r/LAr4r • • 3h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] # casual and consistent fun NSFW

8 Upvotes

27f latina looking for and wanting casual & consistent fun, fwb/nsa type of thing. also have been wanting a threesome (would be the first time but have been wanting it for a while now!!) open to join couples as well (joined some before). must be clean and local. I’m able to host as well if needed, once comfortable.


r/LAr4r • • 1h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] # Let's hang out, make out and more NSFW

• Upvotes

Soft lips, sharp sarcasm, and here for chill hangs that feel natural. If we vibe, FWB is on the table. No drama, no pressure, just real chemistry, good conversation, and fun energy that actually feels easy.


r/LAr4r • • 1h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] # Montebello - Looking to lose my virginity and maybe even start something more? NSFW

• Upvotes

Hey there, 22-year-old Latino male looking for someone to connect with. I've always been shy and quiet, and it's led to me not really getting what so many others have been able to experience. I'm ready to learn now, and that's why im here!

I'm 5'8" and on the heavier side, about 230? I'm clean with good hygiene and willing to verify as long as you do as well. Dark brown hair with brown eyes and some glasses.

A little bit about me. I'm sort of a dork, not really a party kind of guy or anything. Part of why I struggle meeting people and especially girls. I enjoy playing video games and watching movies. Right now, I'm focusing on work to help out my family, which is another big part of my life. I hope to go back to school soon, though, to find a career that I enjoy doing, probably electrician or mechanic. Some other things I like doing are hanging out with friends. They aren't really party people either, so we always end up doing our own thing with just our group.

Ideally, you like the same things I do! If not, that's totally cool. I'd love to hear what you enjoy doing and what makes you happy. I'd consider myself a good listener, so if that's what you need, then im all ears. I enjoy more connection than anything. If you are willing to try that, then I think we would be a good match. :)

I'm not sure what else to put here besides hit me up! I'd like to get to know you a little, maybe even speak over the phone and talk like that if you are interested in that.


r/LAr4r • • 4h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] # Pasadena - love making men jerk to me NSFW

3 Upvotes

Well, the title of this post makes it pretty clear what I'm looking for right now. It can be as long or as short as you like, and it can be as dirty or as kinky as you want.


r/LAr4r • • 2h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] # LosAngeles - doll me up and use me NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking to be used for freeuse. You host and pick out my clothes and makeup then walk in the room I’ll be laying down ass up and come use me. We need to talk first but yeah.


r/LAr4r • • 8m ago

F4M 26 [F4M] # Regular cuddle + kiss buddy NSFW

• Upvotes

A little shy but extremely snuggly, and looking for someone who enjoys cozy hangs and genuine connection. Down for more if the spark is there.


r/LAr4r • • 11m ago

F4M 29 [F4M] # Pasadena - Single female looking for wild fun experience NSFW

• Upvotes

I'm 29 and looking for some fun tonight maybe even some trouble if the mood is right. very oral and love to please.


r/LAr4r • • 12m ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #CulverCity - Looking for something sensual/passionate NSFW

• Upvotes

Looking for a more sensual/passionate hookup. Things like eye contact during missionary, extended foreplay, dirty talk, whimpering, genuinely wanting to please eachother, etc. This may sound a bit much for a subreddit like this, but I'm just at a point now where I feel like if a hookup feels overly transactional or passionless, it doesn't really do much for me and I'd rather just masturbate at that point. A bit more about me:

\* 5'10", slim/fit body type, dark brown hair, brown eyes
\* bit shy but friendly and can hold conversation
\* tested clean
\* love going down, pleasing really turns me on
\* vocal when I'm turned on, especially during oral. I love to moan/grunt/pant
\* like foreplay and building sexual tension versus getting straight into it
\* switch, can be either dominant or submissive.
\* Limited bdsm experience (handcuffs/blindfolds), but open to exploring it more
\* turned on by public play, but totally understand if it's not your thing
\* prefer communicative partners and partners not shy about giving/receiving feedback

Not sure what else to add. Just looking for someone that's a good fit and also respectful, clean, and just a chill/normal person. I can share pictures of myself over chat, and we can go from there.


r/LAr4r • • 16m ago

F4M 29 [F4M] # Irvine - A Little Romance Wouldn't Hurt NSFW

• Upvotes

I'm affectionate, curious, and a fan of meaningful conversations mixed with plenty of laughter. I'd like to meet a confident, caring guy who enjoys taking things naturally and seeing where chemistry leads. If this works for you, I'm listening.


r/LAr4r • • 1h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] # RedondoBeach - big chill dude looking for winter/fall FWB NSFW

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Goooooood evening and happy Saturday everyone. Hope everyone is enjoying their weekend.

Looking for a like minded adult who just wants to have fun. Just two people relieving some stress.

Long time poster here. Have gotten messages here and there but still on the hunt for someone.

Please don’t reach out if you aren’t down to meet. Not looking to message all day and have nothing go down.

6”4 mixed race black and white, about 235/240. Thick athletic build, no 6 pack because I like carbs but I do workout.

As far as type I generally don’t have one body/race etc… I’m more of a guy who if he likes what he sees , he’s down.

No dudes please.

I can host in south Redondo and condoms will be used.

Really easy going dude, if you’re chill I’m chill.

Have a great night everyone!


r/LAr4r • • 1h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Is it a naughty Uber or UberEats kinda night? - I’m here to fulfill your fantasy NSFW

• Upvotes

IMPORTANT:
1. Females only
2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, a general idea of what you are looking to do
3. Be ready to exchange verification pictures

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to meet up for some naughty fun with an Uber driver. I can pick you up and we can role play in Uber. I got the newest Tesla with all the bells and whistles that can make our encounter fun. Auto pilot that can drive us around as you give road head, a big screen I can turn porn on, and back seats that go all the way down so you can lie and see the stars through the sunroof.

Or maybe you want me to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can make a deliver to your place for some naughty fun.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I have pictures on my profile. I'm Caucasian, 32, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, clean shaven face,uncircumcised cock.

I am DDF and tested clean as of last month and I expect you to be the same. Any penetrating sex will be with a condom.

About you: 18+, fit to chubby, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Everything will be descrete and NSA


r/LAr4r • • 1h ago

M4M 29 [M4M] # Burbank cconnection NSFW

• Upvotes

Seeking great men

Soft where you want it, sassy where you need it. Serving confidence, class, and a little danger. Listen, baby, I’m the kind of energy you won’t forget: soft in the right places, with attitude everywhere else. I prefer men who are confident, masculine, and in control. Straight, bi, or gay.

IF you have the kind of presence that makes the room stop, I’m already interested.

I know how to match your vibe and keep things discreet: no drama, no mess, just pure chemistry and grown-up energy. You know the deal: HIV-negative, no STDs, confident, and focused on your business.

I keep things tight, right, and private. If you’re smooth, respectful, and ready for something different, come correct. Please send a clear picture and tell me a little about yourself, including your age, stats, location, and interests. Let me know what kind of man you are when no one’s watching.

Me? Black, all curves and confidence. Feminine, fun, and all about good energy. On PrEP, no drugs, no drama, no nonsense—just real vibes and real men.

If you like your pleasure with a little edge and your company with a touch of danger, baby, I might be the one you’ve been scrolling for.


r/LAr4r • • 1h ago

F4M 25 [F4M] # Inglewood Let's Make These DMs Spicy 😈 NSFW

• Upvotes

A little bored and craving some attention. Who's up for a cheeky conversation with a girl who loves to flirt? Slide into my DMs!


r/LAr4r • • 5h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Gardengrove - FWB. Southern California. NSFW

2 Upvotes

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I work a lot but luckily I am in control of my schedule so I can usually make the time with a little bit of heads up.

When it comes to what I am looking for, I am pretty open, however, I am not looking to jump into another super serious relationship or marriage. In the short term, I would love to have regular sex again and that's honestly what I am looking for with this post. Things typically develop from there and with that I like to keep things casual and let things flow naturally.

When I am involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

In the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I am always happy to lead our interaction and all I expect from you is to do what comes naturally to you. You won't ever have to initiate or worry about what pleases me. What pleases me most is you making yourself available to me and once there, I know where to take things. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 158 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit/muscular body type. I workout several times per week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.


r/LAr4r • • 2h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] # let’s hang out in and outside of the bedroom NSFW

1 Upvotes

looking for a new ongoing fling starting with cuddles and eventually moving to climaxes (after getting to know each other for a minute)


r/LAr4r • • 3h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Muscular dude looking for a squirter :) NSFW

0 Upvotes

I am straight so if you Bi , Trans or Gay just please don’t bother !!!

I keep it simple,just lookin’ for sex or fwb works. I can host, so that’s a big plus, lol. Got a nice body and setup down there

I’m chill, funny, and a cool dude who can make you feel comfortable right away. We’ll just kick it, laugh, and have a good time :)


r/LAr4r • • 4h ago

M4F 43 [M4F] # Long_Beach NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello! Thanks for reading my post! I am looking for someone to fuck my husband. I had cancer and for some reason lost all sexual desire for anyone and unfortunately my great husband. It's not fair to him and would love to have someone fuck and suck him from time to time.

About him... 5'11" tall, he has a good build dad bod dark eyes and brown hair about 150lbs. He is great in bed and is clean.

I will screen everyone ahead of time. Once I pass you off I don't want to hear about anything or know anything in anyway. That's my only request. Please reach out if you have questions.


r/LAr4r • • 5h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #glendale - do you need a dominant man? NSFW

1 Upvotes

If you are a submissive woman then you are at the right place (post). I don’t have a particular type when it comes to physical features as long as you’re clean, STD free and attractive. I want to meet a special woman that enjoys being dominated by a real man. In return I could take you out on a nice date, make you feel beautiful and take care of your sexual desires.

I’m a 29 yo Latino male based in the sfv/sgv area. I work in sales and I get to work from home most of the time when I’m not out in the field. I enjoy traveling, sports, coffee, trying new food and late night drives. I take my hygiene and health very seriously

Send me a DM if you wanna exchange pics/info


r/LAr4r • • 9h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] # LosAngeles Venice- Married Daddy, seeking a married woman for something meaningful, discreet, hot, FUN and exclusive NSFW

0 Upvotes

45, married daddy. 6ft dark hair, 185lbs, light eyes, tattoos, Ivy League education. I take health and fitness seriously and am currently on a completely reasonable, scientifically rigorous mission to achieve DILF status. In Los Angeles. West side but can travel.
Life on paper is full: marriage, kids, responsibilities, career, all the usual grown-up machinery. What’s missing is intimacy. I’m in a sexless marriage, and I’m looking for one married woman who understands that strange place where you don’t want to blow up your life—you just want to feel genuinely wanted, connected, and alive again.
I’m into indie rock and folk, quirky-but-smart films and TV, good conversation, dry humor, and people who are curious about the world. I’d love something ongoing and long-term: attraction, friendship, flirting, intimacy, inside jokes, and the kind of trust that makes this feel like our own little protected corner of the universe.
Respect, privacy, and discretion matter enormously to me. I’m not looking to change your situation or mine, rescue anyone, or create unnecessary drama. Ideally, you’re married too, know what you want, and are looking for one consistent person rather than collecting chats like browser tabs.
If this resonates, tell me a little about yourself—and maybe the last song, movie, or show you became slightly obsessed with


r/LAr4r • • 9h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Burbank - Shy? Introvert? Curious? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Maybe you never had the opportunity present itself or you want to try something new without feeling weird because you “don’t know the ropes” of giving great head. You’re in the right place! I’d love to talk about it with you and hear your thoughts and fantasies on it and see if we can make it a reality. I’m focused on making it a positive first time experience that you can be happy you had.

Virgins who want to experience something more without crossing that line, I’d love to hear from you. There’s no pressure to do something you don’t want. Whatever your situation may be, I’m understanding and flexible based on your wants.

I’m very discreet and emotionally intelligent. Let’s talk about your boundaries and we can have fun while respecting them.

I absolutely love Arab, Muslim, Middle Eastern, Hispanic, Asian, and Indian women. I specifically wrote this post for you. I’d love to help you make your fantasy become a reality. Looking to avoid judgement or assumptions from your community or family for feeling or acting a certain way. I want you to feel comfortable, relaxed and well cared for in whatever we do. This will be our secret.

I don’t judge based on appearance, though I ask that you practice normal, good hygiene. Please don’t worry about your body type. Whether you’re a little bit bigger, a little smaller, whatever you may feel insecure about, feel confident I truly am unbothered by it and really do understand. Simply; Don’t sweat it because I absolutely won’t. The more you enjoy your experience the more I will too.

My only requirements:

Practice general hygiene

Be Drug and Disease Free (DDF)

Don’t feel intimidated if you’re shy. I promise I’m friendly, discreet, and an overall positive person.

If you’ve made it this far, here’s a bit about me;

I’m a mature, 31yo male, dad bod but not unfit, long hair, clean chest, attractive. I love biking, fishing, kayaking, I also love reading, writing, learning fun fact on obscure topics, and getting to know new people from all over the world.

I’m in an open relationship and not looking to change your situation or mine. (Open to sharing photos if we’re both comfortable but it’s not an expectation) I don’t host and please be 18+ to message me.


r/LAr4r • • 10h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #Irvine - Do you want an Older “Mentor” in your life? NSFW

0 Upvotes

This post is for any “Inexperienced” girls (18+) who would like to get experience with pleasing a man and would like to have it be someone older and consistent. (FWB mentoring, not a one night stand)

(Primarily in UT but bounce back and forth between Irvine and Provo)

This way you don’t have to risk getting a reputation you don’t want and you won’t just be rushed off once orgasm has been achieved.

Maybe you’re a shy student, bookworm, tomboy, or a girl from a more religious or conservative background. I’ve mentored girls of all types. The point is to be a someone you can gain experience with comfortably.

Wanting more experience with giving head? We can do that, put on a movie or music and just let you have at it as many times as you want. Wanting to lose your virginity? We can have a memorable night so it’s NOT just a random event that is remembered as being more awkward than a fond memory. Or maybe you want to creampied for the first time, experience anal, have a threeway with your best friend (outside of the extreme stuff I’m open to mentoring most things)

So yeah if you’re wanting to get experience and would prefer it be with an older man who’s still going to want to see you after and be in touch, let’s talk and see if I’m the Mentor you need.

(IRL only)


r/LAr4r • • 1d ago

F4M 25 [F4M] # Inglewood looking for a sexting partner? NSFW

17 Upvotes

hi so im looking for a sexting partner. I would like to have a conversation first before anything feeling the vibe getting to know eachother a bit! we can see where are comfortable at, sometimes i js have needs. Don't be push, i won't respond. Let's talk and have a conversation first. Im hispanic 5'5 weigh 176. looking for 23 to 30. Thanks!


r/LAr4r • • 21h ago

MF4R 33 [MF4M] # Glendale - Bad boy for wife? NSFW

4 Upvotes

Wife and I are planning to visit next week. She has a thing for bad boys, basically any “wrong side of the tracks” type is her go to.

If you’re comfortable with her being a married woman and me being around then we’d love to have some fun over the weekend when we stop by.

Please reach out with a little about yourself, age, description and location.

Clean and disease and drug free, discrete.


r/LAr4r • • 18h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] # LosAngeles/sgv - Looking for a friend to chill with after a long day NSFW

2 Upvotes

Nearby or maybe it's just online via chat because we live so far away but we can still keep eachother company. Up for anything

Think it's time I at least give it a chance and put myself out there to see how we get along as a friends and if it goes beyond that.

I have a few hobbies video games being one, we could spend the nights playing together, so how about you send me a message and find out more. I will say that I'm a bit of a pessimist, but nothing wrong with that...I think. I'm a bit of an introvert but decent at hiding that that behind some humor.

I have no issues with talking to people from anywhere in the world, I'm always curious to learn about more cultures.

Got any random fact about yourself you think will catch my attention? Or maybe you want to tell someone all about your plans coming up? Please send more than hi


r/LAr4r • • 19h ago

M4M 29 [m4m] # San Gabriel - looking to suck NSFW

2 Upvotes

Latino chubby here looking to suck and give some sloppy head or slow whatever you need