r/FRIEND • • Aug 31 '25

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r/FRIEND • • 1h ago

[20/M/UK] Video game and comic book nerd looking for cool people to talk to 🩵

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Hey, thanks for checking out my post! As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK. I'm into a few video games but mainly Dead By Daylight, Resident Evil and GTA. I've been a huge GTA fan my whole life, since I was about 4 years old lol. I'm a massive nerd when it comes to Spider-Man, I love the comics and the games and I have a few posters on my wall. I really loved the Superman movie as well as the rest of James Gunn's DC projects. I'm also a Nightwing fan and I really like Tom Taylor's run despite the common consensus between fans. I also watch anime and my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure. I figured that I'm probably not the only one that's feeling bored and wants to meet new people, so I thought I'd make a quick post on here to see if anyone wants to talk. Feel free to drop a DM šŸ•øļøšŸ•·ļø (I also prefer talking to people who are older so please message if you are!)


r/FRIEND • • 1h ago

Friendship 41M Looking to Make Genuine Friends

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Hey everyone! 😊 I'm here to meet new people and hopefully build genuine friendships that grow naturally over time.

I'm into spirituality, consciousness, self-awareness, and exploring different perspectives about life. I also enjoy nature, discovering new places, spontaneous adventures, and conversations that go beyond the ordinary.

I appreciate people who are curious, open-minded, respectful, and comfortable being themselves. I'm happy to connect with people from different backgrounds and around the world.

If we share some interests, feel free to send me a DM. Let's get to know each other and see where the connection goes!


r/FRIEND • • 2h ago

Friendship Friends

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I’m a quiet introvert male, 36, who talks less and listens more (mostly so I can judge your life choices in silence). I recharge with photography, reading, singing in the shower like I’m famous, cooking experimental disasters, and traveling to places where no one knows me. Also, if something’s broken nearby, consider it already fixed—or at least slightly more broken in a different way.


r/FRIEND • • 10h ago

15f looking for friends!!!

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Im 15f and from kentucky!! I love horror movies, my favorite one is probably hell house. My favorite color is red! I play cello and bass. I listen to all kinds of music. Im very into the arts (I play instruments, I paint, I enjoy watching the arts). I really enjoy reading !!! I like to think that im pretty chill lol! I def feel like i connect better with older people too lollll. Please please pleaseee be my friend !


r/FRIEND • • 3h ago

17m dm me on insta anyone im so bored

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im not creepy and if ur creepy dont dm thank u


r/FRIEND • • 3h ago

Friendship 31 M - your new potential friend

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Im always on the look out for new friends and always keen to meet people from across the world! Im 31 M Tattoed nerd some times chaotic sometimes lovely most of the time both! Im into horror movies alt music late nights and walks in nature. I have some pretty funny humor when you get to know me. If this is your vibe potential friends Dm me! 😊


r/FRIEND • • 7h ago

Friendship 19M - I’m serious about making longterm friends

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Please read the post and don’t skim it. I deeply value friendships, which is why my post is long. I need someone who won’t ghost for literally any reason. I believe that ghosting is immoral and I don’t want to talk to anyone who thinks that ghosting is okay. I don’t like blocking either, I think it’s childish and unnecessary.

I’ll be honest about my flaws because you must know these things before talking to me. I am a boring person, and I need you to think about this part because it is difficult to maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t offer much excitement. Don’t message me if you will lose interest in me or give up on me. I am also very insecure, pessimistic, and not passionate. I have autism, depression, and social anxiety. Nothing fun is going on in my life. I am not good at carrying a conversation and I can’t promise that I’ll be fun to talk to, but I am trying.

I find texting very exhausting. I don’t want to text for days or even hours just to get to know someone before we can actually call. I want our first conversation to be on a call. If you are too shy to call early on, then it won’t work out. I want to voice call daily; my time zone is EST, and I can call after midnight. If you are sensitive, easily offended, emotional, or impulsive, then it won’t work out.

I have a hard time dealing with people leaving. I tend to get attached to people very quickly. I need a patient person who is actually serious about sticking around for the long term. If you aren’t 100% sure you can commit to that, please don’t message me. I tend to care a lot more than the other person does, and that has made people uncomfortable and they left. I need someone who won’t get uncomfortable if I care more or think about them a lot.

If you decide to reach out, don’t just send a ā€œHi.ā€ I’m not asking for a long introduction, but just let me know you actually read this post and genuinely want to be friends. I don’t want to talk to someone who is just bored and looking for entertainment, or just wants someone to talk to, or just someone to vent to, or just someone to play video games with, because that’s not what a friendship is. Do not message me if you’re too busy to build a friendship. I also don’t want to talk to someone who has a lot of friends.

I also want to mention that it’s okay for us to disagree in a friendship, even on big things. Real friendship means we can have different views and still stick around instead of cutting each other off. Cutting people off has become way too easy nowadays because of social media. I don’t want to talk to people who care about sharing the same opinions or ideologies. I absolutely hate how easily people block others, and I refuse to talk to anyone who is even capable of blocking. I believe a friendship should survive literally anything.

Real friendship is supposed to be hard sometimes. It’s not supposed to be convenient or easy to walk away from. It’s supposed to last for a lifetime. Do not reach out unless you fully understand everything I have written so we don’t waste each other’s time. Please be 19+.

Here are my interests:

• Movies / Shows / Anime: Watching movies is my favorite thing to do. I also use Letterboxd.

• DC Comics


r/FRIEND • • 8h ago

Friendship F21, looking for friends ONLY!!

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Hi my name is Saber… I’ve tried a lot of subs to find friends and I keep coming up empty handed lmao so hopefully one day it’ll land. Or maybe one day I’ll get tired of trying idk.

I just would like some friends, people to talk to on occasion. I’m a bit of a busy person so I’m not on my phone alot to text but I try my best, it’s also why I’m just looking for semi short term friendships!!


r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

30fbi - usa - looking for international friends

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bored. say hi. all r welcome.


r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

Friendship Anyone up for a convo???

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Heyy hii, hope you're doing well

Let's have a talk without any checklist. I wish for daily chats, I hope I get one here.

If anyone interested feel free to comment or dm.


r/FRIEND • • 5h ago

Friendship Some connections burn out in a week; I’d rather write a slow-burn friendship!! [22/M]

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Most online connections start too quickly. From matching each other's energy for three days straight and texting non-stop, to silence. It burns out just as fast as it started. But also if there's no chemistry from the beginning, the friendship dies a slow, dry death anyway. Finding that middle ground feels impossible sometimes.

But I want a friendship that actually lasts!!! One where we actively reach out to each other, but also respect each other's alone time too. I can be very yappy once we get going, but I also don't like the pressure to always be energetic. I get tired too. I want to take our time getting to know each other and let things develop naturally!

Currently I am working and trying to self-study stuff, but I am NOT the type to forget you exist and use being ā€˜busy’ as an excuse.

Oh and I LOVE writing and I'm currently brainstorming a science fiction idea. If you know how to draw, I'll pay u. I also enjoy other hobbies and PC gaming. (Btw I love calling).

I'm in Mountain Time (MDT / UTC-6), so ideally looking for someone in a close timezone to make hanging out easier. Anyways DM me if ur interested, and introduce yourself a little pleaseeeee. Add ā€œpillowā€ into your message so I know u read my post.Ā 


r/FRIEND • • 9h ago

Friendship 17 F looking for friends!!

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hello! my name is den and i’m 17 years old, i have various interests. i like scrapbooking, traveling, boxing, wrestling and various other activities. i’d like to meet just about anyone - age and gender does not matter to me! i’ll be happy to meet you :)


r/FRIEND • • 5h ago

Friendship 24M need long term friends

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I'm from Australia love art cooking motorbikes and trains I'm a weirdo at heart and annoying but yeah anyway send me a DM as I can't DM today apparently cheers!!


r/FRIEND • • 6h ago

Friends from uttarakhand

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So yeah I am from uttarakhand (pahadi) but due to my father transfers because he is in para military i didn't have any friends from my side my father from pauri garhwal and my mother from rudraprayag so yeah i am from both district but I didn't get a chance to live in uttarakhand because of my father transfers but I visit my gaon (hill village) once in a year

And I want to make pahadi friends who will go to study in dheradun so we can actually meet in irl and hang around because I am also gonna go to dehradun for studies and to live separately from my parents with my twin sister who will pursue degree in dheradun, so I am not gonna study in university so obviously I can't make any friends who i can trust early so I am thinking to make friends

now so after 2 years we can hang out and all stuff

I am 16F, and I need male and female both friends

But I want it genuine although I know value of friends because I was ditched in my past but now I am looking forward for friends who can be my best friends or close friends because I don't have any


r/FRIEND • • 10h ago

Friendship 18 f looking for a long term friendship

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I’m 18 a freshman in college i have an xbox i play sometimes and read a lot. I would love a reading buddy im open to most genres. i would also love to play fortnite or just go on discord and chat.


r/FRIEND • • 17h ago

16F hiii!! Looking for new friends :3

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I just want someone I can talk to daily and at all times because I'm a huge introvert irl but on the internet not so much lol.

Anywho for anyone who's interested my hobbies are:

Gaming, working out, drawing, cycling, painting and watching tv shows.

My social medias are reddit and discord, but I prefer to talk on reddit for some time first.

I will not reply to dry dms! If you message me, give me a quick introduction (your age, hobbies, etc.)


r/FRIEND • • 8h ago

Random Guy. 20s looking for friends

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Hey. How are you? Do you want to potentially make acquaintances? I’m chill, you’re chill. Tell me about yourself. We will probably get along even better if you do not have a filter

Kinda jobless rn, if that matters

If we vibe, that’s great. If not, nothing personal and no hard feelings


r/FRIEND • • 8h ago

16m looking for friends

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Just hella bored all the time, whenever I find someone to text most of them (besides like ONE) take hours to respond and I’m just like idk. I need friends with similar interests or even don’t need similar interests idk I just want people to talk to similar age

I don’t really care what gender you are i js want friends :/ preferably like 15-18 age tho

I love music, I’m apart of bands at my school

I love football, I’m a Cincinnati Bengals fan and an LSU Tigers fan

I love video games, gta5, rdr2, Minecraft, Fortnite, really any game except Roblox or stuff like that.

I also love long talks just like talking for hours. Idk why I just love it. I’m also a crazy yapper lol so yea

Lemme know if you wanna be my friend or dm me or yeah.


r/FRIEND • • 8h ago

Friendship 21m looking for friends :)

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Hey everyone! I’m 21M from Canada looking to connect with any/all new people and make some new friends! I’m down to talk about pretty much anything, but here are some examples of my interests:

- I’m a massive music nerd, super into metal, nu metal, rock, grunge, funk, jazz fusion, etc!
- Huge baseball fan and occasional gamer (when I have time šŸ˜‚)
- Down for casual banter, but I do really enjoy deep chats about anything; like different life perspectives, theories, advice, etc.

Feel free to hit up my DMs to say hi and introduce yourself! I'm down to talk about shared hobbies or just hear about whatever you're passionate about. Don’t be shy! :)

PLEEASEEEE DM ME!!!! Females too! Everyone!


r/FRIEND • • 16h ago

Friendship 19m Anyone fancy a British friend? :3

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Hiii a bit about me, im Aiden im 19 and im British, from Nottingham to be specific. Im looking for new people to talk to cause ive been pretty lonely and I could really use a friend, i don't really have any hobbies besides the usual sleeping and watching shows but idk if that counts 🄹 Any gender or age is fine btw so hmu if you want a friend :3


r/FRIEND • • 9h ago

18m / Europe / Looking for fellow terminally online people to be friends with !!

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This is rather embarrassing, but I've recently been struggling immensely socially and need people to talk to. **BONUS POINTS FOR PEOPLE WHO KNOW HOW TO MAKE GAMES OR PROGRAM. I NEED PEOPLE TO PICK THE BRAINS OF!**
Also bonus points for fellow terminally online losers, talk to me!

I'm 18, European, and looking for people who will actually talk to me often, instead of a two-message "hi, hello" conversation which results in absolutely nothing happening.

A bit about me

- Addicted to Sons of The Forest currently!

- I also play Metal Gear, Resident Evil, Persona, and a few other games.

- Huge history and militaria nerd (generally into my eastern bloc and warsaw pact stuff at the moment)

- I like outside hobbies, but never get to do them anymore.

- I want to learn how to make games someday, but I mainly study history full-time.

- I will text you back if you're cool, and try my best to message sometimes.

I'm quite socially anxious and diagnosed autistic, so I may be a bit odd at first, talking nonsense or acting weird, but I try to be as nice as I can.


r/FRIEND • • 11h ago

22M, HEY! id love to get some ppl to talk to so this night shift goes faster

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Im a 22m who's got night shift duty for about 3-4 days a week and tbh it gets so fricken lonely. Id love to meet some new ppl and have someone to talk to throughout my nights, I love video games, the outdoors, bugs, reading, motorcycles, and a ton more tbh. If that at all sounds interesting please feel free to talk to me :)


r/FRIEND • • 11h ago

Friendship 26M Shy autistic dude in need of company

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Basically just looking to see if anyone else here is lonely as well and would like to chat. I'm autistic and really shy, but I'm chill and respectful. I like games, music, animals, YouTube etc. I would appreciate it if someone reached out!


r/FRIEND • • 11h ago

Friendship 19M looking for some friends

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Hello to all I am Beta. You can call me wtv makes you comfortable though. I’m just looking for some friends to talk to. I work and go to school full time so with the free time I have I wanna meet others. I have a pc so I do play games. If you are interested in being my friend just go on ahead.