Hello Everyone,
My husband and I are US citizens working and living in Mexico City. We had gotten pregnant last year but sadly lost our baby due to IC in my second trimester. Due to that lost, I went crazy finding the right doctor for this current pregnancy as I felt like my first doc was a lovely person, but she just wasnt for me as an African American woman with other conditions. I was told Id have to have a cervical cerclage for this pregnancy, so I did my research.
My new doctor is a high risk maternal fetal medicine doctor who has worked with women of different ethnic backgrounds and nationalities. She is very thorough and empathetic. Additionally, she checks me every single week and will continue until I am 26 weeks along, then it will be every 2 weeks unless I or she things I need to be seen more frequently. Anyway, I had my cerclage placed yesterday at 12 weeks + 4 days. I had gotten very emotional during the placement of the anesthesia not because it hurt (It was more uncomfortable than painful) but because I started having flashbacks of my first pregnancy (I had used the public hospital IMSS the first time which i vowed I never do again). My husband and I made the decision to go private due to our previous experience and experience of my Mexican colleague whose bladder was punctured during her cerclage at the public hospital. We decided not to risk anything this time around, so private it is.
The procedure went smoothly. I coudnt feel a thing. The doctors were very nice and having my doctor and her practicing partner there to do the procedure I felt super safe. Things went well and I had the option of staying overnight or leaving same day after observation. Nurses were very attentive. The best part was that my husband was able to stay with me before and after the procedure which is not the case in the public hospital (I wasnt awre that i couldnt be with my spouse at all in the public hospital which made things even more stressful the first time). I am now home and resting. First day, yesterday, I could barely move. Today I am moving only for bathroom and kitchen. I am not in any pain, there is only pressure sometimes. When my bladder is full, the pressure it really bad so I have to relieve myself immediately. Between yesterday and today very minimal blood. Honestly, I feel very very happy and confident, and look forward to moving along in my pregnancy with the help of my doctor and her great team. If anyone has any questions, please don not hesitate to ask.