....it's all fun and games until you have to describe yourself.
Most people tell me I'm intelligent, give good advice, know what I want and logical. If you're into mbti, mine is INTJ and I've never been mistyped. However, I've done a lot of inner work and reflection and I've grown to seek more human connection that brings me resonance, laughter and value. The world is wide, and I wonder if I'll find a good friend here.
I did Biology for my undergrad and I like science. My drive is mostly to understand what the truth is at the center of all things. Currently, I'm planning to pursue my studies in a particular field. Part of it is to also start a new life elsewhere.
I've travelled to a lot of countries (guess the number).
I'm terrible at answering questions on favourites because it's so final and hierarchical. So hobbies..I try to get a good sleep at night, catch the sunrise to align my circadian rhythm, meditate, stretch and do some reflection. I like watching the skies and do a bit of gardening or reading a book while getting my vitamin D (I am totally grossed out by worms though. I'd freeze and panic if I see one). I play my piano sometimes, I have 2 cats, I love puzzles, crosswords, jigsaw, board games etc. I tend to cook everyday, not because I like it, but because I'd be craving something and cooking is easy to me, and I do it fast. Ironically, and paradox is perhaps my middle name, I absolutely despise routine with a passion. I mostly do things because I think they're 'right' so I have to do it.
I do listen to music (mostly when I work out) and watch movies/tv shows sometimes, but I find them to be less interesting these days. Oversupply, same slob. I hardly finish whatever I watch, and I don't have Netflix because it doesn't interest me. I find too much screentime to be exhausting, so it's not my main thing but rather a way to spend quality time with someone. I don't play games, but that's only because I get competitive sometimes (healthily) and I know I'd obsess over it and waste a lot of my time until I finish it. So I just don't start. But I'll play scrabble, chess or quick games with you.
What I value most is freedom. I hate being told what to do and when to do it which is why I avoid a 9-5 job. I started a few small business on the side and since I work on my own and I like studying, it'd be good if I can talk to someone while doing that. I'm too inside my mind, my soul is probably half decomposing hence this post. I also started my own sports club several years ago and it currently has over 1k+ members (and like a true INTJ psychopath, I handle it all alone. Send help). I organize games for 30-40 players every week, and that's mostly my social outlet where I get to meet new people. I'm also picking up new hobbies like sketching and learning bachata. Getting into some spanish songs lately, so some recommendations would be great.
I probably sound serious here but I'm pretty unserious when I'm comfortable and relaxed. I like people who have depth, can handle any conversation and who naturally makes me laugh (I am in dire need of laughing more). I'd like to talk to people who are working on themselves: emotionally, intellectually, physically etc but also know how to be light, silly and fun. I crave depth and resonance. We either click or we don't. If you want to start a conversation, tell me about yourself, where you're from and we'll see if our personalities match :) Plus point if you're a healthy ENTP. I also do not want to talk to another NTJ as I've already mostly been living inside my head, and I'm familiar with the patterns. I'm open to talking to both men and women, including cool grandmas who have gotten their lives together that they're back to being a girl and the world is just a fun playground to them.
Note: I am not looking for nsfw. I will chase you down to a hole, post your pictures on reddit and make sure your account gets banned if you try.