I watched Other Mommy with my daughter, and I honestly can’t say I loved it. The supernatural events seemed increasingly far-fetched, the characters’ reactions were strangely passive, and certain scenes made very little sense.
But the more I’ve thought about it, the more convinced I’ve become that there’s another way to interpret the entire film.
I don’t believe Other Mommy was a real demon. I believe we were watching events through Bela’s imagination as she tried to process the dysfunction, betrayal and emotional instability of her family.
And I think several details support this.
- The plastic ball-pit balls
This is probably my strongest argument.
The balls repeatedly appear in impossible locations: the car, the beach near Grandma’s house, and eventually the family home.
But what fascinates me isn’t just their appearance. It’s the almost complete absence of meaningful consequences.
When the balls appear in public, we see people in the background, but there’s little emphasis on their faces or individual reactions. On the beach, the balls seem almost accepted as part of the environment.
And toward the end, the family is casually collecting them into plastic bags, as though they’re simply cleaning up household clutter.
Thousands of inexplicable objects have appeared in multiple locations, yet nobody seems particularly interested in investigating why.
What if the balls were never physically there?
What if they represent familiar childhood imagery that Bela carries between environments, connecting places and experiences in her imagination?
Their repeated appearance would then represent emotional continuity rather than supernatural activity.
- We’re seeing Bela’s interpretation, not necessarily objective reality
Throughout the movie, terrible things happen, yet the characters often move on with surprisingly little reaction.
The abrupt changes of location, exaggerated situations and absence of believable consequences almost resemble a child’s fragmented understanding of adult events.
Perhaps Bela isn’t imagining absolutely nothing happened. Perhaps real things are happening around her, but we’re watching how her mind interprets them.
That would also explain why the movie rarely seems interested in the experiences of people outside Bela’s immediate family.
- Ursula is the real source of horror
One of the first things I said after leaving the cinema was that Bela’s actual mother, Ursula, wasn’t a good person.
She’s dishonest, unfaithful, emotionally conflicted about motherhood and responsible for much of the instability surrounding Bela.
Bela discovers that Daddo isn’t her biological father and that the family she believed she understood is built around secrets.
What if Other Mommy represents Bela’s imagined alternative to a mother who doesn’t provide the emotional security she needs?
Rather than accepting the painful reality of her family, she constructs another mother who seemingly wants and understands her.
- Uncle Frank’s death and Daddo’s Alice Cooper T-shirt
This is a visual connection I found particularly interesting.
When Uncle Frank is attacked, fingers emerge grotesquely through his open mouth.
Later, Daddo wears an Alice Cooper T-shirt featuring imagery resembling a hand emerging from a head.
Could Bela be incorporating familiar images into her imagined explanation of frightening events?
And could the circumstances surrounding Frank, Ursula’s affair and Daddo holding a gun suggest an adult confrontation that Bela has reinterpreted through supernatural imagery?
I’m not claiming Daddo killed Frank. But perhaps Bela’s mind is assigning responsibility to a monster rather than someone she loves.
- Grandma, the ghost hunters and the lighthouse
Grandma’s enormous house, the dramatic coastal setting and the sudden appearance of ghost hunters all feel strangely exaggerated, almost like a child’s fairy tale.
The ghost hunters appear, supposedly confront the problem, and then largely disappear without satisfying resolution.
But the lighthouse is particularly significant.
A lighthouse cuts through darkness and guides people safely home.
I believe Grandma serves that exact purpose for Bela. She’s a source of stability and guidance while Bela’s understanding of her family is collapsing.
The lighthouse doesn’t eliminate the storm. It helps people navigate through it.
- The ending is about acceptance, not defeating a demon
By the end, Bela has discovered uncomfortable truths about both her parents.
Yet she doesn’t stop loving them.
I believe Bela learns to accept the reality of her imperfect family, while Ursula begins to understand and accept her responsibilities as a mother.
Daddo must also confront the reality of his marriage.
Everyone is learning to navigate painful truths.
Perhaps Other Mommy disappears not because a demon has been defeated, but because Bela no longer needs to escape into an imagined reality.
My conclusion
I understand the conventional interpretation: Other Mommy is a supernatural entity, and the family experiences a literal haunting.
But that assumes the camera is showing us objective reality.
What if it isn’t?
What if everything, including scenes involving other characters, is filtered through Bela’s reconstructed understanding of events?
Even if this wasn’t the filmmaker’s intention, I find this psychological interpretation far more coherent than the literal supernatural explanation.
I didn’t necessarily enjoy the movie while watching it, but I’ve spent an extraordinary amount of time thinking about it afterward.
Maybe the real horror isn’t Other Mommy. Maybe it’s the reality Bela has constructed a monster to help her avoid.
I’d genuinely love to hear other interpretations, particularly concerning the ball-pit balls, the lighthouse and the Alice Cooper imagery.
What evidence do you think challenges or supports this theory?