r/SeniorCats • • 3h ago

Goodbye to my sweetest girl, Cali

On Tuesday, October 13th, I had to say goodbye to my baby girl. She was 21. She ended up with both diabetes and Kidney disease; a common disease in elder kitties. She got them in the very late stages of her life, and she was doing amazing for about 2 years.

Whether it was the disease, diabetes or even old age, she hung on for as long as she could before she just couldn’t. I told her for years that she could let go, but she fought every time. Even on her last day, she put up a little fight with the vet when they were prepping her.

She went so peacefully. And I couldn’t ask for a better ending.

She was with me for so long. Her 3 weeks and me 16. She was always by my side, always cuddling with me, no matter where I was, went where ever I did. And now my room, and my heart are empty.

But she lived a wonderful life and I know she knew she was loved.

I will miss her, always and forever.

I hope to see you on the other side Cali girl. I love you.

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u/ExpensiveSeasone 3h ago

21 years is an absolute testament to the love and care you gave her.

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u/Crocdragon 3h ago

Thank you so much.

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u/Zealousideal-Cow1335 3h ago

21 years is such a blessing, how lucky you both were to have had each other. Thank you for sharing your beautiful girl with us. I’m wishing you peace and that Cali’s memory is a blessing to you always

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u/Crocdragon 3h ago

100%. And thank you for looking and your comment. She really was beautiful and I will miss her everyday. And she will live on in my memories forever and always. Thank you again 🙏

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u/Zealousideal-Cow1335 3h ago

I said goodbye to my 17 year old boy Wednesday night. He was everything to me, and the only thing that has given me some comfort is connecting with this community and knowing I’m not alone.

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u/davidaprice 3h ago

Thank you for sharing her story and the photos. I'm so glad you had each other. All the love to you.

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u/Crocdragon 3h ago

Thank you. And thank you for looking at her and replying. She was my world but I’m glad she’s in a better place ❤️

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u/davidaprice 3h ago

Reminds me of my Sasha. I had cats before her, but she chose me.

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u/qabeel99 3h ago

So sorry, OP. Cali lived a long life but still not long enough. She seemed like a wonderful partner that you have had through most of your life. Thank you for sharing her with us. Safest travels, Cali! ♥️🌈

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u/Immediate_Lunch3969 3h ago

Deeply sorry for your loss

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u/u5dasucks 2h ago

Their time with us goes by too fast.

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u/IslandDreamer58 2h ago

💔😢 Very sorry for your loss of your beautiful Cali.

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u/KittyTootsies 3h ago

I'm so sorry you lost your Cali 🧡🖤🫂 Calicos are such special cats. My soulcat was also a calico. She saved me and I saved her. Lost her in 2010 and I still miss her so much

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u/Dontfeedthebears 2h ago

Oh, sweetie. I’m so glad for her that you gave her such a long and rich life. I’m sorry for your loss. What a beautiful girl.

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u/DanCarter93 2h ago

My heart hurts to read this. Best of Love to you and sweet Cali.

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u/BlueEyedPapi 2h ago

Sorry for your loss ... Cali girl was so beautiful ❤️ I went through the loss of my little trouble maker Prince

Cali girl is at peace in paradise where she will continue to look over you You will both be in my prayers 🙏🏼

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u/Topsidergal 2h ago

She was very clearly well loved…..bless you both!

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u/Horsez96 2h ago

Beautiful baby girl. I’m glad she had such a great family that took such great care of her. 💜💜

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u/RachelPalmer79 3h ago

🧡💔🖤

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u/jr0061006 3h ago

What sweet, beautiful girl she was. I’m happy you had her for 21 years but so sorry for your loss. 🐾 💕

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u/jablodg 3h ago

I’m sorry for your loss ❤️‍🩹🌈💫

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u/DelboBaggins 3h ago

My story is very similar (I just posted it yesterday if you search for Bandit). Bandit passed on the same day and same conditions. I’m so so sorry. I’d like to think Cali and Bandit arrived together and are hanging out, watching our paths cross due to our love for them. ❤️

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u/ChaosPixie68 3h ago

Sending big hugs ❤️

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u/NerdizardGo 3h ago

Thank you for taking such good care of this angel ❤️💔

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u/Charming-Insurance 3h ago

Look at that sweet face. What a beautiful life you guys got together. Hugs. 🌈💜🌈💜

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u/itsjoe0618 3h ago

Hugs and condolences. 🫂🐾🧡🤍🖤🌈🪽💐

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u/Different-Pin-9854 2h ago

So sorry 💔

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u/TheJohnnyUtahBrah 2h ago

💔 😢 My heart breaks for you

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u/MillionDollarBaby19 2h ago

Sending hugs ❤️

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u/skipperg60 2h ago

So very sorry 🙏

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u/alr126 2h ago

I'm so sorry

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u/pettyaioli 2h ago

I’m so sorry for your loss. Your wording is totally correct - elder kitten. I have one myself and she’s such an energetic and spry little lady. I hope she makes it to 21 and lives just as good a life

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u/LetterheadDowntown13 1h ago

🌈🩷💜❤️🩷💜❤️🩷💜❤️🩷💜❤️🩷💜❤️🌈❤️‍🩹

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u/tykytys 1h ago

Cali was loved... and loves you still, eternally.

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u/brokedownsystem 1h ago

sorry for your loss.

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u/ZookeepergameNaive98 58m ago

😭ну что ты делаешь то а? Держись. Вы оба были хорошими.

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u/TigerBillHawaii 48m ago

Our condolences on your loss of Cali. You will get the chance to see each other again someday—and forever thereafter. Cali will wait near the Rainbow Bridge 🐈❤️🐾😥💔🌈

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u/iLuvCats2024 39m ago

😞😞💙💙

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u/GoodNo3238 26m ago

Oh so sorry for your loss. It’s tragic.

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u/Tight_Comment9656 25m ago

The toothless meow on pic 9… my god, what a gorgeous babe. I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending love and hugs

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u/dirkmalloy 6m ago

My condolences 💐

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u/Important_Mix_4624 3h ago

❤️❤️🙏🙏

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u/optimal_center 3h ago

I’m so sorry 😞

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u/ZsaZsaIsMyReal 2h ago

❤️🐾❤️🐾🥲

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u/Acceptable_Bat4123 1h ago

I am so sorry for your loss, but I’m happy you two were blessed to spend the last 21 years together❤️