r/dirtyr4r • • 20d ago

October 2026 - Revised Dirty4r rules and posting requirements, FAQs and how to spot a catfish guide! NSFW

4 Upvotes

UPDATE - DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.

Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it.

Mention Your Location In The Post Title.

Please remember to include a physical location in your title. It shouldn't be your street address, but it also shouldn't span multiple time zones or languages.

What if I'm not looking for IRL play and want online partners?

Even if you aren't seeking IRL play, including your location helps add character and personality to your post, including hints about your accent, culture and availability (based on time zones)

I put in my city but it still got removed?

We monitor and update our location list frequently. If you used a location we don't recognize yet you can delete and resubmit with a more recognizable location (the 12-hour-rule-between-posts usually doesn't get auto-enforced in these cases) or leave your post up and send us a modmail about it.



The rest of the rules - please go through to refresh yourself. If you were directed here by a mod you should definitely go through this before sending us a reply.

RULES OF r/DIRTYR4R

SELLING

Selling posts are not allowed on r/dirtyr4r. If you want to sell, please head over to r/sexsells. Posts regarding selling will be removed.

If you do interact with an OP who tells you that he/she is selling, please screenshot it and send us a Mod Mail so that we may take action.

FREQUENCY OF POSTS

12 hours is the minimum amount of time between posts. Posting more often will result in your post being removed and subsequently may result in a ban. Deleting your posts and reposting will be considered as a violation of this rule. Furthermore, ban evaders will be reported to Reddit admins.

RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS

From the sidebar

> Someone to trade kinky pics of yourself with

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the OP banned right away. Users reported for doing so within personal PMs, alongside proof will be banned as well.

GENDER TAGS

Please remember to tag your post titles correctly so that it doesn't get user reports. M4F means that you are a Male who is looking for(4) a Female.

SAFETY FIRST!

Meeting someone IRL after you made a post? Remember to stay safe! Check out some match.com tips on how to have a successful date: https://www.match.com/help/safetytips.aspx

Not all dates happen in person, some can take place within PM's and/or other messaging services. Be smart and avoid sharing personal information right off the bat. Furthermore, check your profile history to ensure you have not shared any personal information in the past that may be traceable to your IRL self. Keep in mind that holds true for both parties; someone refusing to send a picture of themselves does not always mean they are catfishing.

If you do encounter a problematic PM hit that report button and block that user. Send the mods a PM with a screenshot so that we can take action against troublemakers.



JOIN THE DIRTYR4R CHAT!

As some of you may have realized, we quietly introduced a dirtyr4r chat a little while ago. This is a chat based system that allows users to cam up and interact with other dr4r's. It's a fantastic and dynamic way to meet new people! Too shy to cam? No worries, it's still as fun. Click here to check it out right away!

Please report violations to any of these rules either via Mod Mail or by hitting the report button underneath a post.

COMMENTING ETIQUITTE

There is absolutely no reason for you to comment things like "PM", "Check your Inbox", "PM me" on posts. If you've sent a message, great! Now just sit back, relax and enjoy because the other user has received a notification. In fact it is less likely that they will even talk to you now. "If I see that you are repeatedly spamming this I will be giving out temp bans with possibilities of perma bans as well" - u/ScrewYourDriver.



Are you active here and have suggestions or requests? Message the Mods!


r/dirtyr4r • • 15d ago

[/r/dirtyr4r live chat] 36 pervs, 4 on cam -- Welcome to dirtyr4r! Cam up, have fun, & be nice! NSFW

Thumbnail icanhazchat.com
3 Upvotes

r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 20 [F4M] NYC - A little bored and wanted to show off NSFW

• Upvotes

Anyone who reacts will receive something from me


r/dirtyr4r • • 4h ago

female 28 (f4a) netherlands * Another night, so fucking high, horny and so lonely NSFW

34 Upvotes

Help a girl out. Please i just wanna be this high, watch a movie or play a game, and you next to me. Completely naked. I play with your dick/or pussy while casually watching tv. If i wanna ride it i will do that too.

Wanna rp or chat with me? Type in a small introduction too please


r/dirtyr4r • • 29m ago

female 34 [F4M]Denver - post gym sweaty in the locker room NSFW

• Upvotes

just finished lifting, sports bra still stuck to me, leggings soaked at the crotch. took a bathroom stall selfie with them pulled down.

milf energy, big natural tits, ass you can grip. message me for the pic if you're into gym sluts.


r/dirtyr4r • • 58m ago

female 20 [F4M] Melbourne - freshly shaved reveal pic NSFW

• Upvotes

just spent forever in the bath getting completely smooth. sitting on the edge with my legs open, took a close up of the result and it's so pink.

message me for the pic. petite aussie, small tits, pierced nipples.


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 33 [F4M] Help Make My Husband Jealous 🩷 Ontario NSFW

• Upvotes

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It's our anniversary 🩷 say hi!


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 21 [F4M] UK - Cant sleep NSFW

15 Upvotes

It's been a long week and I just need to feel something exciting. Looking for an older man to talk to, flirt with, and eventually get dirty with. Let's start with some banter and see what happens


r/dirtyr4r • • 13m ago

female 30 [F4m] Connecticut horny and just want to show off NSFW

• Upvotes

Horny wife, dirty mind, and a body I'm feeling like showing off. Who's watching?


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 22 [F4M] California - Horny, flirty and want attention NSFW

• Upvotes

I'm pretty much horny and got nothing to do right now, feeling horny and hope to meet guys willing to have sneaky fun and give the attention.


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 27[F4M]GA - would you fuck me on first sight, rate me NSFW

11 Upvotes

black, dark chocolate skin, 5'9, long legs, 34c natural, gap between the thighs... just tell me. if you passed me on the street, out of 10, would you approach or keep walking. reply here and i'll send it over.


r/dirtyr4r • • 52m ago

female 23 [F4M] Portland - shy girl wants a text bf, lonely nights ;; NSFW

• Upvotes

hi... it's late and i've been staring at my ceiling for an hour lol. i'm 5'3, half filipina, softer body with thick thighs and small chest, glasses when i'm home. i'm the awkward type... rambles when nervous, sends too many emojis, gets flustered when someone actually flirts back >.<

i'm just tired of the apps. i want someone to text me every morning and complain about their day with me at night. slow build, no rush. gaming together open too if you play anything chill.

looking for a guy 25-40, warm, patient, kind of a dork like me. bonus if you're taller and give big hug energy. nsfw can happen once i actually feel safe with you.

dm me if you wanna see a pic of me, i'll send one back if you send yours first ok?


r/dirtyr4r • • 55m ago

female 19 [F4M] Houston - my body needs attention. I'm not wearing anything. reacctt iff u want 2 ssee. NSFW

• Upvotes

beeen hgorrny forr about 4 hrrss noww. myy phhonee fulll of my reccordinggs rubbbingg myyy wett ussyy. meessaaage mee iff u wantt tooo seeee checckk myybiiiooo.


r/dirtyr4r • • 7h ago

female 18 [F4A] - Ireland - Losing virginity in college. NSFW

25 Upvotes

Hiii. I’ve just started college this year and it’s been great meeting loads of new people. I’ve kissed a guy or two but I haven’t quite fulfilled my plan of losing the ole v card lol. The commuter life is not for the weak!! Like why can’t they just pencil in an hour for everyone to have sex between lectures 😆. I know I need to be less shy and find someone with accommodation but damn it’s not easy.

I guess this is just a rant about my sexual frustrations haha, if anyone wants to chat hmu!! I’ll be online for a little bit :)


r/dirtyr4r • • 56m ago

female 22 [F4M] Brisbane - bored at my room, need a naught and horny guy rn NSFW

• Upvotes

work is deadly dull and i keep shifting in my seat cause of the thoughts. need a stranger to text with through the day and make me blush in the office


r/dirtyr4r • • 35m ago

female 18 [F4M] Georgia little needs someone patient NSFW

• Upvotes

just turned 18 last month and i finally get to be here. shy, pale, small, blonde, kinda dumb in the sweetest way. need a daddy 30+ who wont rush me and will actually talk to me first. no dick pics right away pls. dm me if you wanna see my face


r/dirtyr4r • • 52m ago

female 24 Chicago [F4M] Anybody want to mess around? NSFW

• Upvotes

Im bored and my boyfriend has a small dick. So naturally, lol, I'm here.


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 24 [F4M] #Cali - women with hoe phases? NSFW

8 Upvotes

i’m always curious how men feel about women who had a big slut phase in their life. obviously on Reddit there’s a lot of people who love it and think it’s a turn on

but irl it seems like people are much more judgmental and don’t see women like this as “dating” or “marriage” material

open to chat with anyone that has strong opinions or has this experience but in reverse where women are judgmental of a guy having had many partners


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 21 [F4M] Houston - Just think of me as your closest girlfriend and tell me about your fantasies NSFW

7 Upvotes

it constantly turns me on to think about it. tell me all your thoughts, fantasies, everything you need to do with me


r/dirtyr4r • • 57m ago

female F4A Ohio Twice in 1 Week. NSFW

• Upvotes

Horny and home alone looking to play. I’m an exhibitionist if you know what I mean. I’ll let you watch me while I watch you.


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female [F4M] Texas Mommy looking for someone to flirt and get off with NSFW

• Upvotes

I'm 28 years old, 5'3", Come Flirt with me first and when you need to get head or fuck you text me and im there or you down to sext I'm a little high rn. I can be everything you need if you give me the attention i want


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 23 [F4M] New York - on my period and somehow extra horny NSFW

8 Upvotes

dont know why but i cant stop thinking about it. want a guy who isnt put off and will go there with me. anybody else relate and wanna help


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 27 [F4M] Texas - Giving This One More Try NSFW

7 Upvotes

Not searching for commitment or expectations just a genuine connection, some chemistry, and a good time. If you're easygoing, respectful, and know what you want, feel free to send a message.


r/dirtyr4r • • 4h ago

female 25 [F4M] Fort Worth - shy about my body but need to be loved anyway NSFW

10 Upvotes

not a model but i have so much to give. need a guy who makes me feel hot no matter what. say the right things and i will open up


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 28 (F4M) FL - I need someone to take control of my nipples for a bit ~ NSFW

8 Upvotes

I have a massive kink for teasing, edging, and denial. I love being made to keep my nipples clamped, having someone force me to make them tighter and tighter until I’m begging for relief, giving me a little relief, then making them hurt again right when I’ve gotten comfortable. Constantly being aware of them, forcing them into a state of hypersensitivity. And then, when my nipples have driven me into a state of being deliriously horny, what better way to top it off than having me stuff my ass, edge myself stupid, and telling me no when I beg to cum?

I have the clamps on right now. They’ve been on for three and a half hours. They’re not very tight at the moment. Maybe you’ll be interesting enough for me to change that.