So I want to start by saying the last year has been hell & nonstop stress for my family with my dad being constantly in and out of the hospital with cancer. He ultimately passed away.
So I lived/live with him & my mom, sister and we have 5 cats and 3 dogs (most of which are rescues) We were struggling financially thru this (although are ok now because of his life insurance) We had a major problem with our septic system and having to replace it for $18,000 while my dad was sick as well.
During this time, we developed a flea infestation in our backyard. I tried my best to combat it, treated the yard on my own with otc products, treated all the animals with Frontline (I couldn't afford to take every pet to the vet & get what they wanted me to get) I vacuumed constantly, used flea combs, spray, etc. All the while working and taking care of my disabled sister while my mom & dad were at the hospital the majority of time.
Our little 14yr old dog started becoming very itchy 2 months ago. I check her for fleas regularly but don't notice any. She doesn't go outside accept on the patio occasionally(she uses puppy pads in the house) When ragweed season starts she always becomes itchy. I did treat her with an itch spray and wipes that seemed to help for awhile.
Yesterday she scratched her ear badly(her nails need to be trimmed and we haven't made it to the groomer)
Now she hasn't been to the vet in awhile because she rarely has issues and we don't take her places. She mostly just sleeps because she's so old and tired.
Vet walks in and I immediately feel judged for not having her updated on all of her vaccines, for using Frontline instead of taking her in for prescription preventative and for not having my yard professionally treated. This vet talked down to me like I was stupid, repeating things she already said like 5 times over. She told me she couldn't sedate her to clean it up real well because she had eaten recently(which I understood) but she kept repeating that to me like I didn't understand (even though I said "Yes I completely understand" everytime) I was fine with just getting the cone, antibiotics and pain pill until I could take her in again on an empty stomach. After about 15min of being lectured to, I mentioned that my dad died of cancer and I couldn't get her in sooner than I wanted to treat the allergies, she just said "ok" with a blank face.
This costs $300 which I was fine paying. I then ask if they can clip her nails since she is scratching & that caused the gash on her ear. Vet tells me it's "really expensive"(not sure how bad it could be considering I just told her I'd fork over $300 for everything else lol) She acted like she didn't want to do it and says they promote a "fear free environment" & clipping nails causes animals unneeded stress at the vet(as if everything else they do doesn't lol?) And she didn't "want my dog to hate or fear her" (again, wtf) And I know this is bullshit because another vet there (who is co-owner) actually cut my dog's nails before, a few years ago. And my dog does really well at the groomer, but I'm not comfortable doing it myself.
So she walked out of the room and then the assistant walks in. I ask assistant why they won't do nail trims and she goes "we do them" and I'm like "the vet we just spoke to won't do them" She looked really uncomfortable, said it was costly & they like to promote a stress free environment, but eventually said she'd do it for about $30. So I don't even know what to think at this point. I tell her to forget it & I'll go to the groomer. Now I understand vets may not want to do that regularly, but my dog's injury was partially because her nails really need to be trimmed (so it seems like it should be medically necessary??)
And another thing is the vet thinks my dog has a heart murmer & wanted me to make an appointment to have a bunch of tests & scans done. And of course the price estimate was A LOT (way more than the 'costly' nail trim) And my dog is nearing 15yrs old, I don't know if I want to put her thru all that when she likely doesn't have long left. But I wasn't going to say that to this vet because I suspect I'd just be getting shamed for it.
Also funny story, I got to chatting with another client there who told me she started seeing another veterinarian at this place because this one (that I saw) told her that her dog had a bad heart murmer and scared her into thinking her dog had heart failure. She went to another veterinarian at this same place on the next visit and this lady said she didn't hear anything & couldn't detect a heart murmer 🤨