My partner[m32] and I [f33] are sitting around 1.1m when combining our finances, he also has 2 houses that are still being paid off. One with long term tenants and one with tenants until January when we will be moving into it together.
My partner takes home around 130k a year and is an extremely hard worker and great at saving money but I feel doesn’t exactly truly feel the importance of investments and compound interest.
He has 165k sitting in investments that he invests himself, the entire portfolio is up 2500 in 10 years lol.. he unfortunately invested a lot into weed stocks, didn’t pull out and is now constantly shifting back and forth between a net loss and a very small gain because he doesn’t want to cut his losses and move the money elsewhere in case America legalizes weed and they go back up. He also has 180k sitting in cash in his account. In his defence for that he had been planning on buying over 100k worth of shares from the company he works for but due to circumstances this year they’ve decided not to offer shares so now I’m really pushing on him that he has to find somewhere else to put that money.
On the other hand I take home around 40k a year at the moment building up a personal training business which is still building and scalable.
I got about a 100k inheritance at 19 that I’ve had a financial advisor manage since which has effectively doubled in 10 years and is now sitting at 230k between compound and me adding to it.
Our combined finances are:
180k - sitting in his chequing
160k - his own investment account (with essentially 0 return in 10 years)
336k - in his company shares
200k - in his RSP’s
230k - my investments
17k - in my chequing
Which puts us as at 1.1m, our FIRE number is around 2.6m which should be more than realistic at this point but currently 357k of that isn’t making any kind of compound interest which I know is hurting us big time long term. We’re on the fence about kids, leaning towards a no. At most we’d have one. If we don’t have kids our 10 year goal is to have him semi retire into some kind of hobby job while I scale my business up to enough we can continue to live off of since I like to work and he doesn’t. Since we haven’t moved yet I don’t currently know our monthly expenses but we’re both very frugal people, we love to travel but other than that we both game and like to stay home, don’t care about materialistic things.
I’m looking for advice on where to go from here? What would be the most effective place to move this money to keep working towards our future goals? Is him retiring in 10 years realistic if we make smarter moves with his money that’s currently not making any? At this point I’ve been pushing him to get a financial advisor to run his portfolio for him, I know there’s financially more responsible moves but even if he was paying 3-4% while making 10% we’d be in a much better place but I don’t know if that’s the best advice. He talks about buying another house but I’m also not convinced that’s the best place to put the money especially when he already has 2.