r/NotHowGirlsWork • • Mar 12 '26

Meta Breaking Rule 3 Will Now Result in Permanent Ban.

108 Upvotes

We still have people violating Rule 3, despite there's literally being a pinned AutoMod comment warning against it, and it being a rule plastered almost everywhere within the subreddit. The rule is there for a reason, it's non-negotiable. I cannot make this any clearer:

So from now on, if you break this rule you will receive a permanent ban immediately to encourage you to have to message the ModMail and acknowledge that you understand that you violated this rule, and not to do it again. Once that's acknowledged, you will be unbanned but will already have one warning. If you don't inquire about it, cool, you'll stay banned. If you also do it again, you will be permanently banned again, and it won't be repealed, you will also be muted.


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • Mar 03 '24

Meta Just To Clarify:

229 Upvotes

This is not a meme subreddit.

Lately, almost every other post has been "Off-Topic or Irrelevant" relating to the submission guidelines, and not within standard as what actually qualifies (as an example) of "Not How Girls Work".

Q: "What is "Not How Girls Work?":

A: ""Not How Girls Work" is when people make sweeping generalisations about "all women", _or make any baseless assumptions or conclusions about a specific woman based off of their misguided assumptions of "all women_".

This does not include low-effort memes, "Bad Women's Anatomy", or clips of podcasts/posts from "Manosphere" public figures."

This platform is slowing being derailed into posts consisting of any random meme that remotely mentions a girl or woman, or screenshots of Twitter posts from Red-Pill Manosphere public figures who purposely grift and make money using those talking points. People are also trying to pass off completely irrelevant posts as submission, thinking if they just mask it by putting "That's not how [insert topic] works" in the title, it will be valid— That's not how this subreddit works (no pun intended). You can't force posts to fit if they don't.

Please read the subreddit description.

If you have to put "Not sure if this belongs here" in the title, it probably doesn't. Please read the subreddit rules and the subreddit description first, then clarify with the moderators if you are still unsure.

I understand this is a large subreddit, therefore the temptation and karma-count is there to post any and everything, but the subreddit will start cracking down on users who continuously post completely "off-topic" content after warnings.

Anybody who is suspected of being a karma-farmer or a bot/novelty account will immediately be permanent banned, you're not going to "eat" off of this sub.

Thank you!


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 6h ago

Found On Social media I can’t believe it. We found “Chad”

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548 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1h ago

Found On Social media Yeah, women staying single is such an unsolvable mystery. 🙄

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r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 40m ago

Found On Social media So having a choice is bad?

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Let us ignore how the diagramm is completely mathematically wrong. What is next? Wearing a condom or jerking off is murder too?


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 8h ago

HowGirlsWork This comment section is chefs kiss

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r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 15h ago

WTF Incel thinks he's entitled to a date, meanwhile hating himself.

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377 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Offensive 43 yo man coerces college-aged wife into sex, wonders why she's accusing him of rape

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2.4k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 20h ago

WTF I have no words

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765 Upvotes

The fetishizing of women with mental health issues is gross


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 5h ago

Found On Social media Equality now?

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46 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 5h ago

Found On Social media Thats horrible by the way

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r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 19h ago

WTF On a post about a woman, who has at least 1 ex 🤢🤢

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141 Upvotes

On today‘s show of which object women are, we are plates!!!! Yayy!


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Found On Social media Brother leave some words for the rest of us

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I guess one escaped the containment of Reddit. A local essay by a ‘good guy’ who just wants a chance!!! Won’t someone give him a chance before they turn crusty??

Had to get two pics of his essay because I guess we need three hundred words to say ‘I can’t get laid’ now.


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Found On Social media Typical Trad Wife™ delirium

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75 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Found On Social media Women’s organs do not belong to them

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2.0k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Offensive Just yuck :(

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203 Upvotes

There’s so many atrocious comments, I didn’t even know where to begin with screenshotting.

I’m so tired of this garbage.


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

WTF Women hate each other

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r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Offensive Check out this petition! Demand a public apology from Shane Gillis for his misogynistic remarks about women during his opening monologue on SNL and to hold both NBC and SNL accountable for allowing this sort of degrading and dangerous rhetoric to be aired and normalized.

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SNL's Shane Gillis made derogatory comments about women during a recent monologue, calling them names. This isn't just a bad joke—it's part of a larger problem where media platforms amplify misogynistic rhetoric that contributes to real-world harm against women.

I started a petition asking NBC, SNL, and Shane Gillis to publicly apologize and donate to women's charities. Major networks have enormous influence over cultural conversations, and they need to be held accountable when they broadcast content that demeans women.

Look, we're at a point where these kinds of "jokes" normalize disrespect. When influential comedians and the platforms that air them don't face consequences, it sends a message that this behavior is acceptable. That's exactly the kind of environment where harmful attitudes toward women thrive.

If this feels like it crossed a line to you, consider signing and sharing the petition. What's your take—does SNL have a responsibility to address this, or am I reading too much into comedy?


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

WTF I am unemployed and struggling to find a job. This was a response from a man I haven't seen in over 2 years when I opened up to him about it...

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157 Upvotes

Context: This is a real conversation I had today with a male I briefly dated over 2 years ago. We didn't even date for 1 month and he felt comfortable enough to say this to me. After over TWO YEARS! This is within the first few texts of our conversation (that HE initiated).

I told him I was unemployed and struggling to find a job. This was his response. I still can't figure out what he means about Asian women, but then again - he can't even use the proper "you're" so it might be difficult to figure out.

Oh, and he's almost 40, by the way. He got mad at me for asking how his daughter is doing and abruptly ended the conversation when I made it clear I wasn't interested in anything.

I'm glad I have a space to share this because my head feels like it's going to explode!!


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Found On Social media what 😭😭😭

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126 Upvotes

idk is it sum yet another stereotype or what 💔💔


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Found On Social media Another men admitting to understanding there's no difference between 17 and 18 while defending adults dating teenagers.

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53 Upvotes

First half is pretending to care about adults dating teenagers, and the rest is defending it.

(He mentioned reddit saying how 17 is too young but 18 isn't, idk what side he is on, but I don't see people agreeing that 18 is now old enough to date older usually, the same people were still disgusted by grown adults dating teenagers even at 18).

If this person believes 18 is a random number of adulthood ( which it is) then they most definitely don't agree with age of consent laws like 16, meaning they would defend it.

Saying 18 doesn't make someone an adult but also defending adults dating teenagers under 18 isn't too logic because he is basically saying there's nothing wrong with adults dating teenagers under 18.

I don't think 18 is an adult, I also don't think adults should date teenagers.

If this man was against grooming of children, he would disagree with the age of adulthood while saying it's still wrong for adults to date teenagers of all ages but he didn't.

He already believes there's nothing wrong with adults dating teenagers, 18 doesn't make them an adult, and isn't one at 17 and 16 but he believes it taking away their decisions to be groomed, society should let children decide if they want to be groomed

I just want anyone else to see this and if anyone else see the pretend to care about grooming while defending it.

And with the whole comparison of child abuse, a 13 year old getting raped isn't the same as a newborn, or toddler, would he rather a toddler get raped over a new born??

Obviously the differences is there but both are horrible.

With underage drinking, he is using the law to decide whether it's underage drinking while shaming people for using the law to decide if grooming of a child is wrong. Or if 18 is an adult.


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 2d ago

Found On Social media Also not how guys work

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r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 2d ago

Found On Social media This is only a problem if you're a creepy pervert

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340 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 2d ago

WTF Apparently girls don’t do dirty jobs?

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1.6k Upvotes

A message I received. Apparently I abuse my man too since I don’t cook for him.


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 2d ago

Cringe Orgasm equity is “trying to emulate a man”, according to this guy. The post he was responding to is on the 2nd slide

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