short I also was very suicidal at one point in my life and now I was also being suicidal and self-destructive).

This angel gave me 4 words that felt so genuine, that I haven't felt in 5 years.

"I'm proud of you"

I never got validation from my parents cause my grades were always overshadowing me... Thus I broke down crying, multiple times... Now I'm in bed, and thinking. I feel happy cause I finally got the validation I was yearning for, for half a decade. But i also feel sad cause it was my best friend and not the people I wanted to hear it from. Is this normal? Should I feel this way? How should I feel? I never felt something like this.


r/men • • 2d ago

MENtal health How to stop hating myself?

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I hate myself, i look absolutely dogshit and i feel like \* all the time. I have zero self esteem in any way and my lifes just going shit and i got no friends. Im 24 and a virgin and i just hate it. Im an absolute loser.


r/men • • 2d ago

Discussion Why Modern Dads are so Tired and why that’s actually Beautiful

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r/men • • 2d ago

Question for/about guys who are 5,2 to 5,3 not more not less

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Have you guys seen any player/play boy kind of guy who are 5,2 to 5,3 are you a player or have you seen guys like that if then share the experience and tips


r/men • • 2d ago

MENtal health 40 M Noida

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At this stage of my life, I’m not looking for physical intimacy. I’m looking for genuine care, emotional connection, warm cuddles, and someone who makes me feel loved, understood, and at peace. ❤️ Sometimes, a comforting hug means more than anything else. How many people of my age are looking for the same and are in a toxic relationship.


r/men • • 3d ago

Any ideas of the best sneakers I can get for my bf for Christmas ?

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Hello everyone, I’m wanting to get some new trainers for my boyfriend for Christmas but this is the first time I’ve actually had a partner at Christmas to buy anything for. The best I can describe his style is like skater streetwear style with graphic tees and baggy jeans. Please leave some suggestions. I’m wanting to get him something more than just black and white trainers but instead soemthing with a little more colour but I also know this can be more risky if he’ll like them or not 😂 please help.


r/men • • 3d ago

Any ideas of the best sneakers I can get for my bf for Christmas ?

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Hello everyone, I’m wanting to get some new trainers for my boyfriend for Christmas but this is the first time I’ve actually had a partner at Christmas to buy anything for. The best I can describe his style is like skater streetwear style with graphic tees and baggy jeans. Please leave some suggestions. I’m wanting to get him something more than just black and white trainers but instead soemthing with a little more colour but I also know this can be more risky if he’ll like them or not 😂 please help.


r/men • • 3d ago

Can anyone help me decide whether my ex was gay or not? I have lots of people telling me he might be but I’m having a hard time seeing it.

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The sex was always very rushed and as if he was only there in body, not soul. He never cared to make out. And definitely didn’t like eating me out.

When we first got married, I would walk around the house without any clothes on. This bothered him so he sat me down and scolded me for doing so. He said it left nothing to the imagination.

We both grew up in a high control religion, that openly hates gay people. So he was constantly complaining about gays, like when a gay couple showed up on tv. It got so annoying and I had to tell him that we are living in progressive times and need to accept things.

One day I asked him if he likes men. He slowly smiled and said no :)

I was shocked by his nonchalant reaction. He didn’t seem offended or anything, especially considering his repulsion towards gay people. I kept asking are you sure? And he even said I don’t like penis and laughed. It took a while to finally get him upset by pushing questions on him. He finally exploded and left the house, slammed the car door and sped out to go get food. I was left shaken up as he never ever reacts this way.


r/men • • 4d ago

What’s the best deodorant

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I have a question for other guys who experience this too. Recently I started a new medication that causes me to sweat more than normal even when it’s cold and i already feel as if I sweat enough but just curious to see if there’s anything out there deodorant or some sort personal care item that helps with this as it kinda affects my day and I’d prefer not to have to take a medication for that too bc i already have enough as it is. Any help would be greatly appreciated.


r/men • • 4d ago

what changed you appearance from a below average looking guy to a much better position?(tried gym but couldn't gain muscle because of lack of protein in diet and as a student protein is expensive)(confidence lacks because of looks, I can't gain confidence without something to rely on)

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r/men • • 4d ago

Discouraged and Feeling Down - Story and Muses About Dating

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r/men • • 4d ago

Who do you think is the GOAT of men? I'll go first:

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r/men • • 5d ago

What does you’re cute mean?

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r/men • • 5d ago

MENtal health My sister... NSFW

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NSFE tag for SA mentions:

Today the ice cream truck drove by our house and my sister (about 10 years old) was a bit wary because we had told her about how people would use these to lure kids in for SA, however she still went over, when went outside because she called us to ask for money we asked why she still went up to it and her reasoning was simply "it's a girl so i was safe" and that really stung because even my 10 year old sister thinks that men are the only bad guys


r/men • • 6d ago

Question Guys ,what's something society expects from you that nobody talks about?

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I feel like there are certain expectations for men that we don't talk about enough.

Whether it’s having to stay strong when things fall apart, having your life together by a certain age, being the breadwinner, or dealing with issues without showing any emotion.

I’m curious to hear your take.

What’s one expectation you’ve faced as a guy that people don't really get?


r/men • • 5d ago

Do you experience more conflicts with your SO after you had sex?

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r/men • • 6d ago

My Acceptance Of The Male Fate.

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r/men • • 6d ago

Men being men What's the most embarrassing thing you've ever done to impress a girl who didn't even like you back? 💀😭 Drop your stories in the comments

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