r/Lolita • • 10d ago

MONTHLY ADVICE MEGATHREAD Ask Us Anything October 2026

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Hi All,

This is the megathread for all beginner questions about wearing and coording lolita outfits. We would like to contain beginner questions (or otherwise, questions that don't generate a discussion) to one place.

It's convenient for you: check here first if you have a question, it might already be answered!

It's convenient for us: it makes it easier for mods to keep things clean and fresh and fun around the sub.

It makes it convenient for our veteran lolitas: no one wants to see the same 5 questions in their feed all the time.

We will be closing and redirecting beginner question posts to this thread for now on.

Thanks for your cooperation!

BUT FIRST Check out the previous Ask Us Anything thread, you answer might be answered already: Ask Us Anything: September 2026


r/Lolita • • 10d ago

MONTHLY HELP FIND MEGATHREAD Help Find This Dress: October 2026

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Hello All!

This is a megathread for being able to find specific dresses or items that you see online and don't know where to find them or what their name/brand/print name are!

There has been a large influx of people looking for certain dresses posts and so we are going to congregate them all here for easy of access and to help clean up the subreddit. So from here on out any posts asking for help in finding a dress will be deleted and asked to post in this megathread.

Here you can post either a link from Imgur with the image of the dress or link to a website like Pinterest so the community can help find where the dress can be found.

Happy Hunting!


r/Lolita • • 12h ago

COORD First Coord 🤎 with dream jsk

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287 Upvotes

Infanta Chocolate Carousel JSK 🎠

Sorry if the photo quality isn't the best, these photos were taken over facetime

i actually bought a petticoat that was too long (60cm) but i made it work last minute by using a belt and folding the petticoat over it


r/Lolita • • 15h ago

ADVICE Halloween, The Season of Noobs... *Taps The Sign Again*

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262 Upvotes

r/Lolita • • 22h ago

COORD I just had to get this colorway

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463 Upvotes

I need more purple accessories though... I need a purple headdress and purple socks and purple wrist cuffs and purple shoes and... Yk what, throw away the dress and get a completely purple one! /j

Coord rundown:

Headdress, OP and necklace: Moi-meme-moitie

Choker: Marble

Blouse, corset and socks : Metamorphose

Wrist cuffs: Atelier Pierrot

Shoes: Yosuke

Accessories: Alice and the pirates, off brand, Vivienne Westwood


r/Lolita • • 19h ago

COORD Afternoon tea (first ever coord update)

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136 Upvotes

Thank you everyone who helped me when I posted here last time, I added some accessories and volume to the skirt as you suggested 🤞🏻 the waitresses loved the coord

Don't look at the shoes I was walking around London all day the heels weren't going to work


r/Lolita • • 19h ago

COORD Halloween vibes for the comm meetup

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108 Upvotes

This wasn’t an official Halloween meet but I’m already in the mood, so I had to 💅

Headbow, skirt, shoulder bag: Shibitohime Shop

Gilet: Angelic Pretty

Blouse, tights: Offbrand

Shoes: Angelic Imprint


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

COORD 🍁 Autumn Snaps 🍁

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211 Upvotes

r/Lolita • • 21h ago

ART Starting to prep new pieces for my local EGL's community convention stand and wanted to make something cute for my lineup!

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41 Upvotes

I fear I have too many gothic/shiro/creepycute ideas and wanted to get this one out first.

Skirt is based on "Love letters from Paris" by Bodyline.


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

DRAMA Chalmiere AI accusations

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69 Upvotes

Japanese brand Chalmiere has recently been accused of using AI for their prints. They have released a statement denying the allegations.


r/Lolita • • 19h ago

ART My other lolita and lolita-like dresses I made in dressmaker~ (second and final post)

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23 Upvotes

just realised most of these are blue lol. The final dress was my attempt at a recreation of BTSSB's Hawase OP that doesn't really match up, but I still think it's cute!

First post


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

COORD oshikatsu lolita coord! 📻🍎

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53 Upvotes

have you ever done a coord to match your oshi?! i would love to see it in the comments!


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

COORD Old Halloween-y coord from Kei-Con 2023

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227 Upvotes

I want to post my massive backlog of coords and realized an easy way to do this is to just post what my onedrive shows me for "on this day"! Here's a Halloween coord from Kei-Con 2023 which for some reason showed up today 🎃


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

COORD Afternoon Tea for my Birthday❤️🤍

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107 Upvotes

Visited Salem and had spoopy Halloween Themed Afternoon Tea for my birthday last weekend! ♡♡♡

COORD DETAILS:

ꔫ ・︴Wristcuffs: A&tP
ꔫ ・︴Shoes: Secondhand Taobao
ꔫ ・︴Everything Else: BABY


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

ADVICE Advice needed - Should I pay scalper prices or wait for re-release?

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25 Upvotes

The second hand market prices are really high, more than double the original price. Do you think I should wait for possibly a re-release or would there be no chance for that in the near future?


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

ADVICE any advice please (body text)

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203 Upvotes

hi so this is my first ‘lolita’ dress and outfit🙏🌸 i know so ita but i rlly need help - i have only a white blouse but i saw people online saying i should always match my blouse with my socks and my dress with my shoes,, but i don’t have any white socks that i could use, only pink ones that sorta match the dress, and even worse so the only frilly pretty shoes i own that match the vibe are black/white😓 i also have some regular pink sneakers with beads on the laces, but i’m not sure what i’m gonna do because i can’t buy anything right now and i was hoping to go out in lolita soon :/ can someone advise me on which of the pairs of shoes to wear, is it better to have shoes that match the frilly vibe or shoes that match the color? if i find pictures of them i’ll put them in the comments


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

DRAMA Closetchild has officially lost the plot 🫠

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159 Upvotes

I actually feel sorry for anyone who buys an Usakumya at a 10x markup 🥲


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

COORD red & pink coord! ❤️🩷

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96 Upvotes

r/Lolita • • 1d ago

DISCUSSION What print do you absolutely adore, but would never follow through with getting because you hate the colorways it was released in? For me it's Meta's Happy Sewing Time - I'm praying that one day it's released in a bordeaux, brown, or green. I especially dislike the red/blue colorway 🥲

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42 Upvotes

Please Meta, I'm begging you 🙏


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

COORD A little different from my usual coords 💙

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56 Upvotes

Concrit is welcome as long as the "crit" part doesn't overthrow the "con" part 😇

JSK, blouse, headband: Starry Fantasy

Wrist cuffs: Roji Roji

Socks: Color Media

Shoes: Bacio Bouquet


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

ADVICE What Should I do About Sizing?

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Hi! I’ve been an admirer for years and am finally stepping my toes in now that I have a little money lol. I’ve seen a lot of tips for sizing, and after scrolling some blouses, I realized I might be a little (too?) small in the bust area for a lot of things…

The blouse I’ve been wanting to get has a 80cm bust in a size xs. However, even clothed, I only measure at 72cm. With a 10cm difference, how baggy will it be?

My waist measured at 60cm, which is a little small as well for what I’ve found so far.

Also, how accurate are the weight/height sizing charts? I did find one for an OP I thought was cute, but the chart sized me as a medium. The bust and waist are definitely too large there. I’m not sure what to do.

Last photo is for the blouse. Any pointers? I didn’t realize how strange my sizing was in the EGL sphere…


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

COORD Decadent Vampire Banquette

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65 Upvotes

Last weekend I wore my vampire banquette jsk from lady sloth I really liked it :D

I visited a vampire themed teaparty a friend organized. I even won second place in best coord contest.


r/Lolita • • 2d ago

DRAMA Beware of the fake 42lolita store

88 Upvotes

So I've googled a bit and came across a store that is a mirror page of 42lolita. It looks almost the same and has some sales going on that 42lolita doesn't have. What was my first thought? I have to check if my wishlist items are on sale too! And then I realized wait why would 42 offer a 65% sale? That's ridiculous! Then I looked at the url and realized it's a scam site. Yay me, I didn't fall for it.

So if you see this site close it immediately lolitastore.shop

Looks like it's really new, as it has no ratings on trustpilot https://www.trustpilot.com/review/lolitastore.shop


r/Lolita • • 1d ago

DISCUSSION So THIS happened

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I found a cute dress with 0 reviews on some random website i think i also saw it on aliexpress so idk, but it’s so cute, it was 100AUD and it said it was polyester if i remember correctly, which makes me have hope but not a lot, so I’ll open it live on TikTok and share the results soon, if anyone else bought the dress, or know if it has an original brand I would love to know!!@


r/Lolita • • 2d ago

ADVICE Would I get away with red or pink more

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99 Upvotes

I feel like red shoes with a red parasol would be super cute with this dress, but it’s so hard getting a red one nowadays (⁎⁍̴̆Ɛ⁍̴̆⁎)
And not to mention it’s such a colour I’m scared it will take away from the pink and greens, my tights are a fading green, and my glasses are also green❤️