r/Alexithymia • u/Dead_Reckoning95 • 4h ago
Is it possible with Alexithymia, that Other emotions Shield the true emotion Underneath, like Depression for instance?
If I had to name, the emotional state that I can identify and recognize the most ...it would be Worry, Anxiety, and Depression.
Depression could also be disappointment, dread, some way I'm having resistance to something I know I have to do, that I don't want to do, some way I'm stuck. Or some issue that I know needs attention, but I don't know exactly how to work it out, and I know I ca'nt do it by myself, and I dread the powerlessness and confusion around it, then get depressed.
But it's the same, Dread, depression, anxiety, worry. And even though some people might argue, well if you concentrate on addressing the problem and stop worrying then you won't worry. Yeah, no. I just find something else to worry about, something along the lines of if I don't , can't figure out what's behind the depression, some unmet emotional need, because it all goes through a filter in my head that reads " I know I need to do something here, to address an emotion I'm unfamiliar with having , and because i"m just confused, I'm stuck "....it circles back to depression.