r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

44/F Seeking Friendly Conversation

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Hi, 👋👋. I’m an extroverted happily married mom and a genuinely curious person who loves to banter and learn about new people. I have had some solid luck making new friends on here, and I’m feeling chatty tonight, so I thought I would throw my hat in the ring again.

My profile is a pretty accurate indicator of me. I am a veracious reader. I light up talking about books, and I’m ready to give you recommendations. I like to bake. I like to thrift. And I mom pretty hard too, lol. Big on humor. Big on kindness.

I’m also into fitness, travel, watching hockey and football and love leisurely biking and spending time in nature.
Interested in speaking with people 35-55. Please tell me your age and give me a 🚖 to show you actually read this!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

32 F Friend hunting

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As the title states, hunting for friends! Im 32, and I am from Wisconsin! I love all things spooky. So excited for Halloween. I am currently job hunting, so I have a bit of free time on my hands right now. I love to game, watch movies, or just chat about whatever.

I look forward to chatting! Something to start the conversation with.. start by telling me what your halloween plans are or maybe what your favorite movie or video game is! I know starting chats with random strangers can be uncomfortable sometimes! So hopefully this helps!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[F4R] 34 F - Any other 420-friendly people want to chat? Any age and gender is cool!

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A little random info about my life: I have no living relatives. I was born without a voice and can't speak at all. I have an app on my phone that I can type into and it will speak everything out loud for me. If it's something simple, I'll just mime what I'm trying to convey. So communication isn't an issue at all, but a lot of people have avoided me in life because I think it just makes them awkward or something. I don't fault them for that though because they're still kind to me for the most part. I have a good job that I enjoy. I have an unusual fascination with alien-abduction movies lol.

Feel free to message me if you'd like to chat! (Just no creepy people, please.)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

[F4M] 35F - A lady who's looking for chat friends

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I'm Dee!

As with most of the folks here, I'm looking to meet new people. I am not here to make anyone feel obligated, I feel we should always choose the connection over the obligation. I'm very witchy (been practicing divination for over 15 years) and I'm very nerdy. I work in tech (yes AI heavy role so if that's an issue feel free to move to the next person)

I enjoy Baldurs Gate 3. I got talked into playing hearthstone again by a friend of mine and I'd say my favorite game is FF14. I love to travel though most of my experience has been domestic, I've been branching out to international travel. I consider myself very intuitive and analytical by nature. I have an assortment of hobbies. I have a few pictures of myself in my profile if that paints a vision.

I'm looking for a friend who likes to voice or video chat about whatever. Someone who is honest and takes care of themselves by doing the work. Someone who isn't afraid of being vulnerable with another person and comfortable being uncomfortable. Something real and built on stability I feel is critical to friendship.

If you got this far and you're not some sort of creep or bot hit me up.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[M4R] 36m-hoping to find someone to connect with

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Hello there everyone, I’ve had a lot of change in my life this past year or so. With that I’ve found myself isolating even more so than I’m naturally inclined to do. I feel that it’s probably best that I take some strides to break free from that a little bit, being alone with your thoughts all of the time isn’t exactly ideal. I do have people in my life, a lovely family, a few wonderful friends. But recently I’ve been yearning for someone outside of that circle of people. Just a stranger, an unbiased ear, something new and refreshing. That has all sounded very appealing to me lately. So, here I am, shouting into the abyss that is Reddit. That’s a logical next step, right?? 🙃 Anyways, if this sounds at all like something you’ve also been going through or has piqued your interest at all please feel free to reach out! Maybe, just maybe, I’ll find someone I can call a good friend through all this!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

Let's be friends maybe?

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I'm really just looking for someone to talk to and see where things go. No huge expectations, no pressure to force a connection...just two people getting to know each other and seeing if we click. Ideally, I'm looking for a long term chat buddy (sfw). Someone who doesn't mind chatting throughout the day if we do hit it off.

A little about me: I love horror, retro video games, warhammer 40k, books and cooking.

If you are interested, send me a message and tell me something about yourself instead of just saying hey :)

Bonus points if you're funny, easygoing, and can actually keep a conversation going consistently.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

Married yet lonely artist. Late 30s/F in Upstate~ish NY.

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First things first — this is strictly *platonic*. I don't care who you are, where you're from, or what you look like, and vice versa. I'm looking for genuine friendship, preferably with other coupled people who feel unseen, too. I'm not looking for romance. Period. The end!

I've spent over 20 years in a miserable marriage, feeling lonely and unseen, and I'm finally looking forward to a new chapter of my life. Life has been kicking my ass for a LONG time, and I'm exhausted from always having to be the one wearing the pants, handling everything, and keeping it all together. I'm lonely, frustrated, and desperately need someone to talk to.

Long story short, I really need a BFF. Someone I can talk to about life's bullshit, laugh with, be weird with, and just be myself around. BUT — I don't want this friendship to be all about me! I want to hear about YOUR life, too. I need to feel useful and like we're both getting something out of the friendship. So please, introduce yourself instead of just saying "hey"! I've exposed myself here, so it's only fair.

Bonus points if you're a fellow weirdo who's into spooky stuff, horror, metal, arts, cats and wearing black like it's a uniform.

I've moved around a lot, don't really know anyone here, and I miss the carefree, fun person I know is still somewhere inside me. I want to be more positive, laugh more, and have someone to share the good, the bad, and the downright ridiculous with.

SOS. MAYDAY. SEND HELP. Distract me from the dumpster fire that is my (so-called) life!

Yes, I'm Gen X, and fuck yes, I'm nostalgic lately. 🤘


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[M4F] 33 Male Norway 💃

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Hey everyone, nerdy night owl who is looking for others up around this time to chat with. I enjoy books, horror movies, retro/new games(ps5) anime and all types of music(main is and always will be metal). If you want to talk about any of those things or are just bored hit up.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

34M - Fall is finally here. Enjoying an sunny evening with bikes, beer, and hopefully your companionship.

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How are the cooler temperatures treating you? I went to a Death Cab show recently because emo's not a phase, and have gone on some pretty fantastic hikes lately. Finally made the transition from cold brew to hot coffee. I love this time of year and feel like I've been waiting all summer for the clouds to come back.

It's been hot and dry for what feels like an eternity, and I'm feeling anxiously excited to get outside with more frequency as things cool off. I've been into gravel biking since last fall, and am looking forward to putting in more miles and exploring local trails. I snuck out of work early, and just finished up a nice trail ride; got some great fall colors in the mix this week. And of course I promptly ruined the exercise by getting a pizza and beer on the way home. I have zero plans for the evening, and am hoping to find some good conversation while I doom scroll netflix looking for a good horror movie for tonight. Happily accepting recommendations.

I'm genuinely down to talk about anything. What's the last really cool hike you went on? What's the most trouble you've ever been in? Tell me the last book you read, the podcast you are currently obsessed with, the last recipe you tried that blew your mind? I'm down for it all.

Personally, I love cooking, anything outdoors, and anyone with a passion they want to share. I know it's only Friday evening, but I definitely needed at least a few more days off, so if you've got any desire to fight off the boredom together, I'd love to get to know you. Send me a message and let's see if we hit it off?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

[M4M] 38M looking for chill dudes for chats

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Just a down to earth dude .. looking for other chill dudes (M) to just chat.. down for whatever .. Long term ..Some interests include videos games… Pokémon.. marvel.. Star Wars.. Plants.. and others. Can talk here .. or I got a snap, telegram..so we can chat there .. which ever is cool

So if ya down.. hit me up and let’s get the conversation started ! Definitely down for some longer term friends ! Down for whatever. It’s a slow friday afternoon.. slow at work.. bored .... so Don’t be afraid to say hi!!! Lets chat!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

[F4M] 42F England

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First time poster on this sub. I’m 42f from England. I’m a teacher. Rebuilding my life after coming out of a long-term relationship. Not really sure what to put here. Looking to make new friends. I love good conversation! 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[R4R] 30F - Canada - Looking for that true friend

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30 female

Located in Canada

Mom of 2

2 dogs

Happily married (yes he knows I'm looking for platonic friends)

Looking for a best friend, it sounds simple but man has it been a steady let down.

I have friends in person but I'm not very close with them. I want someone I can be myself with, someone who wants to get to know me for who I am.

I'm working on myself not only physically but mentally as well.

My three main things that bring me joy

  1. Animals (especially dogs)

  2. Music (I just saw Shinedown in August)

  3. Art (I draw and paint)

I also love to cook, bake, watch movies/tv series, long nature walks with my dogs, listening to music, gardening, diy-ing, crochet, play cozy games, and read.

Deal breakers:

  1. If your profile following is full of NSFW pages, I'm not replying sorry.

  2. If you are more than 8+ hours from MT, unless if you are a night owl I don't think it'll work.

  3. If your spouse doesn't know you are on here talking to people, I don't want to be a secret.

I put a lot of effort into making friendships so I'm hoping I can find a few long-term friendships.

Please feel free to reach out!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

30F, NY, looking for casual but reciprocating conversation.

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Hi all, open to chatting with anybody but not a fan of “how are you” “good thanks how are you” “good” type conversation.

Maybe tell me about your hobbies and dreams? And hopefully you’ll ask about mine too. But also hoping there’s someone who won’t mind a busy schedule and replying when time allows.

I have two dogs; I enjoy the outdoors, music, cooking (when I have time), baking, learning about most anything, cars, tennis, running, biking, etc.

Thanks!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[F4R] 42F Midwest looking for some lil chats

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Hi! Im just listening to baseball and working on some projects and wouldn’t mind a lil short term company.

My interests are art, music, visiting breweries, cinnamon rolls, Publix tiramisu, tattoos, and more. possibilities are endless.

tell me your weekend plans. show me your art. tell me your next tattoo or favorite dessert


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14h ago

33F Looking for some nice and chill connections :)

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Hello!

I am from Europe and would like to meet some people for some chill talks. I find it so a nice thing here to just get to know people all over the world and write little "letters" to each other. I am not looking for a relationship! But friends are always welcome and can be so very important :)

A bit about me: I like being creative.. that can take many forms. Painting, little crafts, and so on.. cooking is also a big passion. People that come here know that good food in included. It's a big love language for me :) I read almost every day. Helps me relax. Music and movies are also very important to me. Also traveling and nature and making big little adventures!

How is life? How are you? Any nice weekend plans?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[R4R] Iced coffee lovers,where ya’ll at?

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Anddd…where do ya’ll get your iced coffee from?How do you like it?

35F


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[M4R] M 29 - imma leave the door open 🚪

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I would’ve put “calling all creeps” as a reference to the Goosebumps book, but uhhh you can kinda figure why that would’ve been a bad idea 😐

Anyway lol, hey ! I hope your week went well. As for me I’ve been busy with work and finally have some down time and just been trying to gain some more rest and even play some games. Since the month of scares is almost over, I’ve been in the mood for talking about something related to Halloween wether it be movies, games, shows, music, or whatever else haha. 🎃

Haven’t much luck since I trick myself into talking about work and talking about it is scary enough ! Lmao, but honestly I’m just looking for some chats and see what sticks honestly.

That sounds simple enough… right ? I hope so, but if you’re interested in talking then by all means hmu ! And if not then have a great weekend everyone 😁


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[M4R] 33M I realize it is kinda quiet sometimes

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I've been on my own pretty much since I graduated from college. Only one lasting friendship came from that but we're both terrible at keeping in touch with each other unless we find time to hang out in person. And lately I find that if anything interesting or mildly amusing happens, I just keep it to myself.

I don't consider myself as asocial. I don't mind at all engaging with other people. But I realize that I also haven't really tried to for a while. I think it's about time to change that.

I'm looking for someone to talk with. As everyone else here. Someone who feels like myself. Who wants to share what happens during the day. Who wants to learn about things we're unfamiliar with or bond over things that we both enjoy. Long term or even just for a little while. Not all paths are meant to go on forever, and I understand. But making them happen is just as appealing.

As far as what I like, it's the usual. Video games and movies. Mostly Nintendo stuff and some gacha games. I also like traveling a lot. So far I've only been able to do so inside my own country, but I hope to travel to many different places in the future.

If this appeals to you, then great! If not. I hope you do find what you've been looking for. Thanks for reading regardless.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[M4R] 42/M - US -Looking for lifelong friendships and daily conversations! Who’s signing onto AOL with me??

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Welcome!
You’ve Got Mail!

Just looking for some genuine people to talk to daily and get to know! Have those deep conversations with sometimes. joke around with, game with sometimes.

I’m an 80s/90s kid and love to reminisce about those days! Blockbuster, Toys R Us, Bradlees, KB Toys! All that kind of stuff. Also a bonus if you quote alot of movies randomly throughout the day.

I’m 42 and a married father of 2. So it definitely helps if you’re all about that parenting life too!
Especially the tiredness of it all—the never-ending chaos, trying to find time for yourself, and somehow still functioning by the end of the day.

I’m a gamer and play pretty much every genre. I’m on Xbox, PC, and Switch 2, and I also really enjoy Beat Saber on VR. Some favorite games are Fortnite, Kingdom Hearts, Anything Mario and Zelda, Call of Duty, Diablo, and basically anything fun i see in the xbox store and steam.

I’m also into D&D and board games/tcgs too, along with puzzles and book nooks when I’m in the mood for something a little more relaxing.

I love tv and movies of all genres and listen to pretty much all kinds of music. I’m also really big on nostalgia, especially anything from the 80s and 90s. My spotify playlist is all over the place.

I’ve been listening to the Dungeon Crawler Carl series on audiobook.

I’m not into 420 or drinking. You definitely don’t have to share every one of my interests—I’d rather find people who are easy to talk to, have a good sense of humor, can talk about random stuff, and actually want to build a friendship.

Being in the US is a plus, mostly because similar time zones make chatting easier. I know everyone has their own lives and responsibilities, especially other parents, so I don’t expect constant messages or immediate replies.

If we sound like we might get along, send me a message rather than comment on here.

Tell me a top song you’re listening to now old or new! Or a favorite retro tv show/movie! Or even a fun childhood memory. Anything but just ‘hi’


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

37F for EU platonic connections

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I'm Swedish. I like learning languages, feminism, animals, fun design styles like frutiger aero, art. Try to keep myself happy, be relatively healthy, laugh at my miseries 😅. I'm childfree.

Seeking somewhat likeminded, (trying to be) positive, childfree Europeans. Would be fun to find some activity to share, watch a series, read same book or just general chatting.

Send pm and tell me who you are 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

31 F Midwest - looking for gaming friends!

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I’m Venus! Just looking for some new friends to chat, play games, and maybe vent to every now and then. I am a mom so fellow moms would also be a bonus!
I love gaming and right now I’m mostly playing Fortnite, so would love to have someone to play with! I’m also really into music, movies, all things spooky, astrology, and I’m a little witchy. Shoot me a message if we have anything in common! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8m ago

38M looking for some friends

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I love listening to rock/metal, big fan of marvel movies as well as horror movies! Also play some games on PC. Mostly Dead by Daylight while waitibg for WoW Forever to drop. I don't take things too serious, just wanna laugh and have a good time while playing. Feel free to DM me if you want to know more!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9m ago

41M - Here if you need a friend!

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Hey I know how hard nights can be. I’m just hanging out tonight. Could use an interesting conversation. I love meeting new people. If you’re looking for a friend or just need to vent, send me a message. You’re not alone!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10m ago

Friend?

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Looking to converse. Horror. EDM. Night Owl. Over educated. Underpaid. 34M. Lived multiple lives. 40+ YO in a 34 year old body.