I swear, I’m getting so fucking tired of the same nonsense in Findom. Some guy messages me with “Hi Sir,” I respond, give him a little background about myself, explain what I’m into, and try to figure out what he’s looking for. Twenty or thirty minutes later, after I’ve wasted my time answering questions, suddenly he needs Snapchat, a face picture, or something else I never offered. I tell him I don’t do that, and poof, he’s fucking gone. Not even a “thanks, but we’re not a match.” Just disappears.

Here’s what pisses me off. I’m here because I genuinely enjoy Findom. I enjoy being a Dom, having a submissive who actually wants to serve, and yes, I fucking enjoy being spoiled and receiving tributes. I’m not pretending otherwise. I don’t expect every guy who messages me to hand over his wallet, but I do expect him to have some idea of what he wants and whether he’s actually interested in following through. I’m not here to spend half my evening entertaining some bored guy who’s getting his rocks off talking about submission with absolutely no intention of doing anything.

If you need face pictures, Snapchat, daily video calls, or whatever else, just fucking say so upfront. If you don’t have money to spend, that’s fine too. Nobody owes me a tribute. But don’t spend half an hour pretending we’re working toward something when you already know we’re not compatible.
I’m 38 years old. I’ve got a career, a life, and better things to do than answer the same questions over and over, only to get ghosted by someone who apparently couldn’t figure out what he wanted before messaging me.

Seriously, is it just me, or has Findom become a giant fucking circle jerk of people who love talking about submission but have no intention of actually participating? If we’re not a match, just say so. I won’t be offended. I’d actually respect you more for it.

I've been a FinDom for just over ten years now. Got into it organically during college (there's a story on my profile with details - skipping that here for now). I've interacted with many subs from all over the world during this time. Now I wanna take it to the next level. This isn't something that would happen right away. We would have to build towards this goal. And this describes how I envision it ideally right now, but ultimately the dynamic could vary based on our conversations.

I want a 24/7 live in sub. A slave. You do all the chores - you cook, clean, do the laundry. I want breakfast ready before I wake up, dinner ready by the time I'm back home. You can work in between - after all, you'll be paying the rent/mortgage and the bills. Every evening you massage and worship my feet, and do everything you're told to do around the house. You will be locked in chastity and I will have your key on me 24/7. You will have to earn any time out of your cage. You will also wear a collar at home.

You will have to be someone who knows how to hold a conversation as well. I'd like to be able to have normal conversations and build a friendship of sorts as well. Of course I'll do whatever I want every day but I'd also like to be able to just hang out. While we would know that youre my slave, a real dom/sub relationship needs many more aspects than just that. I want to give your life a purpose, and make my own life easier, just the way I deserve it.

A little about me: I'm 30, US-based, ethnically Arab, and successful in my career. I know what I'm worth and I'm not shy about it. This is something that was more of a fantasy when I had first started draining subs but I think it can be a reality now. Of course, we all need to be careful, and we would need to build a solid foundation rooted in trust.

DMs are open. If you reach out, do so with a description about yourself and your thoughts about this.

Looking been made to send to stoke on all four with my collar on

Hello! I’m a fag from Germany who likes to be scammed and ripped of.

my fetish is being scammed by a worker, who works for a phone shop like Vodafone to get me into a few expensive contracts to get a big commission out of it.

if you’re interested; please text me

HMU to feel inferior. Anydesk f*gs HMU too; you know cash is better spent when ur Alpha takes it himself 🔥

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But no, it’s proof you’re a weak loser who needs to be controlled. You aren’t a man; you are a hollow, trembling shell who exists only to be stripped bare and emptied out for my amusement. Getting hard already? 😂

You will never be free from this 'kink', your wallet and weak mind is chained to this Kings will. Every payment you send is a step deeper into your personal hell, hahaha.

And the worse you feel, the more you know you belong to me. The more you cum. The more you get addicted. The more money you will send to me. As it should.

I was tryingg to stay sober but oh well, I fucked up again. Anyone with Throne or Youpay? dm me if you want