r/catfish • • 7h ago

Has anyone else here gotten catfished when they were a teenager? NSFW

0 Upvotes

I recently discovered I'm harboring a lot of trauma from being catfished as a teenager. I've developed suicidal tendencies, an inability to trust people and all sorts of other attachment issues over the years and only recently discovered my experience from when I was 13 was the inciting incident for it all.

This discovery alone only helps me to some extent. I'm medicated and doing DBT, but even after all these years I still have a very unstable sense of self and low self-worth. I even broke up with my fiance recently because things got too overwhelming for me again.

I'd really love it if I could hear from someone in the same boat as me. Feel free to DM me if you don't want to share your experience in the comments.

Also, if there is any literature on this topic you can recommend I'd love to know about it too.

Thank you!


r/catfish • • 7h ago

Has anyone else here gotten catfished when they were a teenager? NSFW

2 Upvotes

I recently discovered I'm harboring a lot of trauma from being catfished as a teenager. I've developed suicidal tendencies, an inability to trust people and all sorts of other attachment issues over the years and only recently discovered my experience from when I was 13 was the inciting incident for it all.

This discovery alone only helps me to some extent. I'm medicated and doing DBT, but even after all these years I still have a very unstable sense of self and low self-worth. I even broke up with my fiance recently because things got too overwhelming for me again.

I'd really love it if I could hear from someone in the same boat as me. Feel free to DM me if you don't want to share your experience in the comments.

Also, if there is any literature on this topic you can recommend I'd love to know about it too.

Thank you!


r/catfish • • 7h ago

Anyone else get catfished when they were a teenager? NSFW

2 Upvotes

I recently discovered I'm harboring a lot of trauma from being catfished as a teenager. I've developed suicidal tendencies, an inability to trust people and all sorts of other attachment issues over the years and only recently discovered my experience from when I was 13 was the inciting incident for it all.

This discovery alone only helps me to some extent. I'm medicated and doing DBT, but even after all these years I still have a very unstable sense of self and low self-worth. I even broke up with my fiance recently because things got too overwhelming for me again.

I'd really love it if I could hear from someone in the same boat as me. Feel free to DM me if you don't want to share your experience in the comments.

Also, if there is any literature on this topic you can recommend I'd love to know about it too. Thank you!


r/catfish • • 7h ago

Anyone else get catfished when they were a teenager? NSFW

2 Upvotes

I recently discovered I'm harboring a lot of trauma from being catfished as a teenager. I've developed suicidal tendencies, an inability to trust people and all sorts of other attachment issues over the years and only recently discovered my experience from when I was 13 was the inciting incident for it all.

This discovery alone only helps me to some extent. I'm medicated and doing DBT, but even after all these years I still have a very unstable sense of self and low self-worth. I even broke up with my fiance recently because things got too overwhelming for me again.

I'd really love it if I could hear from someone in the same boat as me. Feel free to DM me if you don't want to share your experience in the comments.

Also, if there is any literature on this topic you can recommend I'd love to know about it too. Thank you!


r/catfish • • 18h ago

Can a catfish get verified on Instagram?

3 Upvotes

There is an account on Instagram that I am 95% positive is a catfish. However, they are verified on Instagram and I am unsure what the verification process on this platform is like. Don’t you need to supply government-issued ID? Or are they very lax with checking?