First of all, I can't remember dates with my younger memories but I think that's partially because the date just didn't matter to me at the age I was. Who knows the date when they are two? The older I get, the more common it is that people(husband) don't remember details about really cool fun experiences we had together. Not to mention, the not fun arguments I also remember. I can forgive everyone else for forgetting the arguments, that's understandable. All of my friends and family not remembering the happy moments without photos is heart breaking.
My parents were somewhat neglectful so maybe that has an effect but I never went hungry or was beat anything other than spanking. Normal 90's stuff ya know?
I am an only child. I started talking very early. I have always been linguistically talented. I'm good at talking and pronouncing things. I actually have dyslexia however, so I struggled with reading/writing and math at first but once I found my strategies I quickly became average at math and ended up Advanced at English. I have had a professional IQ test recently which still confirms that(BTW, get your IQ tested guys just in case you get a TBI in an accident someone else causes). I'm not a genius unfortunately.
I was potty trained before 2 years old and I remember being potty trained.
I remember going to a home daycare at 3. I remember transferring to a facility daycare at 3.5. I remember the roads my mom drove to both places. I remember the name of my home daycare teacher. I remember the names of the kids there too. I remember what we ate. Obviously I was there Monday through Friday. I could definitely tell you if it was a Monday or a Friday, Saturday or Sunday. I remember feeling excited on the Friday days and sad on Mondays. That's the thing, I can remember the day of the week from a much younger age than the dates.
My best friend whom, I've known since I was 5 does not remember meeting me.
I could go on and on. As a younger person, I just always thought people didn't remember as well as me because they hadn't caught up to me yet? Now that I'm older, 35... My friends can't even remember details about teenage years where I would think that their memories should have been fully established. I wish I could forget a lot of my teenage years, but that's not who I am I guess.
My memories are almost always inspired by sight, then sound(I have perfect pitch if that matters), then touch, occasionally by smell but smell has to be a traumatic or recurring. They tend to be emotionally tied as well, happy, sad, funny, anxious, angry, excited, embarrassing, or awkward. My earliest memories are usually inspired by sound first and then I have a visual. My memories from hearing people talk when they thought I couldn't understand or hear are clear as day but I was less than 3.
Dates in my adult years, I can remember if I visually saw the date while reading a news article. I'm not remembering the date though per say, I'd say I'm remembering seeing it visually. Also, in my adult years, I might know the date but not the day of the week because my schedule became more varied.
So... I'm here because I think I have memory strategies(similar to a palace) but how could I have had those memory strategies before I even knew math. My memories also don't have to be inspired. I can usually recall when people ask but I also think of them randomly all of the time when a certain sensation happens.
Would you call this Hyperthymesia or something else? I didn't train for a good memory and sometimes I wish I didn't have it.