r/dirtypeepals • • Aug 27 '22

New Features Coming! Post flairs and flair search; what else would you like to see done to improve the community? Please read and leave your feedback in the comments! NSFW

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We've just surpassed 9,000 subscribers, and we're looking for ways to improve the community for all who use it. Our initial plans include adding flairs to allow people to categorize and search posts by activity.

Post Flairs:
The initial proposed flair options are listed below; this is a very rough draft, and we'd really appreciate your feedback on this before we settle on a final list; so if you have a suggestion you'd like to see added (or have a better idea of how to name one of these flairs), please let us know in the comments! We'll be updating this list as ideas come in and as we take a closer look at how these flairs may fit existing posts.

  • Casual Chat
  • Control Me
  • Control You
  • Long-term Penpal
  • Meetup
  • OC Trading
  • Porn Watching
  • Roleplay
  • Seeking Advice
  • Video Call

We'd like to have enough options here to cover the majority of things people commonly seek here, so if your post doesn't cleanly fit into one of these, please speak up in the comments! We plan to allow specifying up to two flairs at once (via tags in titles, e.g., [Casual Chat][Roleplay]), for those seeking multiple activities, and there will also be an other/none option to cover all our bases.

We're also considering categorizing these into 3 broad groups, which would likely be Chat/Roleplay (text-focused), Content Sharing (photo/video-focused), and Activities (real world-focused); if you've got a better suggestion for how to classify these though, please let us know!

Other Post Requirements:

We're considering setting a minimum post length, as we're seeing a lot of roleplay/chat/other activity posts that simply don't include any information that a reader would want to know before reaching out. Do others agree or disagree with adding this requirement, and what should that requirement be if implemented? Is there any additional information readers would like to see required in posts here? Please let us know below.

Additional Features:

We are also introducing an optional post locking option; including the command !lock within your post will turn off commenting, and instructions will be commented reminding people to chat/DM the author. The default will remain to leave comments unlocked, but those who wish not to receive comments on their posts may use this feature if they wish.


r/dirtypeepals • • 4h ago

21 [M4A] Looking for someone to explore my fantasies with NSFW

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Hi everyone!

I'm looking for someone who's willing to talk with my about a few fantasies I have and maybe have me fulfill them :)

I would say for some people's standards they may be pretty tame, but I am still nervous about them and need encouragement as well as accountability when I chicken out. That means understanding why I chickened out, but also acknowledging that a properly executed punishment can be a great motivator to do better next time ;)

The fantasies I'm talking about mostly focus on two things:

- Having a real accident (meaning I am not releasing at my own will but because my body just releases)

- Wetting myself outside in a very secluded spot (no risk of actually getting caught)

If that sounds hot to you, feel free to shoot me a DM and we can discuss further!


r/dirtypeepals • • 2h ago

30 [M4A] #online Looking for a long term desperation and chatting partner! NSFW

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hello pee people! I'm a 30M looking for someone (preferably F, anyone welcome though!) to have engaging conversations about holding, wetting, general life etc. Would love to exchange some hot stories, talk about fantasies, etc. Ideally looking for something longer term to get to know each other a little bit! Shoot me a DM if you're interested :)


r/dirtypeepals • • 6h ago

35 M4F London - Looking for girl who likes giving surprise squirts NSFW

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Would love to fool around in bed with you, kiss you and eat you out, and receive your hissy piss. I like it most when you don’t warn me you’re about to go and leave me guessing if the next lick will strike gold, maybe a drop, or maybe a fire hose. Surprise 69 pissing is my ultimate fantasy


r/dirtypeepals • • 14h ago

31 [M4F] #Online Looking for a female pee buddy. NSFW

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Hello there, single 31 male here with a pee fetish/kink.

Some brief background: I've been into pee for as long as I can remember. It started when I was very young and always wondered how girls pee. Since then, I've been fascinated with it.

My interests about it: I like watching girls pee. Basic normal toilet pees are fine, but what really turns me on is peeing elsewhere, where they're not "supposed to". This can include various places inside or outside. Examples can be bathtubs, sinks, inside containers, cups, backyards, in public, etc. The more creative, the better.

I would love to meet a female pee buddy that fits any of the criteria listed above.

Send me a message on here if you're interested. 😉


r/dirtypeepals • • 19h ago

30 [M4F] NY Shy guy looking to get his dick pissed on Bonus if u have a bush. NSFW

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My main kinks involving pee are having my dick pissed on, and wanting to control a girls bladder,espically if I can make u squirm in public. About me: I'm a gentle not extremely dominant but caring guy, I'm 5'8, dad bod. I'm always willing to hear out ideas and talk things through. I'd like to say I'm a lot more patient with shy people as i tend to be abit shy myself. I'm huge into anime, video games, TCGs, and hentai. I think I can talk about just a bout anything so interest aren't a huge issue.


r/dirtypeepals • • 23h ago

22 [M4F] #Online Looking for a girl to control my bladder and make it bulge NSFW

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As the title says, I'm looking for a girl to control my bladder. Tell me how much to drink, give me challenges to do with a full bladder, etc... if you want, I'll send photos of my bladder bulge (it usually gets pretty big when I get full.)

Dms are open, just open with a bit about yourself and what you're into/have in mind and I'll respond as soon as I see it! If this post is still up, dms are still open!


r/dirtypeepals • • 1d ago

45 [M4F] (Roleplay) Keeping watersports in the family NSFW

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Hi! I'm looking for a fellow fan of both watersports and incest between consenting adults to play a female family member - mom, daughter, or sister, in roughly that order of preference - for a roleplay that sees the two of us finding out we have a mutual interest in pee play (or developing one together).

Firstly, this won't be a dom/sub thing. I don't mind including some aspects of that, but more in a playful way, and I'd like both of us to give and receive equally. I'm also not into holding or only drinking.

I like to keep things pretty realistic, with the characters reacting naturally, feeling hesitation and uncertainty at doing something sexual (or trying to pretend it isn't) with a family member, but persuading themselves that it's just a way for them both to explore something they wouldn't have a chance to otherwise. They might put rules in place such as keeping eyes closed, or clothes on, no touching, and so on, but over time those rules will get broken more and more often as they test their boundaries. Having said that, one area where I'd like to eventually bend realism a bit is with ignoring the clean-up consequences of our acts!

Some of the more specific scenarios I'd enjoy exploring are: Being temporarily forced to stay together in a combined space with no privacy, having to pee in front of each other and coming to enjoy it; one of us offering to pee in front of the other in an effort to ease their obsession, or almost out of pity; starting with one of us accidentally walking in on the other, and then trying to make it happen again and raising suspicion; initially treating sexual arousal almost as a side issue compared to exploring watersports together, only later fully incorporating it as we get more relaxed with the idea.

I also love the idea of the two of us trying to keep things "proper" for as long as we can, ignoring any growing lust we might feel - after all, we're just trying to explore watersports together, not break taboos. So we'd do things like keeping as many clothes on as possible... at first. But over time we'd wear less and less, telling ourselves and each other that we're just being practical...

So anyway, I hope that gives you an idea of the kind of thing I have in mind! Among my other kinks are cumplay, dirty talk/name calling, rough sex, squirting, and fisting.

J x


r/dirtypeepals • • 1d ago

27 [F4A] Anyone else holding? NSFW

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I’m thinking of having some more fun tonight at my bladders expense. I’ve just started drinking after peeing about an hour ago, I’d love to hold with someone or to simply give that control over and be made to drink over and over until I can’t take anymore x


r/dirtypeepals • • 1d ago

38 [M4F] looking for a woman to talk about her peeing interests. London NSFW

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Hi everyone,

As the title suggests, I’m eager to connect with women who share an interest in pee-related experiences

I've been fascinated by peeing women since my early teens, and the more I explored it, the more intriguing it became. Initially, I was drawn to the act of peeing itself, just in a typical setting like a bathroom. But then I discovered that some women enjoy the thrill of doing it in more adventurous places, like outdoors where they might almost get caught - such a bold, exhibitionist twist! But it doesn't stop there. Some women take it even further, indulging in the thrill of peeing in unconventional places like hotel room floors, furniture, or clothes. That level of naughtiness is something I find incredibly exciting! What sparks this interest, I wonder? And there's more! Some enjoy wetting their panties (by far the most intriguing one for me), others like holding it in until they can’t anymore, some even enjoy peeing on their partners, or drinking it.

As I grew older and explored this fascinating fetish more deeply, it was like discovering a world of endless possibilities. Each new aspect was like tasting a different sweet treat for the first time - each one unique and delicious in its own way.

So, if you’re a woman who enjoys any aspect of peeing - whether it’s simply for relief, holding it in, or anything else - and you'd like to chat about it, feel free to send me a message. I’d be happy to connect.


r/dirtypeepals • • 1d ago

26 [M4F] — Looking for Ladies ready for piss structure, consistency, bladder control and training NSFW

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Hello ladies!

I’m looking for a submissive female who wants to be fully trained and have their bladder controlled by me.

To sum things up, I’m a busy working guy with a busy schedule but I’m always down to talk with you ladies.

I love all things pee including: wetting, public peeing, (my two favorite) and voyeurism (watching)

If you can’t tell, I really get off on women especially BBWs (I find you all attractive) peeing and letting me watch, I also love watching girls wet or pee any time, and I love women who aren’t shy about sharing videos/pics of themselves peeing and wetting with me.

Ideally and preferably I would like something daily and longterm but if and when either one of us or both of us are busy on a given day, we can sit down and figure out what to do.

I’m willing to share more about myself and present a visual of myself (without my face due to my career)

Details about me:

- I’m average height 5’10 1/2

- I weigh 158 (I’m actively working on losing some more weight and gaining muscle)

- Though I was once a slim skinny guy, I’m not anymore. If that’s what you’re looking for, I’m not it.

- I’m in the US central time zone

What I’m looking for/like in a woman:

- I want someone who I am compatible with

- I want someone who is fully submissive

- I’d like someone with a curvy figure

- I like women with a phat juicy ass, thick thighs and big boobs (Bonus if you’re a BBW)

- I want someone who is not ashamed of being thick, juicy and pretty

- I want someone who feels safe and comfortable fully submitting and being vulnerable with me

- I’d love someone who might have big arealos, any form of cellulite, a fat ass that jiggles every time you move and that eats up your panties, and a perfectly smooth shaven body

- I’d like someone who likes (TPE — Total Power Exchange and or free use - Though TPE isn’t a dealbreaker)

- I want someone ready to be told: when, where and how to pee at any given time.

What I’m into/looking for from a female sub:

- Giving instructions/tasks

- Mild Humiliation

- Watersports/Pee/Wetting/Desperation

- Wardrobe control/Dressing/dolling you up

- Public Play (I’m willing to explain and discuss this in more detail)

And so much more…

Things I’m not into/Hard Limits:

- Extreme Degradation

- Age/Race/Pet play

- Scat

- Blood/Gore/Vomit

- Collaring

- Hookups

- Blackmail

- Anything illegal

I look forward to hearing from you.

— Thank you!

Serious Inquiries ONLY please

If you resonate with what I've written above and would like to reach out, please DM me and tell me your age, sex, location, a general description of your appearance including your body build (and or a pic if you're comfortable), and what interested you about my post.


r/dirtypeepals • • 1d ago

22 [M4F] I love to Pee all around the House NSFW

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Hey I'm 22 and from Europe. I don't know why but I really enjoy Peeing all around the House all the Time. Doesn't matter If its on the Floor, the Bed (with protector ofc) or just anywhere that isn't the Toilet.

I would like to find some People who enjoy this as much as I do. Id love to Chat about our Experiences or Fantasies. Maybe Trade some of our ''Adventures'' Or I'll just show them off to you.

Please Message me with your ASL so I don't have to ask everybody.


r/dirtypeepals • • 1d ago

29 [M4F] #Florida/Online - Lets Chat About A Public Piss Fantasy I Have! NSFW

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29 years old, 5'11", fit build, submissive. I have a fantasy in particular that i can’t stop thinking about lately. I’d love to tell you all about it! Ill answer any questions you have, and would love to hear your fantasies as well. Message me and let’s chat!


r/dirtypeepals • • 1d ago

26 [M4F/A] I’ve been holding for hours #Online #sweden NSFW

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I don’t think I can hold it much longer, and I’m looking for guidance.

My bladders is so full that i cannot even stay hard anymore, i dare you to try

Its a big plus if we can meetup but online works aswell.

Dm me!


r/dirtypeepals • • 2d ago

44 [M4F] #Colorado - Peeing outside is more fun with a friend NSFW

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I've always liked peeing outside, and it adds a little extra fun to a night out, long drive/road trip, a hike, things like that. Ideally, I'd like to find someone local to enjoy this with on a regular basis

If this resonates with you, DM me and tell me some of your favorite places to go


r/dirtypeepals • • 2d ago

28 [M4F] #Germany looking for a femdom or women who is open for a lot of pee play it you want i could become your good boy too ps: i am a eater and like to drink a lot of pee and cum maybe a good Combination to make vou cum all over my face or mouth NSFW

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Hev i am looking for a women/femdom who is into pee play like drink it or shower and much more and if you are interested could become your good boy I am about 175cm 110 kg and open for a lot just ask what vou want to know or try out if vou want to try out new things or something that you think it really nasty don't hold back just ask i am pretty sure i can make you desire come true


r/dirtypeepals • • 2d ago

31 [M4F] Cincinnati/online - looking for wetting friends NSFW

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Looking for women to chat about wetting. I like all piss play, but wetting is my favorite. Especially panties/pants, but any type of wetting like bed and diaper too. We can share stories, wet together, anything else really.

Bonus points you're into butt stuff too, as that's another big kink I have. Both giving and receiving.

I've got plenty of other kinks too and I'd love to explore your other kinks. Let's get dirty together 😉. Send me a chat with your age, gender, and some of your kinks if you're interested


r/dirtypeepals • • 2d ago

38 [M4F] #Melbourne (Aus) or #Online - looking for like-minded peeple :) NSFW

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Hey peeple! Hoping to chat with, exchange pics/vids or ideally meet up someone who's just as into watersports as I am! Favourites include peeing in random places, wetting through clothes, holding/desperation, powerful streams/lots of pee, peeing on each other (especially during sex) etc.

Ideally ongoing if we click, but open to a fun once-off too!


r/dirtypeepals • • 2d ago

33 [M4F] #online Send me vids every time you pee NSFW

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it’s a huge turn on for me Would love it if you sent me vids every time you go pee. body type unimportant all you need is to be 18+

Whether you want to do it inside or outside, in the bathroom or around the house, I’m here for it.

No need to be shaven or hairy in into it all. Bonus points if you look at my other posts and they catch your eye.

Still looking if post is up don’t hesitate to msg me!


r/dirtypeepals • • 3d ago

24 [24F4F/A] I’m officially out or porn! NSFW

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For a long time I’ve been collecting hot porn pics I’ve found online or on here and occasionally stuff people sent to me JUST for me to use as my personal toilets for the day. I got the collection up to like 52 at its max and today I just used the final pic 😭😭
I’ve had so much fun taping them to the bowl of my toilet, stringing them across the lip of my trash can, cutting out holes in their mouths, ass, or pussy as targets, or just laying them on the ground and pissing alll over them but it def made my masterbating addiction worse lol
If you have a printer and like pee PLEEEASE print off pics to use as your toilet for EVERYTHING ;)
If anyone has good site recommendations or wants to ask any questions about it or talk to me about peeees feel free!


r/dirtypeepals • • 3d ago

42 [M4F] #Canada #Online Looking for a sub interested in pee play NSFW

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I am a 42 year old dom from western Canada. And I am looking for a female sub who either enjoys piss play, or is at least curious about it. I am open to both online and in person. Watersports is one of my favorite kinks, but it also a limit for 2/3's of subs I talk to. So if the idea of it turns you on, I would love to hear from you. Some things I have enjoyed with previous subs involve bladder control. I like making you hold it in until you are desperate, and then forcing you to edge or masturbate while struggling to hold it in. Or just just have you complete a task in order to get permission to pee.

I also enjoy pissing on your body, or having you piss on yourself. For example peeing into a glass and then dumping it on your face, or tits. Or laying on your back with your legs raised above you, and peeing on yourself. I also like watching you pee yourself, either in fully clothed or in just panties.

If you are really into this kink, I like having you drink or taste it. This can be from me pissing directly into your mouth, or having you pee into a glass and take a sip or drink it. Peeing on the floor, and having to lick it up, or into a bowl and lapping it up. One thing I really like doing that combines a lil of each is having you pee edge while desperate, until you are both desperate to cum and desperate to pee. Then having you piss yourself, and peel the panties off. Then stuff them in your mouth like a gag, and keep them there until you make yourself cum. So the faster you cum, the faster you can spit them out.

I have many other kinks as well that don't involve piss play, just let me know what else you are into.


r/dirtypeepals • • 2d ago

51 [M4F] Looking to chat about pee play, and eventually pee together, online (either audio or video). NSFW

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I'm looking for a woman to chat about pee play and eventually pee together once we're comfortable with each other.

I'm in no rush. I'm happy to just talk about pee play, share experiences (I've done quite a bit of it with partners) and just enjoy ourselves on a voice app. Once we've spoken once or twice, maybe pee together on audio, and eventually, if we're both comfortable, on video chat.

I'm looking for honest conversation with someone who wants to share the experience. I'm not into degrading play at all, so if that's your thing, I'm not your guy. I find pee play sensual.

Please be in North America, please don't be married, and try to say more than "hi".🙂 Here's an idea; tell me what most excites you about pee play.


r/dirtypeepals • • 3d ago

35 [M4F] #online - Who else enjoys watching golden rain showers? NSFW

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I’ll cut right to it, I find it incredibly hot to watch women pee and be watched in turn. I enjoy all of the other pee-related activities and often fantasize about it, but there’s just something so hot about watching an intimate moment. If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, send me a message!


r/dirtypeepals • • 3d ago

29 [M4F] #Online #DC Area - Looking for someone into peeing in public, outdoors, risky, unusual places or wetting NSFW

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Hi,

I’m looking for someone fun who's into any of the various forms of pee-play that I like including peeing in public, outdoor, risky, and/or unusual places, going in front of others, desperation and wetting.

For most of these scenarios, I prefer to watch, guide or assist rather than do it myself so I’d love to speak to someone who enjoys being the main subject. That said, I am open to actually participating in some of the peeing in situation like peeing in public/outdoors/risky places or in front of people if I have a worthy pee buddy that I'm joining.

If any of this interests you, send me a message. It would be good to know what you’re looking for upfront, but I'm open to going in a few different directions with this.

Note: I don’t want to hear about your current/ex BF's kink, so please don’t reply if that’s all you have.

—

IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE PLEASE INCLUDE your age and sex


r/dirtypeepals • • 3d ago

23 [M4F] #Online #Munich Athletic outdoorsy guy looking for someone who gets the thrill of peeing in unconventional places NSFW

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Hey :)

I’m 23, pretty athletic, and happiest when I’m moving — hiking, climbing, being outside, that kind of thing. I like people who are curious, a little mischievous, and not afraid of a bit of shared adventure.

What really turns me on is the feeling of peeing together in places we’re “not supposed to.” That free, slightly forbidden rush when you both decide the normal rules don’t apply for a moment. It’s not about desperation or rushing — more like a private game we’re both in on, teasing each other and enjoying the release in a place that feels a little wrong in the best way.

A couple of pictures that live in my head:

• A whole day at home where we deliberately skip the toilet and get creative instead. Shower, sink, plant pot, bucket… whatever feels right in the moment. Just the two of us turning something ordinary into something playful and a bit naughty.

• Out hiking or climbing, far from anyone, and one of us casually suggests we don’t bother finding a proper spot. Behind a tree, off the trail, somewhere quiet. Watching each other, laughing about it, feeling completely free.

I’m looking for someone around 18–35 who feels that same little spark from the unconventional and the shared secret. Totally fine to start slow — just chatting, swapping fantasies, maybe pictures if it feels natural. If the chemistry is there and we both want more, we can talk about meeting up. Zero pressure, ever.

If any of this made you smile or got you thinking, message me with your age, rough location, and which part of it lights you up the most (or just say hi and tell me what you’re into). Looking forward to hearing from you.