Hey you!
I just turned 30, I'm based in Kolkata, and I work in the IT industry as a Cloud Administrator. Currently in my building-myself-and-my-future era. I've got goals to chase, things to learn and a schedule that doesn't always leave much room for the traditional dating circus.
But here's the thing. Being ambitious doesn't mean I don't crave connection. Sometimes, you want someone to text when the day gets long, call when you need a laugh, share stupid jokes with, hang out with, go out with and maybe get a little closer when the chemistry is right.
So, what am I looking for?
A friends-with-benefits kind of connection. Someone I can talk to, laugh with, flirt with, spend time with and potentially share physical intimacy with, without necessarily pursuing a conventional romantic relationship.
I'm heterosexual, single and looking to meet a woman who's also single, open-minded and comfortable communicating what she wants. Ideally, somewhere in the 25–45 age range, although I'm open-minded about age.
A little about me beyond the job title. I've spent a lot of my life being the person who gives more, cares more and hopes that one day someone will reciprocate that same energy. Life has taught me some difficult lessons about boundaries, self-worth and the difference between loving people and losing yourself trying to be enough for them.
These days, I'm learning to choose myself, protect my peace and build a life I'm proud of.
That doesn't mean I've stopped wanting companionship. I still want someone to talk to, laugh with, share a few moments of vulnerability with and enjoy life with, even if it's just for a little while. Someone whose company feels natural rather than forced.
Full disclosure: I'm a virgin. I've held onto that part of myself because I once imagined sharing it with the person I'd spend my life with. But life has a way of challenging the beliefs you've held for years, and I'm reconsidering some of mine. I'm open to exploring intimacy, provided there's mutual attraction, trust, comfort and respect.
I'm not looking to mislead anyone, make promises I can't keep or treat someone like they're disposable. Casual doesn't have to mean careless.
I'm looking for something uncomplicated in its expectations but genuine in its experience. Good conversations, playful banter, affection, mutual attraction and physical intimacy if we both want it. No pressure to turn it into something it's not.
If you're single, open-minded and looking for a similar connection, maybe we should talk and see whether we click.
We can start with a conversation. No pressure, no expectations and no awkward audition process.
You bring your personality. I'll bring mine. Let's see where the conversation takes us.