Hi, Iâm going through a pretty traumatic breakup and have barely been able to get myself reading anything. Right now Iâm finding pretty much anything romantic or sexy or even vaguely having to do with love kinda triggering, so would like to completely avoid it if possible, and it feels like that takes pretty much anything I can think of off the table. Even books that donât have a romantic focus so often have some kind of love-related subplot going on and right now I just canât. Also not up for heartbreak or breakup subplots yet. :-/
I mostly read classic lit, contemporary fiction, and occasionally sci-fi, Iâm open to genres (except horror/slasher). Needs to be short (Iâm lucky if I can manage a few pages in a day right now), non-depressing, non-misogynistic please, and Iâd love something that ropes me in a little bit to keep me distracted.
So far the only book Iâve found that mostly has fit the bill was Tove Jannsonâs The Summer Book, as it pretty much only has a grandmother and her grandchild in it most of the time. Love that book, but itâs very vignette-y and I would love something with a little more of a moving plot.
Something funny would also maybe be great? Any suggestions in the vibe of like, Hitchhikerâs Guide to the Galaxy but without any flirty subplot could be great, Iâm aware the romance in there is minimal but I think itâs still too much for me right now, sigh.
Iâve been having a bit better luck with movies, so in case it helps spark some suggestions: girl-power heist movies like Oceans 8 have been great lately, The Devil Wears Prada 2 worked (not the first movie though!), Dr Strangelove was great also, and Good Luck Have Fun Donât Die! was so much perfect distracting chaos.
In better times, favorite books include anything by Jane Austen, Anna Karenina, lots of 1800s classics in general, sardonic lit fic like Naoise Dolan or Imogin Binnieâs Nevada, social commentary-esque speculative fiction (Octavia Butler, Ursula Leguin, Naomi Alderman, any good dystopian novel or cyberpunk), and for beach reads I love things like Crazy Rich Asians, the Oh My God What a Complete Aisling series, or Emily Henry novels. Obviously most of these do not fit the moment at all so in need of help!
Thank you so so much!