r/VotingReform • u/Elegant-Storm9035 • 4d ago
It's possible that I may be too stupid to vote, and for that reason I am considering opting out of voting altogether to not muddy the voting pool. I am even willing to shut up and follow the rules as is, as a prospective non voter.
For context I am a liberal leftist, and only want responses and explanations from other leftists as this is an issue among us specifically.
Everything I thought I knew about voting is apparently wrong and for that reason I think I should just opt out. It was my own understanding that you vote for your interests, beliefs, and what you think is "the greater good", and if you're not the popular vote, then you don't win. But for the past couple weeks, as the midterms approach, there has been a lot of discourse online about one's character based on how and IF they vote. And it's all within the same side. The leftist side. My inability to understand the nuance, or reasoning behind these talking points lead me to believe that maybe it's valid for me to opt out, as long as I don't complain and just follow the rules as presented and do what America(ns) want(s).
I thought I was supposed to, like I mentioned before, vote based on my own beliefs, interests, opinions, and how I think certain candidates and policies would affect others. I thought votes were counted based on popularity and my vote doesn't win because not enough people believe the in the policies that I do. What I care about typically aligns with the independent, third party candidates, but now people are being called "terrible people" for "wasting their vote" on, essentially, what they believe in. My brain short circuits here. The "lesser of two evils" thing would only make sense to me, if there were only two candidates. But there are several other candidates that don't have to be "evils". I acknowledge that I don't have the popular view, but that's literally the game. That's what makes it a democracy.
Not voting at all is the actual waste, and I can agree with that. But us not being able to agree within the same side is not a moral failure. Us not being the majority is not a moral failure. You being afraid to vote for what you believe is not a moral failure (assuming it's not literally harmful to the public, cough). And I can't understand how it people think it is.
Honestly, I think it would have been better it ballots were solely based on policies that directly affected law. Rather than individuals that get to be voted in, as people proudly refer to them as evil, metaphorically (or literally).
When people say "these people get to vote, btw" I think of myself. It's a lot of cognitive dissonance occuring here on my end.