r/EntitledPeople • u/According-Creme-4233 • 21h ago
M Lady tries to save 2/3rds of front row at middle school concert
Hello all, long time listener, first time caller. I now have a story for you all!
This happened about 3 hours ago.
Went to a school orchestra concert in school gym. Event starts at 7 doors open at 630 as parents are arriving and student showtime is at 630.
I go to the gym and there are chairs in the court and a whole wall of bleachers.
Over half the front row is open. These are foldable chairs set out on the court. Probably 10-12 seats. And 4 people, one couple on one end an another lady and child near the middle. I walk up cuz I like end end seats and see a jacket over the two end seats and 3 more empty chairs next to the jacket before the lady and kid.
Kind of annoying the jacket is there and no one around but whatever. So I take a seat next to the jacket.
Well the kid says someone is sitting there and I said, yes me! Then the lady says these seats are saved and I told her nah it's 2026 we don't save seats anymore. She then tells me something else to the effect of who it's for and I said I'm sitting here now.
She gets up and gets about 6 inches or so from my face, I'm all thinking to myself, well here go. I ask "maam please back out of my face" she tells me they are disabled people. Not sure why that mattered that people who had not arrived were disabled, these are not ADA seats and this is an open seating forum. A bit more back and forth, she is still in my face. The kid then says something to the effect of "you can sit here and I'll go get a teacher and Ms. Teacher will make you move. The lady then says to the kid, no just sit down, she won't make "me" move.
So I said to the lady "well why is that?, Why would the teacher not make me move?". You can guess how much she appreciated that comment.
She relents, sits down and tells me I'm very rude. I tell her she is rude for trying to save so many seats in 2026 and I hope she enjoys the performance.
I sat there the entire time surrounded by who I presume is her family. I took my pictures. I smiled, I clapped, and I had a good time. I couldn't tell you if she sneered at me the whole time because I didn't l didn't look at her again.
But I am wondering, was I the entitled person here?
I get saving a seat for someone who is at concession or in a restroom. But half a row for people who are not present? I don't think that's acceptable in 2026, especially in an open seating forum like a school gym.
Edit: spelling, I have fat thumbs and phone keyboards…
2nd Edit: I don't know why the hell people are so hung up on the year but I shall explain my thinking behind this.
I'm an older person and where I grew up, this was pretty common, people saving seats or spots in line in public venues. It was common practice for my parents to always ask people if seats were available before we sat next to them. Maybe it is regional as one commenter suggested.
Places like movie theaters and smaller concert venues didn't used to have pre assigned seating, so seat saving was common.
Then came the advent of pre assigned seating.
As many of these public forums have made a switch to preassigned seats in the last couple decades, I have noticed this practice go by the wayside and it seems very rare these days beyond someone who has already arrived and went to use the restroom or buy something to eat or drink.