r/LonelyTogether • u/Striking-Indication8 • 9m ago
r/LonelyTogether • u/Melody-0-Soul • 3h ago
If I’m worth befriending. Omani, M/2003.
Boys, girls, how we doing? Hope well.
This is a post for whoever needs a friend or for
whoever thinks I’m worth befriending.
A lil about me: I’m in my 20s Omani from Muscat, don’t study nor work –dropped out at grade 12– so a failure I guess,
( I’m not calling myself a failure, but to the society standards I guess I’m considered to be
one).
Don’t really have any hobbies, but if You were to put a gun to my head and tell me to name a few (I wouldn’t care ._.), hah ya.. but umm it’s gonna be gaming music and cooking (I like cooking shows and watching people cook, I see cooking as a form of art, I’ve always loved cooking ever since I was a kid, but I’m not that good at it hah).
And umm ya, that’s really all. I literally can’t live without music, and I’m talking about the real music 90s-80s and below (the golden age), Anything after that I don’t consider it to be music and can’t feel it. The real music that can be heard and felt by the soul has died a long time ago, and all that’s left are the memories of it, and I intend to keep it alive deep down inside of me (music is the only thing that makes me feel sum). It’s just my opinion, don’t get all defensive and shit…
I play, well… I used to play all kind of shit when I was younger and had friends, but for years now I’ve just been playing random games where I don’t necessarily need a buddy to play with me, like Apex and Tekken. I do love Minecraft because it’s a nostalgic game, but haven’t played it in years and playing it alone kinda hurts (I haven’t really been playing anything lately, I just don’t feel like playing).
I always felt like wanting to go camping out in no where like the desert or sum كشته يعني for an extended period of time but never did.
I like the beach and go to it quite often
(((quite often))), – 7 years straight, daily and for 6-7 hours from 12am till 6am alone– although lately I’ve been going less and less often than I used to, what once gave the beach a purpose a colour a life, is no longer around.
Now shit gets a lil personal and deep , but I’m a very honest person (people say I’m “too honest for your own good”, people= my mom) obviously I got to let You guys know and hope You guys understand.
I got a severe social anxiety, I can’t handle the public at all. I believe that years of isolation created that, so whenever I go out, being only the beach, I go at odd hours when it’s completely empty and sit there alone. So, an introvert I guess.
My communication skills are pretty, pretty, pretty, pretty bad, or quite straight forward; meaning I can’t keep a conversation alive. I’m the kind of person to just answer a question then just stop talking and rarely aks one. And if I do aks one, once I get the answer, I find it very hard to move forward from there You know (like a normal person)…. But I’m really trying and I really want to talk and keep talking I just need a push that’s all, so I’m not being a dick head is what I’m saying if you noticed that I’m not talking much.
I haven’t had a friend or anyone to talk to in like 9-10 years. No cousins, no family, nada—just the family I got in my house, and we’re not even that close.
Never celebrated any of the traditional celebrations ever since, so like 10 years. I guess life just kinda played ball with me and I lost.
I ain’t perfect. I do drink occasionally but rarely (last time I drank was a while ago , I lost a someone special in my life and needed a drink). I smoke (ciggy) and don’t pray.
I’m not proud of that, but it is what it is.
Never touched a drug in my life and will never (unless if You wanna call cigarettes and scotch drugs then ._. Ok). If You so happen to use any paraphernalia, I don’t mind and won’t look at You any differently. I might advise You (depending on what it is, natural is natural) but won’t step out of line. So ummm ya, that’s me.
PS: please just Omanis 23 years old and above, your gender/sexuality doesn’t bother me at all.
obviously I do speak and understand Arabic but since I went years without speaking the language it feels weird coming out of my mouth so I almost never speak it (English is my mother’s language), what matters is what you’re looking for, if you’re looking for a “temporary friend” please respectfully just don’t reach out. I ain’t gonna lie, I’m new to the whole friendship and whatnot so I don’t know what the **** is a “temporary friend” So please respectfully just don’t reach out cuz it stings. I’m looking for something serious, I’m fine with both online and offline but the truth is that it would be nice if it turned offline after a while, although it scares me but deep down I really will appreciate it.
PPS: I apologise about the long text and the profanities I’ve used, Hope You guys have a wonderful day.
PPPS: if you’re not an Omani but live in Oman and think I’m worth a shot do reach out, I’ve made such post many times over the years but I believe I’m not my people’s cup of tea.
I owe my younger self one more shot in life, one last shot. Whether it works or not, I know I at least tried.
r/LonelyTogether • u/1000subs1w4456 • 6h ago
anyone?
I’m 19 male currently working and gonna be going back to school soon i have friends but they all always have something going on i have a gf but she always has something going on im also alone and bored i go to work come home wait on my girl to answer for just a little bit then gts and do it over again idk i just want some friends someone to talk to i like to watch tv shows i like anime i like wwe i like manga reading so many things i like kpop idk man someone be my friend plz im so down about this stuff i have no one man
r/LonelyTogether • u/basicalydeadyetalive • 12h ago
27 M Looking for a chat buddy
I've created a new account because of a few reasons, I can explain the reasons over DM, but first off the point of a new account is to find friends, like people who genuinely want to be friends, I will listen to them rant about anything and everything, in return I will rant too about anything and everything, I will not judge, at this point of my life, I've lost interest in all of my hobbies so I don't think there's anything to know about me.
Professionally I'm a mechanical engineer working with EVs in part time I do food delivery to get a side income.
I feel alone, depressed, empty and broke all the time hence seeking friendship.
r/LonelyTogether • u/imscaredofyo • 15h ago
21F depressed wna text and maybe call :(
I read all requests but i WILL ignore if u just send "hi"
i'm trans and into girls this will normally filter a lot
my two things are making music and learning languages
please be interested in music making :((
or please teach me a language :(
i play games we cud play together
r/LonelyTogether • u/Harveny • 15h ago
22M looking for a stranger who might become my favourite person to talk to
Hey, I’m 22M from india.
I recently graduated and am currently preparing for competitive exams while trying to figure out life one day at a time. Most days are a mix of studying, overthinking, music, and scrolling way longer than I should. 💀
Lately, I've been realizing that even when life is going okay, it feels a little incomplete without someone to share the random little things with.
I’m looking for someone I can text out of nowhere, exchange memes with, talk about absolutely nothing, or have those unexpected late-night conversations that somehow turn into hours.
I have friends in real life, but there's something special about meeting someone new and slowly becoming a familiar part of each other's everyday lives.
If you're looking for that kind of connection too, feel free to say hi. Tell me something random about yourself, and let's see where a simple conversation takes us.
r/LonelyTogether • u/DangerousHeight4763 • 16h ago
I'm so bored today! Been on Facebook, X and Reddit but I don't suppose anyone is out today so I'll just watch my neighbors kids and give her a break.
r/LonelyTogether • u/DesignerSlide8535 • 1d ago
21M - Let’s talk about literally anything
Just went through a messy break up that ended a 5 year relationship, dealing with a housing crisis, and I have no friends and not much family left. Just looking to talk with people to hopefully distract myself from my life and maybe feel like I’m not so alone. I promise I will not vent to you about my issues all things considered I’m still pretty chipper. I’m a beginner 3D artist and I’m into film, comics, and very easy to play games. Anyone interested in talking my discord is beetlejoink or you can message me here, whichever works for you :)
r/LonelyTogether • u/Defiant_Campaign5772 • 1d ago
I am 23M searching for genuine female friend
r/LonelyTogether • u/Glittering-Abies-478 • 1d ago
Looking for long term friends (21M)
Hey im 21M from india Gujarat, i lost all my close friends because of my own bad personality but i want to make new friends to prove to myself that I’m not the same person.
I do video editing and trying to make some money from that
& I also listen to some metal genres
r/LonelyTogether • u/Alekro813 • 1d ago
19M Looking for Something Real
Hiya. My name's Alex.
I'm a college student in California studying Bio and pre-med. I want to become a family medicine doctor.
I struggle with mental health.
I need someone I can talk to. REALLY talk to. Someone 18-21 who has been through a lot so can understand me at least a little.
I want to feel chosen. The little things matter to me. Good morning texts. Feeling like you're excited to talk. Being clingy. Double, triple, quadruple or however many texting. Be kind and supportive.
I can't say I'm a good person. I'm not a good person. I can't solve your problems. But we're all for friendship. Everyone deserves connection and care and love. But someone needs to give it. That could be me. I'm neither a genie nor a knight in shining armour. But I can choose you. Every day. I'll pick up the call 24/7 unless I'm... in a situation where I'm only allowed to wear one item of my own clothing.
I'm 0% judgmental. I lost that right years ago. I don't care if you're weird. I don't care if you're neurodivergent. I don't care if you like or don't like certain things or people. I don't care if you're awkward. I don't care if you've broken the sixth commandment on numerous occasions.
I like gaming, health and mental health, youtube, anime, fitness, manga and a lot more.
It doesn't matter if your interests coincide with mine.
I'd love to chat. Over text. Late night calls. The small things. The big things. Anything.
Leave a comment or DM.
Age, gender and what you are looking for in friendship.
r/LonelyTogether • u/Flashmemory256 • 1d ago
[24/M] Looking for a best friend, things are quite lonely
Hey! I've posted here before but haven't had much luck so far. And due to lonliness, things have been kinda sucky lately. Kinda being a star-sized understatement (cuz stars are big.. hehe). Anyways, excuse my awfully unfunny pun! You *yes you my possible future friend* probably has better humor than I. Im hoping to make long term friends who also love music like I do, I want a close connection with someone that lasts a lifetime! Hoping we can geek out about our interests and feel comfortable to do so! I'm in the EST time zone and am super into music (my tastes are all over the place, my favorite is the retro era but I also like a lot of new stuff too). I really wanna find someone who loves old artists and bands and music history and aesthetics! Hope you're all having a good day!
r/LonelyTogether • u/PositionAsleep3017 • 2d ago
24F Looking to make online friends!
About me!
Relationship status: Engaged
Hobbies: Gaming, listening to music, watching YouTube videos, stargazing, arts and crafts, enjoying nature.
Games I like: Stardew Valley, Minecraft, GTA: San Andreas, Cult of the Lamb, Baldur's Gate 3, Escape from Tarkov, etc.
Others: I’m also not that great when it comes to being social due to mental health issues (Depression, Anxiety, PTSD and Borderline Personality Disorder). Some days are better than others, it depends on my social battery… so I apologize if I’m a bit quiet, or disappear for long moments at a time. Trying to work on that.
r/LonelyTogether • u/Serious_Original_250 • 2d ago
M34 – Looking to Make New Friends
Hey everyone! 😊
I’m 34 years old, male, and from Germany. I’d really like to make some new friends, as I often feel lonely in my everyday life.
Some of my interests include anime. I also enjoy talking about all kinds of topics, whether it’s everyday things, personal thoughts, or deeper questions about life and the world.
What’s especially important to me is being able to talk openly and honestly without being immediately judged or criticized for having different opinions. I believe everyone should be allowed to have their own views, even if we don’t always agree. Mutual respect and understanding mean a lot to me.
That’s why I’m specifically looking for people who think similarly and also value open, respectful, and non-judgmental conversations.
I’m also only looking to connect with people who feel lonely themselves. It’s important to me that the other person understands what loneliness feels like from their own experience, so that we might be able to understand each other better.
If you can relate to this and are also looking for a genuine friendship, I’d be happy to hear from you! 😊
r/LonelyTogether • u/ApprehensivePiece869 • 2d ago
23M, trying to find a little company in a difficult phase of life
Hey everyone,
I recently went through a breakup after being in a relationship for almost a year, and honestly, I'm still trying to process everything. It's strange how someone who was once part of your everyday life can suddenly become a stranger.
I'm not really looking for advice or sympathy. I'd just love to connect with someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, late-night talks, random nonsense, and sharing little things about life.
I'd especially love to connect with a woman who enjoys good conversations and doesn't mind talking to someone who's going through a rough patch. Age isn't a big deal to me; a genuine connection matters more than a number.
If you're up for a conversation, feel free to drop me a message. No pressure, no expectations, just two people getting to know each other. ❤️
I am from India so please i would like to be friends with indian but feel free to text me
r/LonelyTogether • u/Harveny • 2d ago
22M from India, looking for an online friend :)
Hey! I graduated last year, did an internship in tech, and eventually realized it wasn't for me. Now I'm preparing for government exams while trying to figure out life, one day at a time.
Most of my days are spent studying, and my nights usually end with mindless scrolling.
But this festive season made me realize how lonely life can feel sometimes. Seeing people around me celebrating with their friends, making plans, and creating memories makes me wonder what it's like to have that kind of connection. I'm happy for them, of course, but a part of me wishes I had something similar too.
I have friends in real life, so it's not about having nobody. I just wish I had someone I could randomly text, share memes with, talk about the most pointless things, or have those unexpected 1 a.m. conversations with.
Someone who goes from being a stranger to a familiar part of your everyday life.
If you're looking for something similar, feel free to say hi. Maybe we can make each other's days a little less ordinary. :)
r/LonelyTogether • u/BreadfruitCareful287 • 2d ago
21M | Looking for a genuine female friend to talk to and build a real friendship with
r/LonelyTogether • u/cuteorsexy69 • 2d ago
M23 living in Berlin alone, need friends
I am living in Berlin for past 3 years now and every year it gets lonelier. As winter is coming it difficult to even see people walking on street or any events tbh. I am looking for genuine connections to talk with, i enjoy cooking, trekking, cafe hopping, video games, board games and started reading books. It would nice to have someone to talk to and share life update.
r/LonelyTogether • u/Glass-Breadfruit-430 • 3d ago
28 M - looking for genuine connection
Hi. I’m from India. I recently had a breakup and feeling all the emotions at once. I’m on meds too. I really want someone who is a stranger (preferably woman - tbh I feel more comfortable) who can listen and talk with me about my feelings and ready to have prolonged and honest conversations. Looking for someone who is really kind and consistent
r/LonelyTogether • u/SpaceCadetCloud • 3d ago
25f looking for just friends or just a something to feel less lonely
Chronic daydreamer, love all things fantasy, movies/shows, webtoons, ao3, cats, daily walking, teas, and wellness/self motivation interests. Had some rough moments, especially my upbringing but I’m a neurodivergent mellow fellow c: Social anxiety is real but it’s not so bad online, talk to me about anything and everything!
What was something that happened this week? Do y’all have pets? Is there anything that stuck out to you in your roughest moments? (Good advice or otherwise?)
r/LonelyTogether • u/hoopsmccann22 • 3d ago
18f in need of some new friends
haii guys my name is rosanna but you can call me rose. i’m an 18 year old trans girl living in the US and i’m looking for cool new friends.
My main hobbies are music, golf, watching baseball, star wars, and animated movies. I’m a musician who plays drums and a little bit of piano. My favorite baseball team is the red sox (and don’t think just cuz i’m a girl i don’t know a lot about baseball). My favorite movie of all time is The Incredibles.
Please feel free to dm me. I also am not comfortable sending photos so please don’t ask me for any. and please dm me with a question to start the conversation.
(i reserve the right to completely ignore anyone who appears creepy or untrustworthy or too old. be kind. use common sense please)
r/LonelyTogether • u/MLG_420A • 3d ago
(18M) Why do people unfriend or ghost me on Discord? Is it because they don't like me?
Hello, I'm posting here because I just want to look for genuine friends, but I keep getting unfriended or ghosted. Honestly, is it one of my biggest mental health fears. I'm feeling a bit calm right now because I'm listening to my music playlist to help calm my mind, but it still hurt.
I don't know why people keep leaving. I try my best to be honest and helpful to everyone. I think maybe people don't like talking to me because I mostly do small talk, or maybe I get confused and freeze up. When I get confused, I usually just greet them and don't know what else to do or say. My ex girl also recently unfriended me, which makes me worry even more.
If you ask me questions about myself, I get too afraid and don't know how to answer. I just want to look for a kind friend who won't ghost me.
If you want to add me, my Discord is: stivun122112
r/LonelyTogether • u/Goodguy3380 • 3d ago
22M looking for a genuine female friend (strictly platonic)
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Hey! I'm 22M from India, looking to make a genuine female friend with whom I can talk about life, share random thoughts, laugh at stupid things, and have those conversations where neither person has to pretend to be someone else.
A little about me:
🏋️ Currently on a fitness and weight-loss journey.
📸 Into photography and capturing random moments.
✍️ Occasionally write poetry and get a little philosophical.
🎧 Enjoy music, memes, deep conversations, and random midnight discussions.
I like talking about life, relationships, personal growth, and pretty much anything that makes for an interesting conversation.
I'm specifically looking for a female friend, nothing beyond friendship. No flirting, no NSFW conversations, no hidden intentions. Just a respectful friendship with clear boundaries, mutual trust, and equal effort.
We can share how our days went, rant about things, exchange songs, talk about our problems, or just have completely pointless conversations.
You don't need to have the same interests as me. Just be genuine, respectful, and interested in building a friendship that lasts longer than a few days.
If this sounds like your kind of friendship, feel free to DM me. Tell me something about yourself, or just tell me what song you've been listening to lately.