r/bigdicklovers • • Sep 01 '21

Everyone please read! NSFW

139 Upvotes

Everyone please read:

First off we are growing every day! You guys are a great community, let's keep getting laid in those times of uncertainty!

Actual subreddit rules have been around for a while yet, everyday we have people reaching us wondering why they get banned in modmail... Our rules and this pinned are warnings, we do permaban rule breakers with no appeal...

Wether you are new or old user of this sub please read and understand our rules! Those can evolve, we can catch something we didn't earlier in your posts after someone reported the last one, and you can end up banned when you weren't for the same thing before cause we missed it. Using anything else than our source of truth which is only accessible in the browser version of: www.reddit.com/r/bigdicklovers isn't an excuse at all (old.reddit.com and reddit offical apps are not our source of truth, we will try to keep those updated if we have time but don't give a single fuck of you getting banned for not reading the version we just told you to read!Use that argument and you'll loose any chance of being unbanned!)

Posts are automatically locked, contact posters via the pms or chats. If you get an automod comment saying your post have been removed, it tells you everything you need to fix it, don't message modmail unless your history shows a post respecting perfectly the formatting mentionned in automod's comment. We won't answer people complaining they can't post here but deleting their failed posts, we need those to analyse a potential issue.

The rules below are just a reminder; we will edit the rules without touching to this pinned and won't warn you! Signing in on Reddit you accepted rule 2: making sure you'd respect the rules of any sub anytime, in our case the official rules menu from www.reddit.com/r/bigdicklovers and no other version.

Discord

This place has it's own discord server. It's as moderated as the subbreddit so read the rules and behave. We do ban people for joining and not saying hello...

Rules:

  1. All posters and seekers must be 18+!

Everyone must be an adult of the age of 18+. If there is doubt, you will be asked for some sort of verification. IF you find out someone is under age, PLEASE report the post & contact the mod team with their username and any proof you have! We want everyone to be safe in all their endeavors!

  1. Post Formatting!

All posts must be in this format in this specific order, otherwise the Automod will remove it automatically: Age [x4x] #City - Title. Respect this exact spacing and punctuation! If you only want to talk online; #kik #Online is acceptable, just know we can remove posts mentioning it at our discretion without warning you. You can include multiple #locations. Example Title: 29 [M4F] #NYC - Looking for a Woman. Example Title: 36 [F4M] #Online #Snap - Busty MILF for Young studs.

  1. Couples Posting! ~Success Story Posting~

See rule #2 for posting format. For couples both your ages must be included! Post as one number, For example 2122 [MF4M] for 21M 22F. Automod will only accept one number. Posts not following this rule will be removed. Example Title: 2934 [FM4M] #DFW - Couple seeks third.

  1. MAKE ONLY ONE POST A WEEK

Please refrain from making multiple posts in a week, wait until your latest post is at least 7 days before reposting. If you post you will recieve a 7 days warning ban and all your posts will be removed. Infringing it a second time will result in a permanent ban! ADDITIONALLY IF you are found to be posting multiple times in a week by deleting your post and reposting, or using several accounts we'll permaban without warning!

  1. NO Trolling, pic farming, sellers, dickfishing, or catfishing.

All of the above are grounds for being banned. IF you see something report the post & message the mods include proof if you can!

  1. BE RESPECTFUL!

ANYONE receiving harassing messages for any reason let the mod team know, proof is mandatory! There is a zero tolerance policy on harassment. A girl tells you she isn't interested, don't press your luck and call her a cunt! A guy doesn't want to continue talking, stop messaging him.

  1. When responding please read the post!

THE POSTERS EXPECT YOU TO MATCH WHAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO! If it has a location and you are not there, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is a [M4F] and you are a male, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a certain age and you are not within their age window, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a certain dick size and you are smaller, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a specific race and you are not that, DON'T MESSAGE. Having issues with anyone about this? Inform the mod team.

  1. We permaban side accounts of catfishes, spammers and everyone caught trying to use two.

  2. Rule9: Back your claims with proof! Our lovers as everyone compare numbers given to them against averages. Every other method than the one used to obtain averages is just an attempt to fool people. Size claims from unverified people means ban and deleted posts photographies (in r/yourself or a dedicated sub)aren't considered as proof . We do offer one and only verification process :Valid pics are taken from your point of view showing a stainless ruler's edge centererd against the middle of your penis touching both base and tip no bending no straightening. The whole length of at least one edge must be readable. You must be standing, the pic must include your username, subreddit, date and size: handwritten, on paper or your body. Don't own a stainless ruler? Just refrain claiming anything! Applies to pics too

Recommandations

18+ ONLY for providers and seekers! Please play responsibly. For information on safe sex, you can visit /r/sex and /r/SaferSex

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If you only want to see big dicks and/or display your big dick you might be better suited at a related subreddit such as /r/MassiveCock or /r/MonsterCock. We'll delete online posts with no warning if we see it fit.

This place is a hookup subreddit, for the people who love folks with big dicks, not a place to claim you have a big one. If you think you have a big one, always keep in mind that you are welcomed here as guests but our core is and will remain about lovers. We have no requirement on what is a "big dick." If you feel it, post it. Just don't claim anything you can't prove by our lovers standards (Rule9) or we'll ban you with no warning...

This is NOT a place for dick ratings, showing off pics, "Do I fit here/Am I big enough/Is this Big" posts or anything SPH related. Big dick holders are expected to behave, we care for our lovers, not the random guy claiming having a big one!

~ All posts must be in this format in this specific order, and you must respect the spaces and punctuation! This place refuses non reddit search compatible posts for users, our Automod removes automatically posts not matching this precise and exact format: Age [x4x] #City - Title. (x4x: M4F, F4M FM4MF, T4F...) #kik #Online is barely acceptable, we tolerate those but will delete some with no warning, don't reach the mod if a post mentioning virtual fun has been deleted this sub is focusted on hookups.

Couples, put both your ages as one number, For example 2122 [MF4M] for 21M 22F.

Only one post a week is allowed.

Give us good information and a nice description of yourself and your sexual proclivities. Less than 30 words posts aren't allowed, and low-effort vague ones will get removed without warning nor explanation. We of course will delete any posts giving an opinion one one of our rules or the way this place is moderated.

DO NOT put a picture of your face in the post or other personal information, this is Reddit! Keep it for PMs please!

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If your post gets buried and you want to submit a new one, don't! Unless your previous is older than 7+1 days, or we'd consider you as a spammer and ban you for that!

People who break any of our rules will be banned, we don't issue any form of warning don't expect any!

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Be respectful. We will not tolerate gendered slurs, body shaming, or intolerance. This is an LGBTQA* (and so on) safe space. Please report any rude redditors.

PLEASE MESSAGE THE MODS IF YOU REPORT A POST!

Never DM or chat a mod that will be dealt with like harassment and reported to reddit! Most of the mod actions here are automated, we have no clue of who you are or what you did and can't access it unless we do have a modmail!

Related subreddits:

/r/bigdickproblems /r/MassiveCock /r/Monstercock /r/Photoshopdick /r/LGBTGoneWild


r/bigdicklovers • • Feb 08 '26

Dark Patterns Panorama NSFW

16 Upvotes

Moderation insights because some of you are getting on my nerves(annual overview). Let's ruin their wanking time with a reality check!

Before getting into numbers, one thing needs to be made crystal clear. Modération is not about shielding you from what you don't want to see, but about shielding everyone against what may harm someone, for real!

Right now, our primary concern is a 12-year-old girl actively self-harming with razor blades who surfaces and disappears through the subreddit. That is where our attention, time, and emotional bandwidth are going.

In that context, the four obvious F4M scam accounts (the kind that anyone with two functioning neurons can identify) are not our focus. Those marginal scams are routinely flagged by long-standing community members who already know the drill, perform the necessary checks, and help get them removed. Thank you to those doing it!

This is not negligence. It is prioritisation.

Especially in a context where Reddit:

  • enforces monthly API limits lower than our hourly post volume, and
  • has systematically dismantled moderation tools designed to fight automated and AI-driven abuse,

we choose our battles.

Our limited, volunteer time is deliberately spent on reprehensible and unethical content, not on shielding the occasional careless adult from falling for painfully obvious bait. Our focus does not only involve removing posts and banning users, sometimes it's a long chain of reports taking us a tremendous amount of time.

With that said, here is the panorama. You can find one of a swinger french sub on my profile to compare what I see there.


Content Removal Breakdown

1. “Cougar” profiles seeking underage partners — 18%

Still the single largest category.

Often wrapped in flirtatious or “empowering” language, these posts target minors explicitly or implicitly, sometimes framed as mentorship or initiation. Regardless of presentation, the substance is clear: illegal and predatory behavior.

Immediate removal. Zero tolerance.


2. Adults seeking pictures of underage males — 17%

A distinct and extremely serious category.

These posts focus on image acquisition, not relationships: requests for photos, “progress pics,” body development, or “curiosity.” This is grooming behavior, not fantasy.

Immediate removal and escalation where applicable.


3. Refusal to follow rules / repetitive posting abuse — 14%

Structurally disruptive behavior.

Includes:

  • multiple posts per day,
  • reposting after removals,
  • ignoring consent and formatting rules,
  • marginal but recurring refusal to comply with size verification requirements.

Low ethical weight, individually banal. Collectively corrosive. This behavior consumes disproportionate moderation time while adding no value to the community.


4. Paid encounters & transactional searches (incl. colocation bait) — 13%

This category has evolved.

While classic “pay for sex” solicitations remain present, there has been a clear explosion of disguised arrangements, including:

“roommate” or “co-living” offers,

financial support framed as lifestyle sharing,

ambiguous housing propositions with sexual subtext.

These are still transactional relationships — just rebranded.


5. Minors actively seeking adult partners — 8%

A consistently alarming category.

Motivations vary (curiosity, distress, provocation), but the risk does not. An adult-oriented space must not function as an exposure vector for minors.

Zero tolerance.


6. Non-consensual sex requests & rape fantasies — 7%

Low in volume, maximal in severity.

Includes:

  • explicit coercion,
  • fantasies negating consent,
  • “surprise,” “forced,” or domination without negotiation.
  • and of course "my wife/girlfriend/boyfriend" surprises...

Removed immediately. Big dicks does not override consent.


7. Severe psychological distress & self-harm expressions — 6%

Posts involving:

  • active self-harm,
  • suicidal ideation,
  • emotional collapse exposed to the public feed.

Handled as human emergencies, not moderation nuisances. With kids it's our number one priority, and most times the most time consuming ones.


8. Picture collectors (consent-agnostic image harvesting) — 3%

Users primarily interested in accumulating sexual images, often:

  • pushing others to DM photos,
  • fishing for explicit content without reciprocity,
  • skirting consent boundaries.

Not always illegal, but corrosive to trust and safety.


9. Scams & commercial noise (aggregated) — 2%

Includes:

  • romance scammers,
  • OnlyFans promotion,
  • Telegram / external group funnels,
  • obvious F4M bait accounts.

Deliberately deprioritized and largely handled through community flagging.


10. Genital-size fixation & measurement spam — 5%

Posts reduced to:

  • penis size declarations,
  • measurement obsession,
  • validation fishing with no relational intent.
  • my personal favorite is those with gibberish to pass the word counter..

Low harm, high noise.


11. Miscellaneous residuals (duplicates, edge cases, spillover) — 7%

Everything that doesn’t cluster cleanly:

  • duplicates,
  • borderline cases,
  • misfires caught early.

* gibberish

What this panorama actually shows

  • The most serious issues are not the loud, obvious scams we all learnt to deal with decades ago.
  • The real moderation load comes from:

    • predation,
    • exploitation,
    • blurred consent,
    • and untreated psychological distress.
  • Community self-regulation already handles low-effort scams efficiently.

  • Volunteer moderators cannot—and should not—be expected to compensate for:

    • reduced tooling,
    • hostile platform constraints,
    • poor platform tools to deal with most of those cases
    • and industrial-scale abuse with hobby-level resources.

Moderation is not about keeping people perfectly safe from their own gullibility. It is about drawing hard ethical lines and standing where harm is real, immediate, and irreversible.

And yes: we will always spend more energy protecting a child in danger than protecting three adults from clicking on a stupid link.

Comments are opened if you wanna chat!

Kisses!

Your head mod!


r/bigdicklovers • • 4h ago

Female for Male 40 [F4M] #NYC - looking for a frighteningly enormous cock to drain NSFW

4 Upvotes

40 [F4M] Semen Demon wants to drain your MONSTER cock and leave.

I SAID MONSTER, not mediocre, and no less than that. Please don't waste my time or yours thinking your mid dick will be the exception.

I'm a very clean and picky cumslut and cumplete size queen. I only want what's bigger than big and no less.

What I want is for you to fuck me stupid with your frighteningly enormous dick and pump every last drop in my needy, wet-ass, cummy pussy. Make me your cum dump, and I will milk you of every last drop just before I leave.

I will provide A+ lab results, and you must too. Must be in Manhattan, Brooklyn or Queens. DM me to chat and exchange pics.


r/bigdicklovers • • 19h ago

Male for Female 43 [M4F] #Portland #Oregon - Looking for light, fun, restorative intimacy NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’ve entered a rebuilding phase in my life, something therapy has helped with, and part of that is getting out there. So somehow that brings me back to reddit.

I’m introspective and reserved, maybe even shy at first. I try to have a good sense of humor, and be kind and thoughtful; and look for the same. I also tend to be affectionate and complimentary.

Physically I’m 5’10”, average build, dark hair (balding but not bothered), bit of grey in the beard, and glasses.

Intimately speaking, I’m a pleaser first. Somewhat insatiable, a little kinky, well-endowed, and dominant leaning.

I want to be seduced. I’m looking for someone who likes to wear leggings but sometimes likes lingerie. Who might be open to exploring a third together. Someone who believes in the healing power of physical intimacy. And someone who can host or enjoys getting creative. ;)


r/bigdicklovers • • 17h ago

Male for Male 27 [M4M] #Denver - DL Oral Expert in need of Secret Bud to Jerk/Suck Off NSFW

1 Upvotes

27, 5’9, 140 fit, good looking and discreet here looking for a chill and clean guy who’s down to get sucked or jerked. Kick back and enjoy getting your dick worked. Like jacking off but better. Our secret.

Not looking to meet up with anyone, need to chat and trade pics first. Please share a dick pic. clean and discreet are non negotiable.

Cut, masculine, bi/curious, hung, bwc are all big pluses.

Open to Boulder, Denver, and Fort Collins

Let’s chat. Please be ready to send a pic.

Open to a variety of different set ups, really just want a guy with a nice big dick.


r/bigdicklovers • • 23h ago

Male for Female 22 [M4F] #newengland #online - Girthy BWC seeking size queens of all kinks, colors, shapes, and sizes ❤️‍🔥 NSFW

2 Upvotes

Need consistent partners to play with and maybe meet😇.

Whole life been told I’m massive by every girl that’s seen it, but now I want to know confirm that with true size queens. Thick with good length but is it up to par with professionals? How do I stack up against BBC in the eyes of snowbunnies? I want to know the truth.

I also love when taken girls come to me cuz I easily outsize their bf🤭or when girls reveal how much bigger I am than their ex. Love all types of girls so you’re all welcome to hmu and come see this big ass cock. Hit the DM’s ❤️‍🔥 Also willing to compare with fellow monsters.


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

24 [M4F] #Toronto - Black man looking for eager throats and tight pussies to destroy and ruin NSFW

2 Upvotes

Do you love BBC? Do you lust over it, craving it every second of every day? Would you do anything to make sure that it is satisfied, that you have drained it of all the cum it could produce? Do you like young, hung cock, or older, thick rock hard cock? Are you Asian? Do you love BBC because it fills you up and stretches you out? Are you black and only a big dicked hunk of chocolate can handle that big booty? Maybe you're a white girl, who loves the contrast between skin tones and wants to prove she's sexy? Or perhaps a Latina looking to lose control and start speaking your native language on that BBC? A desi princess? Don't feel saree about what you really want. Do you have large, milky tits that leave men drooling? Are you fit, tan and have a phat ass? Maybe you've heard rumors of how much better BBC is, and you're ready to go find out? Maybe you're looking to see if it's true black cock is bigger and better. Maybe you're just curvy, and only a BBC will be able to satisfy you. 6' tall, darkskinned, enjoyable to look at, and keep in good shape. Let's talk and see where it goes. Tell me your favourite chocolate in your reply.


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

Male for Male 26 [M4M] #Chicago - looking to give discreet head. Hung, str8,dl,big loads are a plus HMU NSFW

1 Upvotes

26 [M4M] #Chicago - looking to give discreet head. Hung, str8,dl,big loads are a plus HMU

Just looking to give discreet head

Latino, bbc, bwc

Straight /DL preferred

26 m here , 5’11 average build 195lbs. Short facial hair.

Looking to give discreet head to straight or dl men. Would prefer regular that needs a throat to use often. Bigger cock the better. Big loads or multiple is ideal. Send pics and let’s meet

Can host or travel whichever works for you. Not looking for CarPlay or public.

No strings attached, can just be a blow and go or we can make it something regular.


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

Male for Female 40 [M4F] #New York - Artsy and nerdy single guy with a really big penis, seeking a size queen (or someone size curious) NSFW

6 Upvotes

The size of my penis has created dating/relationship challenges for me in the past, so I’m hoping I can meet someone here who enjoys and prefers a larger size. Finding compatibility in dating isn’t an easy task as many of us know, but it would be nice for me not to have to worry about this aspect with a potential someone.

I’ve gotten various reactions, both good and bad, about being hung from past partners: “I wish your dick was smaller like my ex’s”, “it feels like you’re splitting me in half”, “ I never knew I had so many nerve endings”, “pornstar cock”. The one constant I’ve noticed is that when I first begin to slide inside her…her eyes clench shut, she opens her mouth as big as her jaw can stretch, and she doesn’t make a sound.

More about me:

Single white male. Creative professional with an arts and design background, living alone in Southern Westchester County NY, just north of NYC. Easy train ride to and from the city, and I work in Manhattan most weekdays.

A bit nerdy, very into the arts, exploring new ideas, and getting lost in conversation.

Physically active, but I don’t really have a preference whether or not you are

Very considerate of the emotional well being of a partner, both in and out of the bedroom. Sexy fun only works when it’s built on a foundation of mutual trust, respect, consideration, appreciation, and a broader sense of enjoying time together. Consent should be enthusiastic consent.

Appreciative of healthy boundaries. My hope for any type of connection here, whether it’s a short term or long term, is that it’s a rewarding use of time within our busy lives, and a connection doesn’t compromise or intrude on those other good things we enjoy outside of that (That includes any personal space and inner peace)

A bit more on the sexy stuff: I’m not solely focused on penetration and orgasm like other guys might be. I’m interested in creating a fun and trusting connection where sexual pleasure is part of an overall vibe of connection and mutual enjoyment. Serious about sexual health (tested and negative), and I insist on using condoms (although I buy custom sized ones from a company online because all the drugstore condoms are too snug). Very into kissing and foreplay (which is essential being well endowed because I need as much lubrication as I can muster). As a ravenous boob guy, I’m looking for a woman who relishes breast play and wants a man who will suck on her nipples to his heart’s content.

If any of this stuff resonates with you and you live in the New York Tri-state area, please feel free to reach out and say hi! And thanks for reading through my post!


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

Male for Female 37 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Funny, fit, cute blue-eyed guy seeks sub-leaning, pretty, witty, smart, sweetheart, GF or exclusive FWB who's blessed with longer labia minora AKA big kitty lips; butterfly wings; tan meaty outies NSFW

2 Upvotes

*Please only reply if you read my full post and think you may have personality and physical qualities I seek. I can provide labia examples I prefer if you like. Thank you.*

I seek a sweet, smart, witty, pretty woman I feel romantic attraction to, from her mind, humor, heart, to her eyes, smile, face, figure and naturally bigger sexy kissable lips on her mouth and on her pretty kitty. I'm talking about inner kitty lips, lovely longer labia minora, from medium big sizes to extra longer meaty. You likely know if you have a type I prefer, but if you're curious, I can share examples. It seems many women don't realize how many men love and even prefer bigger longer labia minora. For me, they are the most arousing kind visually, to admire, to play with, to pleasure with kisses, a treat to eat, to make love to your pretty pussy with my mouth and meat.

I don't seek a random hookup fling thing. I'm patient to develop a connection, for us to desire mutual deep sexy loving chemistry before being intimate. I want a woman who is my pleasure to please, monogamously making love, deeply and often, to enjoy talking, cuddling and simply eye gazing. I like all eye colors, though shape and angle matters, preferring upturned, positive canthal tilt, almond and fox/cat-eyes. I like skin tones from white to dark-tan, olive-brown. I like all-natural curves in the right places, a thin to thick body, average busty to extra top heavy, even very full figure hourglass, but not BBW.

I love showing affection, physical, emotional and intellectual stimulation, sharing fun, funny, interesting experiences with flirting building our desires to kiss. I want to explore romance, feeling our chemistry from talking, holding hands, massages, kisses, eventually developing into breast/nipple play, edging, oral worshipping and making love, satisfying you as often as you desire. I want you to be a good girl, to keep me hungry to kiss, and then feed me your lovely lips, kissing with mine, even for hours if you desire, in loving sexy sessions. And after if we have time, napping, holding each other, then waking you with kisses to repeat the loving and we can call it cuddlingus.

To offer this passion makes me seek someone special. I don't know what dating term is used for me giving you exclusive making love level pleasures, call it a partner, GF-BF, a relationship, open to developing into long term. I may be open to starting as friends with exclusive benefits, maybe a pillow princess (which IMO, is still a form of relationship, but focused on your pleasures).

A goal is a healthy loving connection and safe, sexy pleasures without drama. I'm confident my loving skills can make a woman desire being exclusive with me. Though, I may be open to a bisexual woman, if you are very very selective about it, or even if you only enjoy us reading/watching about it, talking about your sexy naughty kinky desires when we're in bed and in that mood.

I know this is redundant but I've gotten responses that don't understand what I prefer. To clarify, the type of labia I prefer are actually common, the medium sizes to extra lovely larger longer labia minora, with colors from tan-pink, beige, to darker browns. I like them with textures I can feel on my tongue when sucking them and your clit. I like them spreadable to reach the nectar of your pretty pussy petals, sexy butterfly wings, delicious dangling meaty outies. I like a variety of kinds. This includes longer inner lips that may be hidden by fuller/puffy labia majora and only seen when you spread yourself.

I also like those darker tan colors for your nipples/areolas because it makes me hungrier to kiss, suckle, including dry or wet ANR, ABF. I'm a fan of most classic sexy loving positions in bed and open to explore kinks, being vocal, roleplay, discussing our fantasies, daddy dom/sub switch play, reading erotica aloud and even writing stories to stimulate, arouse and help you cum better.

I'm cute, creative, fun, funny, hygienic, healthy, white with blue eyes, brown hair, full short beard, single with no kids. I enjoy reading, some writing, watching video essays, documentaries, podcasts, politics, current events, comedy, cooking, nature, walks, hikes, exercising, science, arts and creative pursuits. Keeping healthy is a passion of mine, including a plant based diet of mostly whole foods. I may be open to 420/drinks to enhance our loving sessions.

It would be fun listening to our favorite songs and mixes during loving sessions. For me, that could be a variety of newer and older music genres, melodic electronic, ambient, IDM, soulful chillout, chillwave, future garage, down tempo, dubtechno, deep house, nu disco, nu jazz, indie pop, indie dance, synthwave, 80s bands, post rock, post punk, darkwave, ethereal wave, britpop, dreampop, shoegaze. What are some of your favorite genres/bands? (No one answers this question)

I may be open to distance, but prefer a woman in Los Angeles, losangeles, LA, L.A. SoCal, CA areas.


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

39 [M4F] #SF Bay Area - tall, sexy, and fit gentleman seeking daytime lover. NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello Reddit friends,

Throwing my hat into the ring in hopes of connecting with a down to earth woman that also seeks an occasional weekday escape from the rat race; something all our own for a few hours at a time.

Physically I am considered quite attractive. 6-5, 210, fit, and strong. Nice eyes, all my hair, and masculine features. I’m a well put together professional gentleman with a playful charm, and oh yes, I am more than qualified for this sub.

I’m down to earth and tend to get along with those that don’t take themselves too seriously, we’re all just specks of dust floating through the galaxy after all.

I value consistency, transparency, and discretion. Our lives are probably equally overflowing, so let’s get to know each other, and spend some quality time when our schedules allow. Some good laughs, great sex, and a genuine connection. Who says no?


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

Male for Female 24 [M4F] #Ireland #Online - Irish BWC looking for a Wife. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Yes I'm aware this is a weird place to look but you miss every shot you don't take. I'm a 24 year old white guy from Ireland, id prefer someone who lives in Ireland or Europe but i would take someone not living in either if there dedicated enough. I'm 6 foot tall, lean and I got curly hair. I work 2 jobs I'm very dedicated to my work but I enjoy it and I'm at that stage in my life where I'm trying to get married, I personally just want a normal simple life. I've always had a random thing for size queens and I've enough to please them so why not look for one on here to be with. Id expect to date for around 2 years before going through with it if you're wondering about things timeline wise. I'm nerdy into fitness and a very high energy person overall. So if you like the sound of everything then send me a message and include your ASL in it. Also if you just want a one time thing this won't work.


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

Trans for Male 22 [TF4M] #Landover, Md - I really wanna suck some big dicks and get facefucked in my backyard NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hosting in my backyard, and I will want to see pics like first thing so share after I've accepted. Pls also open with ur size first thing. Uncut is def a preference along with thicker dicks tbh. Anyone who can try to truly provide a facefucking experience is first in the line. I'll be hosting most days afterdark since it provides actual privacy and a very pretty view to share. I love to hangout with my fuckbuddy as well as fuck so plus if ur open to that. My pictures are on my profile so look at those before wasting any of my time, also im 6'3 n occasionally have stubble so just fyi if any of that is a problem then please move on.


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

Male for Female 21 [M4F] #online - Pent up frenchie. Wanna trade pics ? My gf's not doing her job. 6ft tall 7in & athletic NSFW

2 Upvotes

I've been getting so frustrated lately because of my gf's lower libido that I started talking to strangers on reddit not expecting anything. Based on the reaction I got I was wrong lol. I'm open minded so if you wanna chat my DM's open. Of cours I'm not exclusively open to chatting either lol. Please don't just say "hi", but anything else will do.
About how I look like I'd say I'm tall and athletic on the skinny side (like a swimmer not like a bodybuilder so don't have delusions lol).
About what I like to talk about I'd say that I just go with what topic gets brought up.
Also also I hope you don't mind if I take some time to answer, I'm working a lot currently.

In any case have a nice day ;)


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

Male for Female 42 [M4F] #Cincinnati, OH - Tall guy seeking fwb NSFW

2 Upvotes

I'm in the Cincinnati area and hoping to find a fwb. I am dominant by nature so someone more submissive is a good match for me. I prefer a height difference as I enjoy being able to pick up the girl, move her around, etc. I would like to find someone that is active, like myself, and enjoys having fun. I want to find someone adventurous with a high sex drive. As for my stats, I'm 6'3" and 175 pounds. I enjoy a variety of activities including hiking, swimming, and running. Reading and traveling are also activities that I like. I am looking for a casual fwb to start but open to more if we hit it off. Reach out if you're interested.


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

38 [M4F] #MD - Busy Dad, Neglected Cock NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey there! 5’10” 170, fairly fit, DDF. Busy professional and dad who’s cock has been severely neglected lately. Looking for something consistent and ongoing, but open to a one time thing. Oral enthusiast who thoroughly enjoys eating pussy. Kink friends and explorative but I like a good passionate fuck as much as the next guy. Looking for someone who is in a similar position and can maintain an ongoing, causal NSA situationship without it being overly complicated. Let’s connect in our free time, grab a drink and maybe some dinner, then you can sit on my face for dessert. Can host sometimes, can travel within reason, and I’m a sucker for some car/public play. If this piques your interest shoot me a message ;)


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

33 [M4F] #Dallas - On-demand NSFW

3 Upvotes

Do you have short nails with chipped polish? Have as much fun at a museum as a concert? Enjoy a home cooked meal with a movie in as a night out with dinner and drinks? Do acquaintances find your hobbies surprising?

If any of this rings true to you, we should meet. I'm 6'5", 180lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, glasses, a post-grad student employed in finance tech, and enjoy all of the things I listed, though I'm reluctant to admit none of my hobbies would surprise anyone.

I'm looking for a benefits scenario - consider me your personal booty call until I graduate, and a long distance friend afterwards since I plan to relocate after graduation.

If you're interested, send me a message and let's get to know each other, flirt a bit, and see if we're looking for the same things.


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

44 [M4F] #Miami, FL - I want to use your throat like a fleshlight NSFW

3 Upvotes

I've been wanting to find a girl that can deepthroat enough so that I can just go as deep as I've always wanted to without hitting the back of her throat. I'm pretty thick and most girls have had that issue with that so I'm looking for one that can satisfy my urge, or at least a girl that is interested in practicing.

I'm 5'8, with short brown hair, light eyes, dad bod, and a handsome face. I can host and would be down to make this a regular thing if we have fun. I absolutely love it when my partner clearly enjoys doing her work, so hit me up if this sounds appealing to you!


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

Male for Female 30 [M4F] #Portland - big strong bull seeking size queens :) NSFW

2 Upvotes

I can hide a beercan behind my girth, and I dislocated my exes jaw…she still suffers tmj to this day

Seeking women, femboys, or transwomen that love a big superior cock.

Looking to meet women or femboys who love a hung guy. I love to show off my great genes and want to meet up with true size queens :)

There is a natural attraction between the size queen and a big strong bull that simply drives me crazy.

I’m 6’3 and 195lbs. Weightlifter physique.

Never left anyone disappointed by my size and I’m pretty much always the largest they’ve had :)


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Male for Female 39 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Tattooed and Hung for Afternoon playmate NSFW

3 Upvotes

I have a pretty flexible schedule during the day and I’m looking for a cute girl to play with regularly during the week. I stand 5'10 160lbs, slim body but firm, with a gorgeous uncut cock. We can start off with a coffee and then go back to your place for a full body massage.

Some of my kinks are as follows: Bdsm, dd/lg, cream pies, erotic photos, home movies, public sex, rope play.

Some of my other interests are metal, punk, dnb, trance, synthwave concerts, anime, and photography

If you are able to host in South OC during the work week message me your pic and what you are into, and let's go from there.

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r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Male for Female 51 [M4F] #London #UK - Size taken roughly NSFW

3 Upvotes

Tall, fit, silver fox type with decent size (a girth that'll stretch you) is looking for a playmate who enjoys rough kinks.

I'm big, I'm intimidating, but if you're in this subreddit you'll licked your lips when you see it's size and tell me to do my worst.

I offer a menu of kinks. It's a la carte, you can make requests of the kitchen if there's something not there you would like to try. The menu includes impact play, degradation, sleep play, CNC and uniforms. Requests are welcome, there's no judgement here. Good communication is key, limits are observed and aftercare supplied. I fix what I break.

Looking for London based meets.

In your response include ASL, hair color, dress size and bra size and the word 'size'.


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

Male for Male 30 [M4M] #Wroclaw, Poland - Looking for a big cock to suck NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I am 30, bisexual, submissive guy living in Wrocław, Poland.

I am sometimes craving to worship big cocks so I am looking for an hung guy here or nearby who will let me gag on his cock time to time.

I am into only oral and I believe it’s important to mention so if you are interested in some other things I don’t know if I am the right person.

So, I like to submit, serve and worship my partner. I’d like to be used as some kind of maybe oral toy. I am into facefuck and deepthroat but also you just chill while I am doing the job is okay.

Feel free to send messages or leave a comment if you’re interested. Cheers!


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

Male for Male 28 [M4M] #Denver #Online - DL Guy Looking for DL/Straight/Bi/Curious Guys Who Like to Show Off NSFW

1 Upvotes

L28, fit, cute, discreet, normal. Looking for straight, bi, curious, or other DL guys who enjoy showing off.

No pressure, expectations, meetups, or drama necessary. Just looking for confident guys who don’t mind a little admiration and attention.

Always had a thing for straight guys and the whole “show me what I’m missing out on” vibe.

Discreet only. What stays between us stays between us.

Find it super hot when guys with nice dicks like to show off and be praised and admired. Would love a regular buddy that likes to send pictures and get rates,etc


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Female for Male 22 [F4M] #Florida - Need help exploring my miami and my room NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hi hi! I’m 22F latina visiting Miami for the first time. I’d love any tips from anyone in florida.

A little bit about me:

Just a normal girl looking for a normal guy with a big…

Disregarding modesty for a second, I’m an attractive 22 year old woman. I weigh 140, 5’4”. I have brown hair and eyes with a C Cup boob and a big ass. Most guys would describe me as cute.

Looking for an attractive, interesting man; as much as I hate to admit it I do have a soft spot for ‘manly’ men. Someone who can hold a conversation, someone who is a little intimidating, someone who is easy on the eyes and appreciates the same. I prefer older men, age range.

Let’s go for a drink, I don’t like to set any expectations beyond that.

Staying in Miami near brickell area from Dec 2nd to 5th. I would prefer to meet wherever the middle ground would be between us.

Only responding to those who are serious. Bonus points for pics. Looking forward to it daddies


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Female for Male 22 [F4M] #Seattle - BWC in Real Life only NSFW

14 Upvotes

I’m moving back to PNW and looking for a fwb. I hate texting outside of the bare minimum so see me in person if you want to chat.😋 I’m just here to be the physically affectionate in person, not online. If you were looking for online sexting and pictures, find another girl for that please. No strings attached. I'm not willing to reveal any more of myself online so please don't ask for pictures or you will be blocked. If you don't think I'm real, move along. I'm not here to waste anyones time, please don't waste mines.

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