I’m seven weeks into my 1st semester of nursing school and dealing with ongoing bullying, possible racial bias, and intimidation from a classmate.
What happened:
During an early group project, one student repeatedly dismissed others, changed our work without permission, and allegedly mocked an international student of color.
Her behavior appeared increasingly directed toward students of color in the group, so I reported my concerns to faculty.
Instead of facilitating the situation, instructors told us to resolve it ourselves. The student then screamed at the group and stormed out while faculty witnessed the incident.
Since then, I’ve experienced what I perceive as continued intimidation, rumors, and possible retaliation.
Yesterday, before an exam, she stood over me and demanded that I move from an unassigned seat because it was “hers.” I moved to avoid a confrontation, but afterward realized I felt unsafe.
I’ve documented my concerns and tried to remain professional, but faculty have not meaningfully addressed the situation. Because the program is accelerated, failing could delay my progression for a year.
For those who have experienced something similar:
How did you document incidents effectively? What details, records, witness statements, or timelines were most useful?
Who did you contact after faculty failed to intervene? Did you escalate to the program director, department chair, student affairs, ombudsperson, Title VI/civil rights office, or another administrator?
What did you request in writing? For example, a formal meeting, written response, neutral group assignments, seating changes, or a safety plan?
How did you protect your academic standing and avoid retaliation or being unfairly blamed for the conflict?
If you felt physically unsafe, how did you report it, and when did you involve campus security or another immediate support?
I’m looking for practical advice on documenting concerns, escalating them through the appropriate channels, and protecting my academic progress while continuing to attend class with someone who makes me feel unsafe.