The Transphobes Are At It Again

Hey, I’ve been super dysphoric lately and looking for an alternative to my 3 to 1 packer. Packing isn’t super comfy with it.
I’ve looked into dicklclit extension and I’ve bought one. In the description it says that it’s suitable for packing but do you think that wearing a stroker all day long can ? It’s from banana prosthetics. Other tips for overall dysphoria / comfort while packing would be appreciated….

Hi, I was just wondering what y’all are using to store your packers in. One of the bags that came with my packers meant for storage started ripping today. ik you’re not supposed to store more than one and the same bag, so I wanted to see what options there are for replacing the bag instead of putting both my packers in the other bag together. ik I could try sewing the bag but I don’t have any sewing stuff, which ig I could get but I’m leaning more towards just replacing it if I can.

Looking for a play harness that isn't too bulky under clothes and doesn't cover the crotch area so that I can receive stimulation from the ridges in the rod.

I'm looking to buy the axolom Knight model soon once my paycheck from a new, better paying job hits, and want to be able to go clubbing with the peace of mind that I could take someone home if by some miracle I really wanted to, without much hassle other than inserting the rod.

Any good recs? I've considered getting a jock mail harness and modifying it but I don't know if that would be sturdy enough for anal.

I've got an Axolom Willie, which I adore. It's the perfect size for me, super comfortable surface feel, and my man and I both see it as my dick. The problem is, my anatomy doesn't let me use the stand-to-pee function, and the play rod that's made for it isn't nearly firm enough for anal, so it's only being used to pack with.

I was wondering if it'd be possible to fill it with (toy-grade of course) silicone to make it a firm toy. Maybe even put one of those bending rods in it to make it a little posable.

Does anyone have experience with this? Filling a hollow toy yourself? Is there a reason why this wouldn't work?

I recently purchased the AXOLOM Nexo pack and play (moving skin), and have realized that topping a guy might be something I’m interested in. However, I’d have no idea where to start, as I generally haven’t ever been in that kind of “role” before and wouldn’t quite know what to do once I’m there.
I’m aware of many kinds of prep, though I’m unsure of how to properly introduce this to a male partner who is just as inexperienced as I am in both areas. I’d like to make the experience as comfortable as possible, while also hopefully still doing it “correctly” if that makes sense. A bit nervous.
-Also wanted to know if the Nexo would make a terribly big difference in the experience.

I looked pretty hard and haven’t found anything about this specifically in the subreddit (or Reddit period), so I thought I’d just go ahead and ask. Hopefully this can help out anybody else who’s also starting out.

Looked through the list of hard packers/strokers as I wanted to get one but everything is either insanely expensive from import stores, not available to ship here, or incurring high shipping costs. Do fellow Aussies just cop these fees or are there better places to look at which aren't that well known?

I really really like the look and realism of this one, but I didnt know if it would be good for me, it says it's easy to use. I have quite a few questions, bear with me.

I honestly want something more real looking than axolom, with a better cup.

But have you guys had any leaks or issue using it? Is the cup good for someone who needs to place it a little further back and is the cup firm enough. What is the user experience like? I wanna know the ins and outs of it before I drop a pretty penny on this one. What is the quality like and have there been any customer service issues?

Also would it be compatible with jockmail harnesses (I'm pretty sure it would be)?

I want to know if the gravity funnel with these specs would better suite my skin color and tone than the one I have currently, but I’m having issues finding images of this specific prosthetic to compare with. Any pics or references are appreciated!

This is my first packer after mr limpy. I wanted to write a quick review because i could not find too many info on this packer in particular. I also want to make a post comparing it in size with the mr limpy.

Product: The Thinker, color C2, no customization, no extra painting, cut. I bought the less realistic version (there are two on the site, i bought this one https://it.axolom.com/products/axolom-the-thinker-circumcised-ftm-stp-cut?_pos=1&_sid=e080779f7&_ss=r ), the rod and the harness and i paid a total of 115 USD = 102 € (i don't remember if shipping is included in this price, but i paid 10€ for shipping and no tariffs at arrival).

1. Shopping and packaging

🇮🇹 Se a qualche italiano serve: il pacco arriva in Italia con Poste Italiane

I needed the package to be shipped to a pickup point so i contacted the Axolom assistance to help me understand who was the shipper and they were very helpful and patient. Also i asked some questions about what packer they would reccomend.

I ordered on the 29th of july and it got delivered on the 6th of august. The packaging is very discrete and it does not say that this is a trans or sex related object. On the outside of the package it says "silicone mold". It also comes with a little "no-lint" bag which is very useful but also ripped about a month after i got it.

2. Washing

I did not boil it because the website says not to do so. I just wash it with regular soap everyday; it does not get sticky after, i just dry it with a paper towel on the outside and then roll up a little bit of paper and dry the inside as best as i can. For the harness i mostly hand wash it. I put it in the washing machine just one time and it seems fine. It dried pretty fast too. The only issue i have had for the harness is a little bit of odor lingering on even after i just washed. I don't know if it is a detergent thing or a material thing (it's mostly synthetic for my understanding).

3. Packing

The packer is 14cm long with the cup, and 12cm if we are just counting the shaft. I was a little bit worried about it looking to big for me but it looks pretty natural. For reference i am 5'3" (163cm) for about 55-57 kg.

I also got the harness as XXS following the table on the website and it fits perfectly. I got the cream one.

It is soft which means it's very easy to pack. I liked it because compared to other it did look less pointed down then other models. I pack laterally, so that was important for me. Tho i would reccomend getting the harness also; i tried to pack it without the harness and for me it was absolutely impossible. I find that tight underwear works the best (briefs or boxer briefs), while bermuda shorts are not keeping it in place. The only way i can work it out with bermuda is to pack sideways and stick the head under the harness. It's ok for a short time but generally not that comfortable.

I pack with it extensively; at home, at uni, at the gym and it's pretty comfortable.

4 - STP function

This is my first and only experience with an STP, and overall i wouldn't say that it was too bad. The cup is pretty big, so i think it can accomodate different anatomies easily. So i was having some issues with backflow, and i think it is because the back part of the cup does not adhere to the body perfectly.

So the solution i've found was to just use my right hand to press on that area; you can do it from the front or from the back, but so far it's working every time.

Other things i do:
1- make sure to position the cup as far back as possible, so that the end basically touches you butt
2- don’t pee to fast, try to control the flow to be slow so that the cup does not overflow
3- don’t move the shaft too much, just use your other hand to gently support it so that pee doesn’t go on your pants. And when you are done pull it downwards so that all the liquid flows out

I would not reccomand this packer if you want to use urinals. But since it’s one of the cheapest models i think it’s great to learn.

5 - Insertable rod
So i basically found zero information about the use of this packer with the rod. The rod inserts super easily even with no lube.

NSFW part
||It is definitely usable for masturbation or to recieve it from a partner, but needs a bit of practice in the movement. I am pre T, and it did work for me a few times.

I have also used it once for penetration (anal) and we did not have issues with inserting (i thought that the tip would be too soft) but mostly with keeping it inside, expecially in certain positions. It is a bit too short to work in certain positions. I’ll have to try it further, but it is definitely NOT impossible. Also i wasn’t really feeling much at all, but that might just be user error since i am not very experienced with PIA at all.

On the bright side, i tried to use the harness with anotger strap on dick i had (from a random sex toy store) and it fit perfectly and i could use it just fine. Which is great because i really like this harness. ||

The last thing I want to say is that I am a little bit disappointed by the fact that after just a few days of use it got a little tear in the cup :c. I don’t think it already came like this because in the picture (that i took like the day it arrived or the day after) it was fine.

TLDR: overall I rate it positively. It’s cheap and it’s comfortable and it’s pretty good to learn to STP. The size is perfect to me. Could probably be better in the sex department but, again, i think it’s good given the price.

Thankfully I’m okay for now, but one of my biggest fears is being sent to a hospital, especially a mental hospital. A fate worse than death.

I want to know just in case I get sick or sectioned and forced into a hospital, how can I force them to allow a packer? I would legit avoid a regular hospital if they won’t allow it (on top of all the other issues I have with being in a regular hospital). I don’t want to essentially be detransitioned. I’d already not be allowed HRT. It would be like having my dick ripped off. I want to know people’s experiences because it’s just a constant source of intrusive thoughts and eventually I’ll need medical care that involves being in a hospital so I want to be prepared.

I did some searching through the sub and was able to find plenty of reviews for BP strokers and their other sensation plugs but no luck on the vibrating or suction plugs. Thinking about buying one but I'm sort of hesitant because I don't have a ton of money to throw into experimenting and I'm worried about it not working out =[ Any experience with either of these would be helpful, thanks!

help a boy out.

i’ve never seen any STPs irl and from all the pics and videos i see, they look like they are perpetually hard.

do i just walk around with a stiffy all day? tuck it in?

i guess at the end of the day, im confused on the logistics or mechanics of it.

i’m to the point where im (not in my opinion) fairly passing and using the men’s room more often and i’m tired of trying to disguise the fact that im sitting to pee.

the thought of purchasing one is heavy on my mind but i want to make sure im fully informed before dropping cash on that. any advice is welcome!

thanks homies

Currently have the Axolom Hyperon mini and it is still too large, both in length and girth. I’ve searched the entire list of packers that is linked on this subreddit and everything marketed to FTMs specifically is still too big. Does anyone know of any high quality realistic dildos I can get that are under 4 inches (preferably around 3) and not too girthy?

Got it two months ago, sliding skin is not woeking, got my money back and May said I could keep it

So I got the Emisil ER08 in S10. Can’t decide if I like it or not. I also have the ER07 and loved it for sex, so I decided to try another Emisil product. Haven’t had sex with it yet but idk how I feel about the look.. especially the tip of the head. Like where’s the lil line in the tip? It’s basically non-existent, and it’s definitely more visible in the pictures. So that kinda killed the realism for me. The colour is good for my skin tone and it’s hard to find prosthetics in my skin tone cause I’m black/white. The texture isn’t very realistic but it’s not horrible, same for my ER07. It took about 20 days to get it (in the US) from the time I ordered it and the tracking froze while it was in a diff country so I didn’t know what was going on for a few days but Emisil found the tracking and sent it to me so that was nice. I’ve been wanting the Emisil ER05 for a while mostly for packing so I might get that one day but idk. The tip is really buggin me on this one.

listen i know it's not what they're made for at all and it probably wouldn't be ideal but i'm wondering if anyone has used their soft packer for penetration in a pinch. possibly something with a little more firmness like monsieur wiggle or a banana prosthetics sp? obviously a hard packer/pnp would be ideal but if one were to have a spontaneous hookup or something i'm wondering if it would be possible. even just for play without penetration like hand jobs or bjs or grinding.

or would it be possible to customise your soft packer so that you could insert a rod inside?

basically i just wanna know what kind of spontaneous fun can be had with a soft packer :)

Do you guys use harnesses or specific underwear for your STPs? Im getting the axolom Godor soon, and some people have said they dont use anything and just throw it in their underwear.

If you do use a harness, which one do you use?

Im really struggling to find reviews for it. I originally saw it on the seller’s TikTok page and it peaked my interest as I really struggle with packing but want to do it. I have a few questions for anyone who’s tried it or packs with it (I feel weird at how I worded this earlier, I don’t think I can make it sound any less weird).

Firstly, I know it’s silicone, but is it hard? Something I’ve really struggled with is packers being really hard and bonery (even axolom packers), making it sort of stick out in thinner trousers (thin joggers, etc). Like sitting down, etc, does it poke out in a way that’s not natural?

Is it bulky? I know it’s got a very small bulge in comparison to most packers but is the actual thing bulky is what I’ve been worried about and does it sit too high up if you’re sitting down for example? I’ve noticed it’s just one size and I don’t want it to be uncomfortable sitting down etc.

I think that’s all. Thanks.

Edit: added more context.

Ive heard the Axolom flexit harness isn’t a very snug fit, I’m looking for something that can secure my hyperon for some activity but stay hidden under my boxers so it doesn’t trigger dysphoria.

Selling used STP PRO
Specs are located on photos.
I was able to get a light color topper as seen in photos.
I paid 1,100$ for this. I’m willing to sell for 900$ and price is negotiable!
It’s in good condition and I used about 5 times.
no tears, paint is in still good condition.
Although I bought the adhesive with it, it came defected and I was shipped with new adhesive. I was normally using the gender cat, which was amazing. I think I have more I can throw in aswell.
I’m in USA, willing to ship to anywhere

I ordered a reelmagik packer 4 inches with all the bells and whistles. I was quite disappointed because of a few issues:

1. The packer hardened. The packer was a soft fill and it was really soft at the start. After a year it hardened to the point where it was hard enough to penetrate. This made the packer really uncomfortable to pack with and it made it look very unrealistic.

2. The paint job wasn’t great. The paint under the balls was shiny in the folds and it looked inconsistent all round.

3. The feel was off. Packers like gendercat have a floppiness and wiggle in the shaft and balls. The reelmagik, even when it was at it softest didn’t move.

4. The basic felt better than the premium model. Somehow the basic version of the premium model felt way more realistic and created a more realistic bulge. Unfortunately, these also hardened over time.

5. No customer service. My emails with questions about care and concerns went unanswered.

I was eyeing the new 3 inch uncut packer in bare by reelmagik but my previous experience gives me major reservations. Has any of this changed?

Getting bottom surgery in a month so all of these gotta go.

Top to bottom:

YourRules stroker, medium tone, tried using it once but just isn't for me - 45€

PM Han S06 old silicone, no tab - 60€

Gramma's prototype Frank, durable formula, never used medium roast - €100

PM Joe old silicone S06 with slight damage at the back, does not affect function, just durability mesh that needs to be cut off - €40

PM Han new silicone S06 - 60€

Morme OG packer 8cm medium skin tone + slightly darker skin version, one is the full packer with inserts, one is just the skin, in case you wanna change it - €100 for both, also comes with their prototype water plug to put at the back to avoid water getting in

PM Joe no tab, old silicone S06 - €40

Axolom Godor c7 - 30€

TGS Freely painted, medium skin tone - €25

Shipping charged separately, usually €15 for EU and €22 for US/CAN . Ships from Spain, can send anywhere in the world.

I am looking for a packer that is good for shorts/sweatpants. I want to go ahead and have it show decently. It's not something I'd wear every day but if I'm wanting to feel a little sexy. Nothing like having a straight up boner that would be completely inappropriate. Can I get some reference pictures for what you guys like? What do you wear and what's an appropriate look. Im trying to figure what's too much. Also feel free to throw in pics of what you wouldn't realistically wear. Please include the name of the model you are sporting.

I feel a little self conscious wearing one but at this point I pass and am feeling like it wouldn't be awkward, I just don't want to cross the line into boner territory. Many thanks!