If anyone can provide us with advice or a contact who will actually answer I will be so grateful. Here is the situation:
My Fiance and I applied for the k1 visa back in Feb of 2025. We filed on our own and submitted everything that was required. This is both of our first marriages, no kids, and clean records for both of us.
The initial process for the 129-f and getting it sent to the NVC took months longer than what every timeline listed online and we even received a request for additional information which we submitted. (Basically, they wanted print outs of our photos with the locations and dates written on them instead of our photos screenshotted from FB where the dates and locations were included in the post, go figure)
Getting the case to the NVC and then to the embassy took ages. For a while we were told that they may have lost our application and we would have to start over, but eventually it was located and sent off to the embassy. This was around Feb. of 2026. Once my fiancé was able to schedule an appointment, he did and his appointment was at the beginning of July of 2026. Everything went well and the interviewer told him that his visa and passport would be mailed out in about 2 weeks. Those 2 weeks turned into a month, and that's when we contacted the embassy for an update.
About 5 weeks from his original appointment, my fiance got a call from his GP stating that the embassy was requesting his full medical history from the NHS and if he approved it, it would take 28 days to obtain the records. He agreed, and he also got a call from the embassy stating that there were some matters of concern with his interview and they just wanted to make sure everything was good. We were frustrated, but we waited the 28 days and then sent over the records.
My fiance was then told that his records had to be reviewed by their medical director and that she was currently in the US for a conference but promised to take the week and look over the records. We waited a week and heard nothing. Finally, he was contacted and the embassy told him he would need to meet with their psychologist on a telehealth appointment and that it would cost 3000 pounds which is about 4000 US dollars. We were shocked, but having no other option we paid and he did the interview.
During the interview, he was questioned about his teenage bout of depression and then it was explained to us that this appointment was needed because of a picture on his instagram. The picture in question? A meme from almost 10 years ago of a pokemon (Wooper if anyone cares) holding a firearm. It was very clearly a joke and of no threat or concern. But whatever, interview with the psychologist goes well and she states that everything looks good and will send it to the cdc for review.
That interview was in the middle of September. We have not heard anything since. The AIS visa website and CEAC visa status checker have not been updated since August 20th. I have emailed the embassy twice asking for any information since none of our questions can be answered from the Visa wizard form they have on their website but we never get an answer. We call the embassy but they won't discuss any visa matters over the phone.
So, what I am asking is, 1. Have you had to deal with this and/or 2. What do we do? We feel like we are being extorted for money, are given no information on time or process or anything. We canceled our wedding which was supposed to be in June of this year. We have not been able to see each other since March of 2025 due to him not being allowed to come here until he has the visa and I cannot afford to take off work because I work in a 24 hour setting and staffing can be sparse. I am so exhausted, I have had to attend multiple funerals, weddings, and go through incredible hardship with my chronic illness alone. Meanwhile, my incredible partner who wants nothing more than to help me is stuck 3000 miles away. We have done everything they have asked and cannot even get an email back on what is going on? Please, someone tell me I am not crazy or that there is recourse for this or that it will all be over soon. I just want to see my love.